Victoria, you have clearly not paid attention to the posters who gave you wise and sensible advice over the last year !! Was THAT wise? Also, insulting people is not going to make the helpful posters like you at all.

can one “fish in burger king” and actually admit to doing so...i’m kind of impressed.

Fishing for foreign men? In a Burger King? And in hostels?

I literally just stared at the answer box for a few minutes. You just raped my mind. Wow.

What are you, a prostitute? And don't give me that "But I'm so innocent and looking for true love" bullshit. You go fishing for foreign men in hostels and fast food restaurants, and think only looks matter, you're not fooling anyone.

You are childish. You are a hypocrite. You are a slut. You are everything that could be wrong in a woman. Face the facts.

I know you won't listen nor try to change. But just know that no one will try to help you ever again here, and you will most likely live miserably for the rest of your life. You'll deserve it (but probably won't even once question yourself, because you're you. And you suck.)

AND WHO THE HELL TRIES TO FIND A SIGNIFICANT OTHER IN A GOD DAMNED BURGER KING ANYWAY? WHAT THE FUCK, VIC?

I finally realize the truth. Victoria is amazingly beautiful, and I wish I could've been with her instead of my blushing virgin bride.

I've been wrong about her all along. It's not her, it's us. Guys and gals, wake up and smell the coffee... we're blinded by our jealousy of all these men who are able to have a chance with the wonderful Victoria.

If only we could have a chance to spend just a few minutes in the presence of her overwhelming greatness. It sucks to be us... oh well, maybe some day we'll get a chance to ask her for the time of day.

I love pretty women, just like the next guy, but when I go to Burger King and I see a pretty girl, the last thing on my mind is how am I going to hit on her.  I always think, I cannot wait to sink my teeth into this tasty Wopper.  I hope there is a girl thaat looks like her at the western style bar I am going to later because I will hit on the girl who looks like that there.  When I am at a hostel and I see a pretty girl, I usually sit close enough to her and wait for an opening to talk to her.  Works almost every time.  Hostels are pretty easy places to talk to people.  But even then to be honest I just want to meet some new people.  Not there to plow my next seaman catcher.  If it happens, well great, if not, no sweat.  When I meet someone in a hostel I feel we can be friends, we may travel to the next town together, but I do not think, "this is going to be the most important relationship I ever had."  If I have sex in a hostel, I know it is not going to be a continuous relationship as all relationships at a hostels never.  A hostel is a place to meet people and make quick friends, that may or may not last.  It is not a place to have a serious sexual relation.  Sex in the hostel is just for fun.  A hostel is a train station, no one stays.  Everyone has a different destination.  If you are lucky one year from now your friend you made in the hostel will click like on one of you pics you posed on facebook.  Sex in the hostel rarely (if never) leads to a committed relationship.  So if you go to Starbucks or a coffee shop, you will see people who may want to meet people, who might be living in that area.  It is more likely the guy you meet at Starbucks is there to chat, have some coffee, read a book and this may lead to some kind of meaningful sexual relationship.  Guys who go to Starbucks work or live close by.  Guys at the hostel do not live close by. And guys at Burger King want a Wopper.  People in China seem to not know why fast food is called fast food.  It is not because it speeds through your system like a race car.  It is because we go there for the relatively short time it takes to go, order, get your food, and go on.  Western people do not see fast food places as places to hang out at.  They are places to have a quick bite before they go to where they are going to hang out at.  Also, I know Chinese people think "bad people go there" and "people at bars only want one night stands" but if you go to a western bar you are also more likely to meet a guy who is more interested in a relationship.  Chances are you  will live or work close to there.  When you are there some guy will want to get his jollies by shagging you.  You need to decide, do you want to get your pipes cleaned, or do you want to wait and see if he is really into you.  Chances if he is really into you, he will call, text, qq or try to communicate with you in the next week or so.  Depends on his idea of the waiting period to call a girl back.  If you let him burry his sausage the first day, there is no way to ever know if he is into you or if he just like to have a reliable love hole.  Sorry my point is you need to go to places where men you live close by go to meet new people.  A relationship with a western man is like a red wine.  It will get stronger and more mature with time, or it will spoil.  But you can never tell which way it will go until you try.  What ever you do DO NOT MENTION MARRIAGE UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN HIS OFFICIAL GIRL FRIEND FOR 2 OR MORE MONTHS.  BTW, just because you let a boy plug your love gap does not make him your boyfriend.  And sometimes when I guy asks you out for coffee, he just wants coffee.  Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.         

Victoria, I have one simple question for you... why are you posting these questions on this forum??

From what I've read, you're not really interested in the answers that are given to you. I mean, apart from Silva and the girls, I think most replies have come from foreign men - the ones you are trying to get. They have been giving you , advice, which appears to be what your questions are asking for.

And yet, you continually ignore them!!! (and, often, insult and deride those who give you answer you obviously don't agree with)

Why is that?

And why do you keep posting these things???

