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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: Do you really find chinese women sexy/hot?
Im from Peru , 24 male, and for some reason I can not find chinese women hot, all my ex pat friends say that chinese women are sexy but for me they have weird faces and not tits not butts (too flat for me) also they care a lot about money (golddiggers), I prefer instead one billion times my latin american women. I think one normal colombian / venezuela girl can destroy easily the hottest chinese.
Do you find chinese women sexy/hot? pls explain
8 years 43 weeks ago in Relationships - China
It varies, you should try coming here to Qingdao one day! Now, I'm not the craziest about Chinese girls neither, but the bodies you see on some of these Northern Chinese girls! As somebody once said, "look back at it!". Haha
When i first came here, i loved them, now....not so much.
ironman510:
I loved Chinese food in America but in China, not so much
I agree with you.
It's just my preference but to me China has pretty much zero "hot" women. None worth getting excited about. Of course if you're into asian women specifically you might feel different. I'm just saying my opinion is with the OP
You go to any popular downtown bar/club in a big city here and the best looking 20 girls are going to be expats. The best looking euro/latina women absolutely blow away the best looking chinese girls. They just don't get "hot" here.
I think the appeal is that they aren't generally fat. There are far more "acceptable" looking women here. Meaning that they aren't too heavy to be sexually desirable to me. (no offense to anybody...again just my preference).
To me it's just a whole country of averageness. They may not be ugly but they just don't get hot like a latina, brazilian or Caucasians. Even the strength of Chinese girls, thinness, is done better by others. If you want a skinny, long legged girl again you can't tell me that a Russian or Eastern Euro girl doesn't do skinny sexy better than the locals. can.
Gatoloco, listen I think too a lot of it is just attitude as well. Theres just something incredibly unsexy about the way they carry themselves. Hard to describe but it sounds like you know what I'm talking about.
But anyway totally agree with. If I could take home just an average "sexy" latina from anywhere or like a chinese supermodel...it'd take the latina every time. Every time.
Well, a lot about being "hot" is about a woman who knows her own body, sexuality and how to express it with confidence, appeal and a touch of attitude (but not overdoing it).
I have seen some very beautiful Chinese women, but I would say the average Latina would massacre most Chinese women. Chinese women are changing in persona quite a bit... and many are pretty flat.
But the persona is becoming a huge turn off (I guess Chinese men like it because it appeals to their insecurity). The average modern Chinese woman's persona is whiny, overly emotional ("do this or I kill myself"), usually lacks opinion, hyper-materialistic, shallow... and either very shy or abrasively outgoing.
Most don't have their own style and just copy what they see from others. But I have seen plenty of very attractive ones. It's just that the average Chinese woman acts and looks too much like a 12 year old girl.
expatlife26:
right, body type aside. They don't know how to work it at all.
I know gold-digging is NOT a local-exclusive. But for whatever reason I just see right through them. Probably because i'm not overly turned on anyway so I can think a bit more rationally than a could around say...a hot Bulgarian girl or something. Now SHE could fool me into thinking she's genuinely turned on by my driven careerism and sense of style...a chinese girl can't. She just is letting me know she is willing to sleep with me because I'm wearing a suit. Even if ultimately they're the exact same thing.
I think you're really onto something about the men wanting/accepting that. Like it's enough for them to just be told by a woman that "I am willing to sleep with you". Anything approaching actual desire would be too much pressure. hahaha
Robk:
@expatlife26 - Yeah, I have been to ALOT of dinner with "successful" Chinese men. Many of them because of family dinner outings or a few times just making some guanxi. Usually "successful" men in a culture tend to help define that culture. Many women change their attitude and personality (to a degree) to make themselves attractive to those kind of men. Their behavior is considered socially acceptable.
Many successful Chinese men are extremely insecure. They want women that obey without question, don't think for themselves or offer opinions (at least opinions that may make them lose face)... the woman should act childish or immature so the man feels superior or above her. And by no means can she make more money than him... or make him lose face by questioning him. If she does, she usually gets beat until she either goes bat spit insane, finds the courage to divorce him (both families usually treat her like garbage after this and not the husband) or just gives up and endures.
This is usually why quite a few very intelligent, very attractive Chinese women with good careers end up single or divorced. Society tries to treat them like they are outcasts or unwanted... yet a lot of them are actually the best women China has to offer and end up starting their own successful businesses and dating foreigners.
Then we get blamed for stealing their women.
I think confidence plays a role. A latin girl who is very average on her own just oozes sexiness. She walks by and she magically becomes ten times hotter. Compare that with the hotttest chinese girls who are hunched over a table with a finger in her nose , permanent stink face on, oblivious to anything that isnt on her cell phone screen and yeah. This is not a race chinese girls can win.
