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Q: Does China turn you into a pedo?

some time ago i had a conversation with an americann friend of mine in Beijing. He came out exactly with this sentence...

now, i think what he meant was mainly that usually, the average Chinese girl has usually a very petite body type (almost not fully developed for western standards). and they mostly look way younger than they really are: until the got into menopause and explode  suddenly into grandma...so, did you become an old cow eating young tender grass?

 

 

8 years 26 weeks ago in  Culture - China

 
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Hmmm, let's say this ... Why do you think I came here ?

mike695ca:

hahahaha upvote for the pedo from me! I think people are taking this too seriously talking about diet and genes and all that. I think its gotten way off the point of the original post. Perhaps it was the way he put it. But facts are facts and compared to the women back where most of us come from the women here are under developed. If you had a fetish for under developed white women, it would be on everyones mind.

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  Not really got an opinion about the body thing as you describe it, but I have been very disturbed in the past seeing some of the celebrations on tv during spring festival where very much underage girls are dolled up in lipstick and (by adult standards) 'sexy attire' then taught to dance like God damn go-go girls while an audience full of idiots wave big inflatable hands in the air. Pretty infuriating stuff.

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haha great question. So far no, i have never been a fan of chinese girls period. I have dated some, including now, but its been about personality. and well hell, ive been here 7 years. But ive always been a boobs and ass guy so if 7 years hasnt changed that, then i guess nothing will. But ur right it is strange that in chinese eyes the perfect chinese girl looks like a 12 year old boy when shes naked.

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How do you know what a 12 year old looks like naked, Ali? Does your memory go back that far?

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mike695ca:

1 who or what is Ali???? 2 At one point in time i also happened to be a 12 year old boy. wow the poster makes a crack about pedos and all the guys with yellow fever get defensive and angry. Touch a nerve? Perhaps he was on to something...

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Hulk:

Yeah, this post touches a nerve. It's pathetic, and it's coming from a guy who had a pedophile avatar. I take offense to these kind of things. It's not fair to women who didn't get enough food, or who have shit genetics, to be compared to a child. I find it very disrespectful.

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pedophile avatar?hahahahaa. If i would use a svastika from a japanese temple would you call me nazist? ur so cute...And, besides,my dearest puffy Bar Mitzwah i used that avatar before because I do respect that british artist and i admire the way he is able to talk through his art about the dark side of  japan's society, same reason why i do like Frida Kahlo, Salvador Dali and almost every art who talks directly or indirectly about politics, social issues and pshychology.

It seems our green lil boy got butthurted...indecision

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It's part of human evolution to be attracted to neotenized (youthful) body traits. Asians love westerners' big eyes, and western men are often attracted to asian women based on neotenized traits too. Especially young women are popular, but most people have a clear distinction of what is a sexually viable adult and what is not. I agree with martian that Chinese televised media shows way too many talent shows encouraging underage girls to flaunt their skin, and it's despicable. Japan also seems to have an obsession with neoteny, as demonstrated by manga and anime.

nicholasba:

it was obviously ironic...you cannot legally talk about pedophilia when you see a 65yo grandpa with a 18yo girl, but...

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No!

 

And, if you're in agreement with Yank, 'it is my (your) brain, who controls my (your) actions, not the environment'.

 

'Yank friend' in this story is 'let's cover-my ass-up a bit'. Psychology was my favourite 'hobby', when younger. This is the stupidest statement, I read in the long time. Where's the 'ignore the moron(s)' button?

nicholasba:

 do u really think that i do need to use " my friends says" "my friends ask"...surprise

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No? Why would it, unless there's something seriously wrong with you? My wife is petite, but that isn't what attracted her to me. It was her personality, the fact that we liked and wanted the same things for the most part, and her kind, gentle demeanor. Before I even knew about her height, we were best friends. I overlooked it because why the fuck would it matter?

 

Most people in the world can't help being short, tall, or whatever, especially those who grew up without enough food, like my wife who often went to bed hungry when she was growing. She still developed properly ( better than most women), but she's short.

 

Try feeding your daughter the same exact crap diet as those Chinese girls and see how they develop. Don't want to do that, huh? Well, those girls didn't have a choice, and they aren't any less than the rest of the women who had better diets.

 

Chinese girls, especially the poorer ones, have it rough. Chinese guys are demanding a certain height range from their future partners, but westerners are accusing people of pedophilia for actually looking past something most Chinese guys can't. It's like a Chinese lady can't win no matter what.

nicholasba:

someone is butthurted here...take it easy

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nicholasba:

Try feeding your daughter the same exact crap diet as those Chinese girls and see how they develop. Don't want to do that, huh? Well, those girls didn't have a choice, and they aren't any less than the rest of the women who had better diets.

hahaha, what the hell has the diet to do with that? So, japan korea taiwan woman are not petite? pathetic

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Samm11:

I have to agree with nicholasba here, it's not about the diet, it's about genes. You wouldn't find too many fat girls in Japan, while it's way more economically prosperous than China. 

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Hulk:

I disagree. It's all about diet. That's why more and more Chinese are getting taller. My wife didn't have shit to eat. Her friends did, including family members, and they were all much taller than her.

