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Q: Did anybody suddenly find Chinese women unattractive?

The steady supply of beauties is what has kept me in China for a few years, but lately I've been seeing them through a different lens or something.  They're thin but don't have any "meat" in the right places.  Without makeup they look quite plain and a bit androgynous... like it's hard to tell the women from the men.  Maybe it's their personalities, or the Chinese character in general, that I have developed a distaste for.  oh and the hairy armpits, rough voices, rare bathing and gross teeth don't help.  So now I have absolutely no reason to stay here. 

 

Has anybody else experienced this change of pinwei?  Anybody else suddenly find that all the ladies in the street look either dirty and mean or just ugly in general? 

 

PS: not waisis

7 years 6 days ago in  Shopping - Hangzhou

 
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I'm the opposite. I didn't see the appeal for a long time, but now I definitely do. I'm thin and a guy, so I'm really only attracted to the thin, leggy types. 

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Yes.

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Is it because I told you the european chicks aren't as sour as you think?

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My wank bank is changing, sir

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In my city they are all beautiful.

The best were in Fujian last year, all driving vespas in minisangel me: 'I can see your undies, lalalala....'

 

Italian women could be hotter, however 'Ital-she' are driving vespas in long jeans.......but here you're talking about the taste, so:

 

'De gustibus non est disputandum'

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Unfortunately old ladies drive e-bikes in Tianjin commando style. One of the few times I was saddened by seeing a vagina.

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I had blast last year for few months. Then, I got dismissed surprise for unrelated matter (to the vespas view).

In Fujian, cows have hump......I've never seen this before.....Fujian is different.

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"The steady supply of beauties" ??

... change your supply line...

Things should be back to normal again.

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I've had a related situation arise.  I think the girls glasses here are cute/sexy.  But, recently a friend decided she needed to get serious and find a boyfriend before being labeled a sheng nv.  So she went and got contact lenses and took those silly studio photos.  Not nearly as attractive w/o the specs.  

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I have to ask...why is this question listed in the Hangzhou shopping section ?

Are you shopping for non-chinese looking women in Hangzhou ?!

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Just browsing.

7 years 5 days ago
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Only when they lean over and spit!

 

(or do a pathetic animal-like whine)

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Dig a little deeper in more ways than one then you'll find an interesting one, but then they'll smother you.  In the bigger cities like Shanghai there is a variety of personalities that you can meet...the countryside girl coming to the big city, the foreign educated independent, the hardworking traditional serious, the recent explorative graduate, and the list continues. Smile  In reference to male practicalities, Chinese lean is better than American beefy so versatility doesn't become an intense workout but instead more like yoga. wink wink  

 

But the challenge is in having a down to real conversation.  Wait, does a man really like conversing?

bojackhorseman:

maybe I'm spoiled here haha

 

Beefy sounds much worse to me than bony

7 years 4 days ago
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I love conversing, I would never even consider dating a girl who can't hold a discussion on many and various in depth topics such as philosophy, science or world views. Yes I find brainy girls hot at hell, the geeky ones are also usually the dirtiest minded. And finally smart girls are usually very low maintenance, they find fulfillment in intellectual cost-free or low-cost activities such as reading or learning for the sake of learning, no such thing as expensive shopping sessions. And I am talking about the cute nerdy girls with glasses not the manjaws.

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You said "Without makeup they look quite plain and a bit androgynous"

Chinese or any other nationality , why do u think u have a right to say such a thing about any women?!

 Men don't hardly do anything for appearances , and they get treated just fine!

Perhaps , it is the time to think more fairly ! Each person has his/her own beauty!

It's kind of harsh to judge others like this!

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The reason I no longer find Chinese women attractive is that they pride themselves on looks alone.  It's like saying a mannequin is sexy.  The plastic human is pleasing upon first glance, but hollow and without substance.    I used to think they were the prettiest creatures on Earth, but now I just see a bunch of iPhone morons, and this is what makes them ugly.

