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Q: Ever had a stalker in China

I'm sure this has happened to a few other people while in China or elsewhere. What's your stories?

 

About 8 months ago a random lady on qq wanted to add me (I'm assuming she saw my profile picture of being a foreigner).  I added her and she said she was just looking for friends to practice her English with.  Sure no problem, I've met some good friends this way actually so I had no problem with that.

 

Early on in our conversations I pointed out that I was married, and I would tlak about my wife frequently. I did this just to let her know that I wasn't anything more than a friend to her.

 

Long story short, she now calls/txts my phone multiple times every single day professing her love to me and telling me that she will never stop bothering me or leave me alone.  I thought the longer I ignored he she would just grow tired and move on. Wrong!.  It's been about 6 months straight of her doing this every single day.  I refuse to change my phone number cause of on crazy stalker so I'm hoping some day she finally gives up.

 

I've tried being very mean and hurtful to her in an attempt to get her to stop....it only seems to make her more determined to try to let me know how we are meant to be together haha.

 

Crazy thing is I've never even met this person face to face, only know her from some conversations on QQ.

 

 

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OMG, that sounds like my ex-stalker. Except mine would be waiting outside my home almost every night. A crazy rich bitch who wouldn't take no for an answer. And like you said, once I started to treat her badly and be more persuasive, she only got more crazy. I had to move, and I still have fear that she will come a knocking one day.

 

happywanderer:

Rich?  You could have been her mistress?!  Opportunity lost.

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Dude, that sounds like both ex-girlfriends... only reason they became my girlfriends was because I felt bad for them. Dunno why I never learn my lesson the first time around. Several months of doing that crazy stuff, and I didn't have the heart to block them.

 

Block her. She's demented, and it will only get worse from then on. Trust me.

 

Oh, and I had a gay stalker too. Promptly blocked, and disposed of.

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Giver my phone number, I will take her off your hands,haha.

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If you've never met her then it's not really a problem is it? Block her or change your number, problem solved! Duh!

littlemick:

Exactly. Rocket science ???? i don't think so lol

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yeah give her number to James, he will take care of her for you .. lolz

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Come on,you are showing off before a guy with no girlfriend.

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Just by every single person who wants a free English lesson.....

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