 

I've been to Japan. Japanese people aren't eating enough of the right foods. It's a lot of disgusting vegetables. Nobody's getting tall off veggies and a few pieces of meat.

 

Same with the rest of East and Southeast Asia. They aren't eating enough of the good foods. Noodles/veggies/rice aren't gonna make you tall, no matter how much they eat.

 

More and more Chinese are eating western diets, and they're getting much taller. Have you ever been to northern China? Inner Mongolia, Liaoning, Anhui, etc? People are much taller, and they eat quite a bit of meat.

 

One of my best friends is 5'11" with very short parents. She got more than enough good food to eat.

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wow, someone got really buthurted. First of all what is the so-called western food you are talking? If we talk about the mediterranean diet, thats healty but still, calling asian food crap because western food is better....what is this?How should i label this brilliant observation? Racism?ethnocentrism? Just hope your wife doesnt have to listen to all this crap.

and besides: Eating vegetable is unhealty yeah? better eat everyday steaks and frewnch fries...yeah i got ur point. And that people are now taller then in the past, well thats happened everywhere, also in italy but that doesnt change that asian people are usually much more thinner, smaller breast than westerners. Is like Mike said, genes.

and about the nonsense you are talking when it comes to japan diet: oh yeah a very unhealthy diet got those japanese little devils, weird that they have world s oldest people. As every nutritionist will tell you, eating too much vegetables or fish is bad for your health...

lmao

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juanisaac:

I agree with you here hulk.  A bad diet or not enough food stunts growth.  I know of a Chinese co-worker of mine in his mid-thirties that told he how he was always hungry when he grew up.  He is about 10 cms shorter than I am and weighs about 7 kilos less.

In contrast, I always had enough to eat and was chubby as a youth. I am normal weight now, but I am still bigger and taller than most Chinese men.  I am not fatter though.  Now the Chinese guys my age, late thirties, out weight me by 7 kilos or more. 

All my brothers and I are taller than my father, yet we have his genes.  Nutrition, of course plays as much a role are genes.

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belle_watson:

Hulk, just ignore NicholasBS.  He is seriously challenged.

 

Your observations on this thread are quite on the mark.

 

 

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nicholasba:

@belle ,please ignore me as well. Your character is really just a bad joke to me...

 

regads,

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Vyborg:

Of course diet plays an important role in growing up & tall, though I wouldn't want to say it's all about diet. As with most things, it's a mix of both nature and nurture, the interaction of a genetic disposition and environmental issues. Several famines in a row have occurred in the late 50's with lots of people starving to death but with lots of people barely surviving as well. A pretty long period of astonishing poverty followed and it was only in the late 80's that some kind of food industry was structurally established. The effects are easily observable. People from lower socio-economic classes above 60 are almost all pretty short and some of them extremely so.  People between 35 and 60 are usually not very tall, and really tall people (more than 1.90 for guys, I'd say) are almost always younger than 30 and from a more or less wealthy background. I don't know about the America's, but we've seen the same thing happen in Europe half a century earlier. Most people are taller than their same-gender parent, who is taller again than his/her same-gender parent. This is not to say Chinese food is crap, but a huge portion of this population has been trying to manage with whatever they could lay their hands on for a long time and it was just not enough. Maybe the idea that the Chinese eat 'everything' finds an explanation here as well. They have been very very hungry.

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Hulk:

nicholasba,

 

You're way off the mark here. It IS healthy to eat lots of vegetables. It is, however, not a suitable diet if you want to grow to your maximum potential. Most people in East/Southeast Asia are eating more vegetables than anything else.

 

I'm almost 7 feet tall. The rest of my family is short in comparison. My daughter is getting the same diet as me (because my wife eats this food now), and she's already in 9-12 month clothes at 3 months old. She's humongous.

 

Eat the right foods which will help you grow, and God willing, you'll grow much taller than you normally would've. Vegetables won't help you do that.

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And here's some additional thought for you, nicholasba: I reverse-image-searched your previous avatar (the one with the deadish girl with the lollipop), and the first thing it brought up was search results from an "artist" who creates images based on pedophilia. At least that's what the descriptions from google read.

 

Are you trying to tell us something? Are you trying to get the rest of us to agree with you? No, it doesn't turn you into a pedo. Normal people don't have this problem.

icnif77:

You studied psychology too?

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Hulk:

Just Psychology 101. 

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icnif77:

Which way do you prefer: LA to SF or return?

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you got Hulk as your profile pic, and i still wonder where did you find the pic of that overgrown little Bar Mitzvah, as it has been said you were hiring illegal teachers and you being a 5mao..and you prouding urself as an american patriot...are you trying to tell us something?

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What a dumb thing to say. 

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Hmmm, let's say this ... Why do you think I came here ?

mike695ca:

hahahaha upvote for the pedo from me! I think people are taking this too seriously talking about diet and genes and all that. I think its gotten way off the point of the original post. Perhaps it was the way he put it. But facts are facts and compared to the women back where most of us come from the women here are under developed. If you had a fetish for under developed white women, it would be on everyones mind.

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Maybe it's something in the water

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