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Q: Do you feel like a curiosity sometimes

I have been here 2 years in Xian,I catch the bus everyday to work,go into everyday restaurants for dinner,buy things in supermarkets,get food on the street,and people just stare at you like your a different species sometimes blantenly,do you ever just just give the middle finger i do sometimes after so much stareing

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I have been living in Nanning since May last year but visited many times over the last five years, and yes I do get people staring. Most times I just smile and carry on. If it is small children with their parents I will often smile and wave to the child and the the change in the parents is quite apparent. They go from looking at the strange foreigner as a curiosity to suddenly seeing this person is actually quite human, almost like us!! Most of the time I think it is just curiosity rather than anything rude or threatening. I have never felt threatened at all here by the way. I did have one occassion a couple of weeks ago when my wife and myself were coming home in the evening and a Chinese lady walkig at right angles to us stared at me all the time, a very hard stare too. That is the only time it felt rude to me so I just stared equally hard back at her. When she realised what I was doing she broke off and walked away even faster. It is really just part of China and I do not let it get to me, once they realise you are human too it soon settles down. 

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To them you are different, and they do stare at you with natural curiosity, maybe even with a bit of aprehension.  I do not think they mean anything offensive by doing so, so I do not pay any attention, unless it is a good looking one, then I do wink at her.

And I msut say I also do stare at some of their Ladies a lot, even have walked behind a few of them once in a while, especially in summer time when they dress with a few thin clothes, and if they are between the sun and me, I even stare longer......surprise  wink

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every f**king day feels like dislocating some jaws with a baseball bat!! but anyways... i just shrug it off~~

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I've seen some people put brook trouts to shame, but it very rarely bothers me. Depending on the mood (and person), I ignore it, stare back, or smile. Just depends.

Which is kinda weird in itself that I have come to accep this as normal behaviior.

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Even after 6 years, I cannot fully get used to it. I tolerate it most of the time, never getting pissed off...but from time to time I do turn abruptly and say, "Hey, how you doin?" Get's 'em every time.

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Does anyone else actually feel strange when you leave China and people arn't staring?

Maybe it's just me, maybe I'm just an attention whore.

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Yes...everyday.     But I have learned to accept it now.  The world is filled with simpletons, so I do my best to ignore them...life is too short.
Next time you get a blatant stare, shove your middle finger up your nose with your backhand facing out while you stare back....works every time.

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Hopefully, over the years, Beijingers became used to seeing foreigners, so they practically don't stare anymore (except in some parts of the city). But when I get stared at I start a "staring fight", until the other looks away uncomfortably. Great way to kill time in public transportations!

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Stared at very often.  Commented upon in Chinese very often.  If the stare is non-belligerent, I smile back.  Otherwise, I engage the stare with a frozen stare back.  If the comments in Chinese are benign, I smile and play cute.  If they are rude, and it happens, now that my Chinese has gotten better, I actually answer back.  That causes  a rapid end to the comments.

I base this behavior upon lack of tolerance or lack of coming into contact with outsiders.  Some days it is easy to endure, other days it is not.

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