I have never been struck with yellow fever so the vast majority of chinese girls have never been all that attractive anyways but there are some. I have definitely come across " hot" chinese girls. For me that hot moniker is reserved for the girls with the western bodies. They know how to walk in heels without looking like a new born deer in roller skates and they actually have something resembling a smile on their face. I dont see em often, but i see em.
expatlife26:
yeah you get the idea. Their personalities are just so blank. I found a lot of hot asian girls back in the us. But then they knew how to work it. I have friends with attractive local wives/gfs but I think that's because they activiely sought out cool ones instead of falling for the flattery.
I think robs on to something that the men kinda want that. Imagine some schmuck guy here with a curvy flamboyantly hot latina chick. Probably be kinda intimidated no joke. Girls here don't act like they care and to me that's a huge turnoff. But to somebody who only thinks about themselves, a girl who is indifferent but willing to let you in puts zero pressure on you. You just have to cum and go about your business. If she doesn't care, than you aren't being evaluated.
RiriRiri:
"They know how to walk in heels without looking like a new born deer in roller skates"
LMAO. Coffee went back from the nose on that one.
time from time, i find hot even many 50+ ladies in my surroundings, but on other times, I just may say pheeew to many 20+ mini skirted ...
But, the one I saw 2 weeks ago in metro... man, that was an angel and I lost my words
I think it's fairly obvious that Sorrel and MissA are the hottest women in China!!!
Short skirts and mini shorts are like shiny fishing lures. But I say, "you can dress up a pig, but it's still a pig."
Never been to south america, so I can't claim to be an expert. but latinas are supposed to be catholic, right? 3rd world catholicism can be pretty shallow, materialistic and starving-farmersy too. from news articles i know there are at least some very petty women, like a blonde triplet who insisted on marrying simultaneously on the same day, superficial displays of wealth demanded, petty facesaving abound. latinas may hide their greed better, but in the end your finances determine the success of a relationship for most girls.
i agree that latinas have better style, carry themselves better, and may even be more fun to talk to. but there is anti-intellectualism of a different kind in south america, so it's just a different flavour. great girls are few and far between anywhere in the world.
when it comes to body types, i'll give asian girls a slightly higher score. curves on a latina in her 20s-early 30s can be godlike, and asians often lack curves. but the percentage of good looking girls on the streets is higher in Asia than anywhere else.
asians definitely have more feminine faces. it's personal taste of course, but i always found the most attractive latinas to have faces similar to asian girls.
go out in China as a moderately attractive white guy, and you can probably go home with one of the top 3 girls you met. go out in south america, and you can salivate at the desirable 3/10 girls that everyone is competing over. and even if you get lucky, who's to say a knife-toting latino won't cut your throat open and pull your tongue out the throathole for touching her? there are a few rare cases of violence in China, but usually less serious.
thinking ahead, when it comes to birth control/marriage/family life, neither Asia nor catholic Latin America scores well in terms of knowledge and access to good support. Their families are often far worse than ours, from what I can tell. Western women are the better choice by far. But love is not rational.
I married one...so she isn't ugly.
ironman510:
Hey you gotta a point. My wife is Chinese too, let's track this guy down and send him to North Korea labor camp, mm an all girl North Korean detention camp. That'll make him change his tune
Ha! flew all the way to China coz of what a friend said to only find out Chinese women not hot. People's tastes differs from one another, and sexy is not always a positive word to describe a woman.
hi2u:
On the question about Star Wars, you said "As a Chinese, I totally have no idea of what you guys are talking about."
http://answers.echinacities.com/question/introducing-chinese-friends-star-wars?type=alatest#lastcomment
Now you say you flew all the way to China and didn't have any conception of what Chinese girls are like before you came here. No one will take you seriously when you make such obvious contradictions about yourself. Just tell us where you're really from.
Seriously? Asian women are hot
ironman510:
One vote up, let's hear it for Asian women, thank you girls for being born..
I can relate to how you are telling us about the type of girls you like, like Latin, but my taste has always been with slightly tanned Asian women, I love small eyes and pouty lips and no extra meat on the butt ( and I love being able to see the camel toe from the front and back because of the butt shape, hey he asked I'm being honest!) Chinese boobs have evolved a bit, getting bigger for some, but not many. I love their face reactions during moments of love. And Asian women don't age as fast. Chinese girls look sooo hot wearing lingerie & and short clothes.. And best of all I love their smiles, always puts me into the mood. I'm white and I can actually say I don't find girls from the caucasian family attractive I guess because I grew up with them and doing them all the time in high school and college and my first jobs in life, but after I dated one Asian girl, she changed my whole life.. Wow and boy it's good to be a man! Ok ok send that hate messages, this my preference.
Honestly? Not really.
The lack of matter in the breast/butt area (and I'm not even a butt guy), and the lack of curves (I'm not talking about disgustingly fat women, btw), are huge turnoffs.
I find the majority of their eyes and faces attractive, but their bodies just aren't doing it for me. My wife doesn't have a typical Chinese body, so... not that it mattered.
And hey, there are plenty of young ladies in their 20s who are very, very hot. You just haven't met them.