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Q: The dangers of loneliness faced by so many Chinese men?

According to NGOs, between 15 and 20 millions (CCP says 12 millions) Chinese girls were never born or killed at birth since 1980, double these numbers (roughly) to know how many men out here have no hope to ever find a life partner.

 

They are considered the biggest threat to China's future and stability by its leadership, 30 to 40 millions lonely men, angry men between 16 and 35, unable to fulfill their fundamental biological needs.

 

Wealthy men having 5 or 10 young mistresses doesn't help the situation as well.

 

Add to that the ever increasing number of Chinese ladies finding out they like girls, and you have an explosive situation.

 

We can assume without any doubt that the recent stabbing in Beijing and most other attacks on Foreign men or their Chinese partners are mostly motivated by the desperation of these Chinese men.

 

What do you think the long term consequences will be? More attacks on Foreigners? Increased rape cases? More social unrest?

 

Should we constantly fear for our life and that of our partner in this environment?

4 years 49 weeks ago in  General  - China

 
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self defense and fighting skills are not taught in china, be aware of your surroundings, 360 degree view at all times, no alleys, no nightclubs, and most important, throw the first punch and deny, deny later. if you need additional protection, a murse man purse, with a tazer and a flare gun is enough for the 2 legged creatured they call men in china.

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self defense and fighting skills are not taught in china, be aware of your surroundings, 360 degree view at all times, no alleys, no nightclubs, and most important, throw the first punch and deny, deny later. if you need additional protection, a murse man purse, with a tazer and a flare gun is enough for the 2 legged creatured they call men in china.

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I've seen Chinese men fight. I'm not so worried. To think that when I was a teenager I thought all Chinese men were like Bruce Lee. The fights I've seen between men in China were nothing short of laughable. The first one that I saw I had to ask my Chinese friend what was happening. He told me that the two men were fighting. I found it hard to equate with what I believed a fist fight should look like.

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Long term consequences? I've read that gender inbalance can be a recipe for social disaster in any society. When you have a huge number of young,pissed off, frustrated guys it doesn't take much to set them off (social injustice, unemployment) and before you know it you have some sort of revolution on your hands.

 

What I don't understand is all these guys who are pampered mummies boys with no social skills or real job prospects - the type of guy who is never going to be a success with the ladies - making a big thing about 'leftover women' not being an option.

28 is not old, especially now we're living in modern times, and let's face it, beggers can't be choosers.

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China solves problems in two ways: ignore/deny the problem, and starve/kill people. I have no doubt this problem will have the same solution. The gender imbalance was caused by deaths, and can only be solved by more deaths.

But unlike the CCP's normal attitude of ignoring problems, the state media does discuss this problem somewhat openly. I'm all for ignoring/denying it: who cares if 20-40 million assholes can't get an under-26 good-looking parasite to leech off them? No problem if you ask me. I have a great name for a Beijing Gay Bar: "Hey Assholes".

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The sound of 45 million men fapping. A scary thought. Although perhaps a new form of renewable energy? Always a silver lining.

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I agree 100% with some of the comments eortisio has made.

 

The problem in China is total non compliance with the 8 out of ten rule. Take ten couples, seperate them. and ask them to rate photos of people of the opposite sex from one to 10.

 

One goes with one, two goes with two and so on.

 

The problem here is that the strange people go unmarried. The strange people remain un-marriied rather than marry another strange person.  Because everyone want's a perfect partner.  So the girls who are a little bit less than perfect (maybe has a big bum) go off and become a low value mistress to be abused.

 

I blame the matriachial society.

 

 

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I suspect many Chinese men will end  going the way smilir to the Japanese herbivore men.

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