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Q: Did you ever see a Chinese guy tying up his girlfriend's shoelaces?

What your take? Would you do that for your significant other? Would you like him/her to tie up your shoe laces in public?

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Some men like their girlfriends/wives to act like helpless 5 year olds.  

 

I have done it for my wife when she was holding one of our babies, but that is different from the guys who's girlfriends ask them to do it just as a show of control.

 

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if this has to be asked to...then there is no point....

it shoud be spontaneous and happen maybe once a year....:D

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Bit of extreme show of affection, but he could be going for an up skirt look.

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My wife is 7 months pregnant so I do help her with her shoes and I do tie her laces. When she wasn't pregnant this didn't happen at all.

maggiegirly:

Sorry,i gave you a thumb down by an accident.i wish I Could take back but it seems i can not. You are sweet.and congrats for being a dad soon.

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derek:

Thank u Maggie.

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DaqingDevil:

I'm gonna give you a thumbs down Derek unless you buy me a Carlsberg Sunday night at the Kings!!

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I don't even tie my own shoe laces. All slip-ons.

nevermind:

Hippie.

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My Chinese boyfriend's always messing around, making sure my shoes/scarf/coat's done up, fixing my hair. I get pretty pissed sometimes--I'm not a child, I can take care of myself! But it's just one of the ways he shows that he cares, so usually I just roll with it. The hair fixing thing is really sweet, actually. On our second date he did it and i melted a little, haha.

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the lesson is. never buy your woman any kind of footwear with laces. 

 

(when I first read the question, I thought it was about fixing people to something to prevent them moving, glad it's not Smile )

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Not unless she was in the 3rd trimester. 

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Wait a minute, since when did platform shoes with 6'' heels have laces?

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That's why I married a woman and not a girl. Women learned how to tie their shoes a long time ago, or, if they didn't, have the common sense to buy ones with zippers.

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Good answers, guys. Thanks.

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i like tie  my husbands shoes it is so sexy . And why not he help me with it too?

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It's really an exchange favour. I tie her shoelaces - she ties me to the bed. I kinda like it!

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Never did that but my girlfriend did that for me on the street while we were walking...................Told her to stop but she still wanted to tie up my shoes

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