Come on Victoria answer Shining-brows post we would all be interested to hear from you without you you just insulting or ignoring what we say. You were the one who made the original post and yet you disagree with everything you do not want to hear. You say we insult you, not true, we simply state it as it is. Have you never heard the expression that says " If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck it probably is a duck". Well what we see from your posts is that you want a foreign husband, yet you tell us you turned down a job overseas where you could meet many more eligible young men to stay here and try your luck. Your favorite stalking places are hostels and fast food joints even though you say the chance of success is low, so why not change where you look. You have insulted black people and people with a hearing impairment, and in doing so showed your ignorance and prejudice. You have insulted most of the people here who, as far as I see, have offered you genuinely good advice simply because you did not like it. When you ask for advice sometimes you are going to get opinions that are different to yours, that does not mean you are free to insult the people that gave them. I know a lady here in Nanning of similar age to you with a similar lifestyle to yours when it comes to men. The reputation she has earned herself is appallingly low, in fact most of the people who know her say they have more respect for a prostitute simply because with a prostitute it is a straight-forward deal and there is no dishonesty involved. The only men who go with her are those that want an hour of fun and nothing more, she sees them all as potential long term boyfriends in the same way as you do. For most western men they would seriously lose face by being associated with someone like that. I know you will not like this but carrying on the way you do you will garner the same reputation. If you genuinely want what you say you want then take a long look in the mirror and recognise that you have to change. Please come back and reply to Shining-brows post but do it honestly and without resulting to childish tantrums and insults

Victoria: The smallest particle of matter known to mankind is the quark. Quarks make up the hadrons (protons and neutrons) inside an atom, so are very miniscule indeed.

However, even a quark is enormous when compared to the interest I have in your imagined dramas. Incredibly and hugely enormous.

If there is any reality to your stories, I would suggest you turn gay, wear a collar and chain, and hook up with a much older Japanese woman. It may be the only hope you have of finding a life partner.

I would like to apologize to everyone on this board for wasting their time, forcing them to read my well-meaning advice to someone who clearly has no power of reason.

If I am offered advice, that I asked for, I like to think about it and see how I can apply it to my own life. I then thank the person for their time, even if I don’t agree with what they have told me. I would especially thank strangers as I know they are not under any obligation to help me.

Courtesy in public is something I have been brought up to show, and I have found it impossible to change this. It doesn’t cost much, and it means that I would hope people are willing to help in the future. Likewise, if someone asks me for advice, I help where I can. It is the polite thing to do. Name-calling and insulting strangers in public is something I left behind me when I was 10 years old and didn’t know any better.

"We women don't go for a guy who has a problem (with) his hearing"

... not to put to fine a point on this, Vicky, but DO NOT INCLUDE ME IN THIS DISGUSTING POST! Personally, I, as a women, do NOT want to be included with these opinions. I highly doubt Jnus, maggie, sorrel or any other girly poster does either.

You see Victoria you have just gone and done it again. Showing us how immature and stupid you really are. You say many "wise" friends on QQ have told you how rude we are here. You are just repeating what others have said to you, can you not just make your own mind up for once. Maybe that is why you have not replied in a civilized manner to those of us who have asked you why you ignore good advice from many different people and why you keep on posting the same sort of questions. When I first came across your posts I thought you were ok now I realise you are just a silly little girl who doesn't want advice, you just want lots of people to agree with you in order to boost your own feelings of how wonderful you are. Pure delusion.

Hi Vicky,

I've been living and working in China for almost 10yrs.7yrs in Shanghai.I understand how you really feel.However,if you don't mind,I will like to have a drink with you.

Thanks.

I dated a hooker, and she didn't have to pick up men in burger king, they came to her. So you can't get men in a BK? How many men have ever turned down free sex?

I just read this entire thread.  It made me really sad.  Attraction isn't just about looks (and telling everyone how attractive you are, is really unattractive), it's also about values, intelligence, and character.  Wow, I can't believe how sad this thread is...

My guess is that she keeps posting things because she gets so many reactions.  And here I am, contributing to it.  But I bet if not ONE SINGLE PERSON responded to any of her posts, she would go away... 

Vicky I am starting to get desperate here now.   can you make a guess appearance on my Sex in China on a 30 day visa . just talk about your last 30 visits to the hostel after going to burger king for a job interview     thanks in advance     you can wear the bunny suit if you want

This thread is crazy, Victoria, give up the whole 'I have face value'..

Sometimes it's okay to be wrong, you need to take everyone's advice wisely and not come back with the same issues over and over and over.. You get the point.

.. By the way, where is the Admin on this one?

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.” -Cicero

“Good men and bad men differ radically. Bad men never appreciate kindness shown them, but wise men appreciate and are grateful. Wise men try to express their appreciation and gratitude by some return of kindness, not only to their benefactor, but to everyone”

-Buddha  (Hindu Prince Gautama Siddharta, the founder of Buddhism, 563-483 B.C.)

“I'm not insecure. I've been through way too much f**king sh*t to be insecure. I've got huge balls. But I've been humbled. That makes you grateful for every day you have.”
-Drew Barrymore  (American Actress, b.1975)