 

And of course, that only goes for the majority.  There are plenty of lovely, interesting, intelligent, sexy women here.  It's just too bad they are so rare. Also, men should take care of themselves as well! I exercise, buy expesive shaving products, dress well, etc

7 years 4 days ago
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Fair enough! Actually  i can't give an opinion about being in a relationship with a Chinese girl! Because I'm a girl too! Generally based on appearance i think they look fine ! But my issue was about your way of judging a women!

Alright! i got it! u had bad experiences with them and u changed ur mind!

No matter where she comes from,I hope u will find a girl who has a beautiful appearance and More importantly perfect personality ,Good luck!

 

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@j89:  you seem like an absolutely wonderful person

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J89, bojack has a right to state his sexual preferences. To say that he doesn't find chinese women to physically beautiful without tons of makeup is not an evil thing to say.

 

He's not saying they are bad people because they lack physical beauty. He's saying they tend to be boring people, and he is no longer impressed with their looks.

 

I personally think this whole "all women are beautiful and no one has a right to say otherwise!" is counterproductive.

 

Man or woman, physical beauty is something a person can either have or not have. In many cases it's something you can work on...for example by putting on muscle, losing fat or even just basic stuff like improving posture, demeanor etc.

 

We should be telling women that their value as human beings depends on their actions and behavior; that they CAN (but not necessarily are) be great people regardless of what they look like.

 

Trying to just say that all women are beautiful and it's wrong to say otherwise just reinforces the idea that a woman's worth is what she looks like...not what she does.

7 years 3 days ago
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Totally agree with above statement, we should judge women on their personality and inner self rather than their physical appearance, the later being objectification of women at its worst. More Chinese women should develop nice and interesting personalities, be able to converse on many and various topics (be it in Chinese or else) rather than being pokerfaced dolls whose only "advantage" is to have a vagina. Stand up ladies and be more than fancy sex toys in the eyes of men.

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I'm the opposite. I didn't see the appeal for a long time, but now I definitely do. I'm thin and a guy, so I'm really only attracted to the thin, leggy types. 

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My mother oddly said it best about Chinese women.."They are either beautiful...or they're not."

 

Personally, I like women with dark hair, brown eyes and tan skin, so Chinese women fit the bill for me. I am married to a Chinese woman, who, although now 50 years old, I still find very attractive and has a nice body, and when she "makes herself up" looks really good. Seriously. I teach at a college and look at beautiful girls all day long. But most 18-20 year old females are attractive wherever, so it is a wash.

 

Not to be gross (really) but I like that the women keep their pubic hair and does not shave it off and look like some Barbi doll down there. Pubic hair is part of a woman's beauty and it shows she is a mature woman. If I wanted bald pussy, I would troll the playgrounds..(sex offender. FBI background check for you!)

 

When it comes down to it, it is what someone likes or not likes. Not sexually, the cutest, most adorable Chinese people are the old folks and the babies, or a grandma with a baby. So adorable!

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My mother oddly said it best about Chinese women.."They are either beautiful...or they're not."

 

Personally, I like women with dark hair, brown eyes and tan skin, so Chinese women fit the bill for me. I am married to a Chinese woman, who, although now 50 years old, I still find very attractive and has a nice body, and when she "makes herself up" looks really good. Seriously. I teach at a college and look at beautiful girls all day long. But most 18-20 year old females are attractive wherever, so it is a wash.

 

Not to be gross (really) but I like that the women keep their pubic hair and does not shave it off and look like some Barbi doll down there. Pubic hair is part of a woman's beauty and it shows she is a mature woman. If I wanted bald pussy, I would troll the playgrounds..(sex offender. FBI background check for you!)

 

When it comes down to it, it is what someone likes or not likes. Not sexually, the cutest, most adorable Chinese people are the old folks and the babies, or a grandma with a baby. So adorable!

icnif77:

I met one beauty last week, and I missed at the 'age estimation'. We (Caucasians) can't tell approx. age of Asians or Africans.

She's a bit taller than me, but am most likely older than her pop.no

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They loose

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another narrow minded post plus some of narrow minded comments

oh my god i'm talking like a westener!

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Shut yer gob

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After five years of marriage there are indeed times when I have, yes.

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