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Q: Differences between foreign and Chinese men
http://www.chinasmack.com/2013/stories/differences-between-chinese-men-a...
Is it just me, or does the Chinese complainer in this article completely miss the mark? It's easily the dumbest thing I've ever read.
Here are some gems:
"Which is to say, those girls who are relatively poor can stop dreaming of marrying those China laowai, [because] the probability is fairly low."
"most laowai make friends on social networks for the sole purpose of sex, for one-night stands, to use these girls to satisfy their physiological needs. "
"The richer a laowai is, the less willing he is to get married. What kind of laowai in China are most willing to get married? Generally they are English teachers. These laowai are very poor, where they feel even rent is a heavy burden, so they hope to find a girl to split the financial burden, to pay rent together, to lessen the stress in their lives." <= I'M CHOKING FROM LAUGHING SO HARD
I'll give all you Chinese guys some free advice: disregard the idiot ranitng in that article, he clearly has no idea what he's talking about; don't listen to your dumb, uneducated parents who only think of themselves 99% of the time -- be independent; be patient; and, most importantly, treat a woman like she's a human being. None of that other crap matters.
11 years 11 weeks ago in Relationships - China
In my experience,It's the confidence thing ,Most Chinese guys are not confident in front of girls,it really pisses me off.
Western guys are confident mostly which is great.
some western guys are too confident tho.
He can think what ever he thinks. But goes to show that this guy like some others and I use the word some will sit behind the computer all day long with their pants around their ankles looking at JAV movies and complain he cannot find a girlfriend or wife.
This is what I look at on some of his theories:
Looking for woman to help with rent - Well like most normal realtionships we do tend to share the bills.
Social Networking - Even when I was younger using myspace/facebook everyday I never and my friends never where on the prowl looking for one night stands. If we did we would GO OUT to the club.
The richer the Laowai - Well I think he has gotten this the oppisite. The richer the Chinese man the more second wives he needs to satify his ego.
Well said Hulk!!!!!! The article was probably written by some PUNK-*** Chinese LITTLE B**** MALE who hates foreign guys!!!!!!! LM..DAMN..A** off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol lol lol 
he he
Reply over and out!
the richer the foreigner is the more expensive the divorce would be, can we say prenup, most chinese girls think your money before you met them is yours to. not a chance in hell
Here's one:
A Chinese guy will get online and write an article about what dirt bags western men are, and how the local women should never date them. A western man lets the behavior of a Chinese man speak for itself.
Yes, I'm sick of paying rent! The rent is high and I cannot afford KFC. Sorry, my mistake, my rent is free. Poor me, a simple teacher.
Like Hulk said, treat women, girls, ladies, whatever name they prefer, with respect and you will be a king. They simply don't know how to treat a lady.
Equipment is irrelevant. Most women aren't hunting for big game.
I would comment on the whole article, but this clown is wrong so many times I lost count.
ambivalentmace:
memorize , no research , most of my students have no idea that english web sites have teacher salaries and free housing right in the ad. my wife ask me about buying a house and i said why ,i can live free anywhere teaching, then she said my apartment was small and i said how big do you want . she said , i dont understand, so i says , this university pays 6000 with 2 bedrooms. this university pays 4400 , 14 hours with 3 bedroom, how many crumb crunchers kids do you want. why buy a house. so her parents dont think im serious , but they stopped being pushy when i paid for the wedding dinner in cash without the red envelopes for 150 people.
when i lift the coat for my wife to slide her arms in like a gentlemen in a restaurant and take her coat when sitting in a restaurant , the chinese men give me a look like i raped their wife. they dont want to do the same thing for their lady.
bill8899:
Congratulations on your marriage. I wish you the best of everything.
I am 'old school' - because I'm old. It still surprises me how little things shape our feelings about people, more specifically our girlfriend or wife. Like others I'm surprised how little common courtesy is extended to ladies around here. However some Chinese men are gentlemen, and I'm sure they know the myriad benefits.
Good manners and treating ladies well is among the good answers to one of the repeated questions here and on other forums - 'Why do Chinese girls like foreigners?'
Actions speak louder than words.
Wow this dude obviously had a very negative experience in the civilized world.
To say he is insecure would be the understatement of the year.
While he makes many valid points he also generalizes beyond belief...this is nothing but a rant of excuses. Instead of making a 5 point essay of excuses to describe why he can't get the girls when we can...I would suggest he learn the lessons he has obviously studiously learned and apply them for his own benefit.
This is obviously an smart enough guy who is in serious need of a confidence boost that will never come from bagging a KTV girl on the boss' dime.
And where the f@#k are these rich girls shacking up with loawai's he speaks of? Can you introduce me to some? I might be willing to consider trading in my poor average (social class that is) gf for one of them....but on second thought no thanks...Chinese girls are high maintenance enough...I can't imagine what one of them may be like.
The REAL difference between us and them is that we put their happiness and pleasure ahead of our own at all costs when we love a woman...unlike that vast majority of Chinese men that see women or a future wife as a face gainer or a possession...the house and car are simply a tool to gain this.
It's just more of the same; scathing remarks and generalizations. I've heard it from both sides. So boring. Not interested. Someone gimme a beer.
This little nugget...fricking coffee got spewed onto my keyboard 
"Many Chinese men are very SB and direct, especially on the internet. Some Chinese men see a girl dressed relatively sexy and directly ask, “Young lady, how about a one-night stand? I’m 18 centimeters long.”
Scandinavian:
yeah, how silly the word long was used instead of tall
thedude:
Actually I think he embellished by adding the 1 before the 8.
MrTibbles:
"Ever since China opened up, beggars have disappeared from the streets in the West. " HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Oh my god, this is the ebst comedy piece I have read in ages. I'm homeless and can't afford food, but I'm western, so of course, I get a free ticket to China to teach English. Holy crap, this is rich!
nevermind:
I liked this:
" Laowai have 10 more years of experience on Chinese men, and during those 10 years, laowai have already dated multiple girls, getting to know the minds and G-spots of women like the back of their hands"
Thanks for spreading the word big guy! It's gonna be some easy pickin' for the Laowai lads THIS weekend now that's out!
wildcat77:
He means "18 cm" by the size of his d**k, not his height.
Amonk:
I too burst into laughter upon reading (and converting cm to inches). Not only is it really awkward from a social perspective, but 18cm/7 inches isn't something to brag about.
