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Q: Conflicting views on breast size in China?
I find very strange how the girls and women I have known in China have conflicting ideas on breast size and happiness. Almost all are unhappy with their bodies, but somehow manage to contradict themselves quite often. On one hand they say they don't want to have large breasts because it's not seen well at all in China (makes them appear to be too sexual), while on the other hand, the bras they wear are all very heavily padded. Are they lying for face or just confused? Do people really look down or judge women for having larger breasts?
Please don't make me start talking about breasts in china........the forum will rain thumbs down on me....but let me just do it.......but seriously i think some of the chinese girls don't need to use a bra......now am done...tried to say this in the most proper way i can find......Rain man.let it rain.....LOL
It's a love hate relationship with the west.
My gf has asked me for augmentation surgery because she is jealous of the breasts she sees in expat bars with me. I keep telling her noooooooo.
Big breasts are very much appreciated in china.. and all girls want to show their's bigger than what it actually is... this is the answer for padded bras..
And also pushing the breast up to have more clear clevage shown out is also considered very sexy..
But again big breast if comes part of fat body.. its a no no.. also u cant have Dcup on a slim 40kg body... but in general.. 99.999% of them.. they want bigger than what they actually have.. no doubt about it..
Let's start with my preferences, just to get that out of the way, I prefer small breasts and a petite frame, not boyish, but no more then a B cup.
I do see the preference in China for petite frames and hence, in general, a preference for smaller breast sizes. The apparent contradiction when it comes to heavily padded bras etc, is, I believe, because while they want small breasts they do want a curvy figure, so, as so many have very small breasts a padded bra, is the answer. Push up bras don't work unless you have something to push up and anyway, by and large, cleavage on display is frowned upon in China.
P.S. For those who prefer large breasts, I say two things; 1. Gravity always wins in the end and 2. Just look at 60 year old women who had large breasts; still find them attractive?
Hugh.G.Rection:
I'd get that sorted if I were you, my wife is 45Kg and if I said she was 50Kg I'd need new testicles!
mArtiAn:
Yeh Hugh, i'm guessing that if she's 60, she could have knockers like Pamela Anderson's, i'm still very unlikely to find her attractive.
Do forgive me any older ladies out there reading, that's life though, innit? I'm 44 and my tits are nearly as big as my wife's. What can you say, except "It wasn't meant to be this wayyy!!!"
mArtiAn:
Oh, they're not that bad, but it's age, innit? Moobs and a pot belly. Reckon they're here to stay now.
I prefer rater small sizes...
Small barest also is more convenient in "later years", longer firm and well shaped, then "big boobs" preferred in some cultures 
Yeah,if their breasts are too large,there will be problems.Some people may think the girls are too sexy and the breasts are too large to be real and maybe the girls do jobs illegal.But as most guys like sexy girls, it is also a problem if the girls' breasts are as small as mine.Then some girls may do something to make their breasts larger.As you can see,how large a breast will be seen as appropriate ,it is really a problem.They can't make it too small or too large.Ok,it makes my mouth water.
As with the cutesy-pie act that Chinese girls drag out for so long, I believe this boobies conundrum is one born of being raised in such a patriarchal society. In the west there's a saying that a man wants a lady in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom, but in the west women are more liberated in their thinking and so are more ready to accept themselves as one or the other or whatever else. In China the men are just men, and have those same desires in a woman and as a consequence I think that maybe a lot of the women here are still trying to fit into 'both' of those roles, hence the apparent duality in their desire for bigger/smaller boobs. Personally though, I think they should just get one boob done and then 'hey presto' everybody's happy!
I love women breasts, so I really don't mind big or small.
Here in China is quite a serious topic for girls as they want to differentiate themselves from other girls. Most part of Chinese girls have black hair, so dying hair brown or blond is already a way to look differently from other girls. Breast enhancement is another way to distinguish a girl from others.
For a society who has a long tradition of thinking that girls are useless, this mentality is certainly anchored in girls' brain too. They valorize their body only through its physical aspect and if it doesn't meet some standards (which is often the Western standard), they may feel not up to it. As you can see, the trend in China is currently breast enhancement advertisement.
Women breasts are almost always perfect and beautiful.
It is best said by the Nobel Scholar, Rodney Carrington:
Well it seems to me that this whole world's gone crazy
There's too much hate and killing goin' on
But when I see the bare chest of a woman
My worries and my problems are all gone
No one thinks of fightin', when they see a topless girl
Baby if you would show yours to, we could save the world
Show them to me, show them to me
Unclasp your bra and set those puppies free
They'd look a whole lot better without that sweater baby I'm sure you'll agree
If you got two fun bags,
Show them to me
I don't care if they don't match or if one's bigger than the other
You could show me one, and I'll imagine the other
Even if your really old, there's nothing wrong
Don't be sad, your boobs ain't bad, they're just a little long
Show them to me, show them to me
Lift up your shirt and let the whole world see
Just disrobe and show your globes and a happy man I'll be
If you've got dos chi chi's,
Show them to me
I've met a lot of them, but never one I hated
Even if you had thirteen kids and you think they look deflated
There's no such thing as a bad breast, I believe this much is true
If you're a big fat man I'm a titty fan and I'd love to see yours toooo
Show them to me, show them to me
Just like the girls gone wild on T.V.
Just lean back and show your rack and I'll be in ecstasy
If you got two casabas
Show them to me
All the world will live in harmony
It'll do ya good, it'll give me wood, we'll make history
If you love your country, I'm gonna say it one more time,
I said if you love your country yea
Then stand up and show them big old boobies to me
Here is the link to the song: http://ting.baidu.com/song/2545703?fm=altg3
I wish I had small boobs. My sister does, and I've always been jealous of that. One of my friends in China told me she was jealous of mine and wished hers were bigger. I told her she could have mine, I don't want them. I told her that it's not worth it, you don't really want them. I think that a lot of girls want the "S line," a curvy body. It goes along with wanting pale skin, high nose bridge, double eyelids. And I don't think it's just an influence from the west, because they also like Korean stuff, and that's closer to what they want.
I like petite women, always have. I think dainty and delicate are feminine. Most of the women I know at home are 5'10''. I like small boobs too. I think Chinese wear padded bras because they look better in clothing, but they look good unpadded with no clothing.
https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/8360724/neon-glitter-boobs-festival-beauty-trend/
how do you put glitter on a flat chest? This will be interesting.
