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Q: Does China turn you into a pedo?

some time ago i had a conversation with an americann friend of mine in Beijing. He came out exactly with this sentence...

now, i think what he meant was mainly that usually, the average Chinese girl has usually a very petite body type (almost not fully developed for western standards). and they mostly look way younger than they really are: until the got into menopause and explode  suddenly into grandma...so, did you become an old cow eating young tender grass?

 

 

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  Not really got an opinion about the body thing as you describe it, but I have been very disturbed in the past seeing some of the celebrations on tv during spring festival where very much underage girls are dolled up in lipstick and (by adult standards) 'sexy attire' then taught to dance like God damn go-go girls while an audience full of idiots wave big inflatable hands in the air. Pretty infuriating stuff.

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haha great question. So far no, i have never been a fan of chinese girls period. I have dated some, including now, but its been about personality. and well hell, ive been here 7 years. But ive always been a boobs and ass guy so if 7 years hasnt changed that, then i guess nothing will. But ur right it is strange that in chinese eyes the perfect chinese girl looks like a 12 year old boy when shes naked.

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It's part of human evolution to be attracted to neotenized (youthful) body traits. Asians love westerners' big eyes, and western men are often attracted to asian women based on neotenized traits too. Especially young women are popular, but most people have a clear distinction of what is a sexually viable adult and what is not. I agree with martian that Chinese televised media shows way too many talent shows encouraging underage girls to flaunt their skin, and it's despicable. Japan also seems to have an obsession with neoteny, as demonstrated by manga and anime.

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No!

 

And, if you're in agreement with Yank, 'it is my (your) brain, who controls my (your) actions, not the environment'.

 

'Yank friend' in this story is 'let's cover-my ass-up a bit'. Psychology was my favourite 'hobby', when younger. This is the stupidest statement, I read in the long time. Where's the 'ignore the moron(s)' button?

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No? Why would it, unless there's something seriously wrong with you? My wife is petite, but that isn't what attracted her to me. It was her personality, the fact that we liked and wanted the same things for the most part, and her kind, gentle demeanor. Before I even knew about her height, we were best friends. I overlooked it because why the fuck would it matter?

 

Most people in the world can't help being short, tall, or whatever, especially those who grew up without enough food, like my wife who often went to bed hungry when she was growing. She still developed properly ( better than most women), but she's short.

 

Try feeding your daughter the same exact crap diet as those Chinese girls and see how they develop. Don't want to do that, huh? Well, those girls didn't have a choice, and they aren't any less than the rest of the women who had better diets.

 

Chinese girls, especially the poorer ones, have it rough. Chinese guys are demanding a certain height range from their future partners, but westerners are accusing people of pedophilia for actually looking past something most Chinese guys can't. It's like a Chinese lady can't win no matter what.

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And here's some additional thought for you, nicholasba: I reverse-image-searched your previous avatar (the one with the deadish girl with the lollipop), and the first thing it brought up was search results from an "artist" who creates images based on pedophilia. At least that's what the descriptions from google read.

 

Are you trying to tell us something? Are you trying to get the rest of us to agree with you? No, it doesn't turn you into a pedo. Normal people don't have this problem.

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What a dumb thing to say. 

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Hmmm, let's say this ... Why do you think I came here ?

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Maybe it's something in the water

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