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Q: feeling very disappointed.. any suggestions?
Life stand me at the place where I can not take a step I am very upset just think noboday needs me I should be die life didn't give me another way to go...I have been lost myself i don't know what to do where to go how I make myself strong again what I want to become and what I am now...sometime I thinks I have no otherway except suicide...
There is nothing funny about suicide
I am very doubtful you are who you say you are but i can't risk it so listen hard
Death is final and there is no coming back
There is always something that will make you smile wven on your worst day
We are only on this earth fof a short time so we need to explore and make the most of it with what we have
There is alwa path to take us to our next adventure as there pitt falls along the way
When we fall we get up
Learn more about what you want and ask for guidance to get there not expect a free ride
Achieve something every day even if it is just reading a book
Good luck and best regards
Phil
There is nothing funny about suicide
I am very doubtful you are who you say you are but i can't risk it so listen hard
Death is final and there is no coming back
There is always something that will make you smile wven on your worst day
We are only on this earth fof a short time so we need to explore and make the most of it with what we have
There is alwa path to take us to our next adventure as there pitt falls along the way
When we fall we get up
Learn more about what you want and ask for guidance to get there not expect a free ride
Achieve something every day even if it is just reading a book
Good luck and best regards
Phil
Check out this thread... http://answers.echinacities.com/question/therapysuicide-hotline-china
Life is suffering, but we can overcome it... https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_is_suffering
sharing the burden may also help
akkhan234:
Sorry I can not share the exactly what happens with me but I'll give u a exmaple y I am thinking like that coz I crossed my all stairs step by step after that someone throw me on the floor...:'( how could I do all the things again and again to make me better::(
Suggestion : Set this goal --- I want to figure out what I want.
You aren't going anywhere until you figure that out, in a crystal clear manner.
Yes, the journey itself is also very important, you can also change or modify your goals anytime you like, but everything starts with a clear goal, or goals.
The irony is that the fewer options you have, the fewer options you continue to have. Kind of like the rich getting richer, and the poor getting poorer.
Thinking positive is the key, and look for new horizons.
If life closes one door, other one will open.
You are never given a wish without also being power to make it come true. You may have to work for it however.
If you want to be wanted, work for it.
Sometimes, the Journey can be more fun than arriving at the destination.
And remember what Lt. colonel Frank Slade said.
You may have a feeling that you want to go, very soon you will have a feeling that you want to stay.
Don't worry, be happy.
OH MY GODS.... Everybody stop!
One of the seven billion plus most destructive creatures on this planet doesn't want to be here any more... we must SAVE them!
There are a couple of very simple, basic facts that humans constantly ignore.
1 - we are NOT needed! This universe will get along quite well without our presence.
2 - we are not all special, important little snowflakes that deserve so much better than we get. We get what we get - things are as they are. There are no value judgements other than what we choose to make!
3 - we are not as bad, poor, tragic, useless as our 'self-esteem', ego, etc tells us. We are what we are - and we make of our lives what we do!
4 - if we don't like where we are, what we do, who we are - WE have to change it.. NOT the world has to change around US so that we become ok.
5 - there is only ONE person responsible for our happiness. There is only ONE person responsible for our UNhappiness.
6 - there is only one absolute in the universe - CHANGE.
akkhan234:
U think its funny??No its a v serious matter for me... And for sharing rules of life hope I understand.
You should talk to your close friends and family.
They are the ones who know you best and can help you with problems like this and support you the most, not strangers on the internet.
From your other posts you have said that you are 24 years old, no bf, (you removed/changed this comment), are looking for a job as an English teacher.
Maybe you should reflect back on yourself about where you want to go without making snap decisions or statements.
If you have left your home-town, maybe you are not really ready for this move and should return to sort out your problems.
akkhan234:
Sorrel I just don't want to live in this embodiment that's y I am seerching a teaching job at least if I feel better after leaving this envirement and I'll keep busy myself and I know it will be good for me.
sorrel:
learning to deal with problems is part of life.
everything is not going to be 'happy happy joy joy' all the time and to expect it to be so is unrealistic.
Family and close friends should be the first place you look for help for this problem, if not there, then local professionals who can help you.
if you are looking for work - job sites are the the best place.
BTW
as much as people want to help, this is not the forum for problems like this.
but by all means good luck with solving your problems.
akkhan234:
Sorrel no one answer here sincerly and for the job I am applying hope I'll get it soon.well thanks for the advise.
earthizen:
askkan234, nobody here owes you anything. You ask for advices and people spend time writing out those advices, for free. When you accuse them of insincerity you are not only being ungrateful but disrespectful. You have a serious attitude problem. Shining points out a critical point for you, you are responsible for your happiness, no one else is. If you are still wearing a diaper your parents have that responsibility, sure, but you are 24 years old! Disappointment? The whole world owes you 'your' happiness? Grow up!
No sincere answers?
...maybe you should go back and work on your English comprehension skills.
I have struggled with depression for almost my entire life, you are the one who is responsible for your own level of happiness. Not your friends. Not your family. Not your employer. YOU
Sometimes we have setbacks and failures, but a mature and responsible adult learns how to cope. You have been offered quite a bit of good advice here, I would suggest that you take it.
sorrel:
Spider
i'd give you more thumbs-up if i could.
having encountered close family with depression, i know it is a personal journey for the individual. Admitting it and asking for help is a difficult step to be respected and supported.
Suicide is no laughing matter to be taken lightly, but is annoys me that so many 'drama queen's' speak of it without realizing how much they trivialize it when they have a minor setback that some reflection and self-examination can resolve, or at least start them on the road to personal growth.
You have to find the resilience within yourself and by enlisting support from those you trust most is a good place to start, not by pouting at anonymous people online who respond to an open question.
@askkan234
If you don't like an answer that you see on this forum, whining about it and calling people insincere does nothing productive except make people wary about offering FREE supportive advice again.
Many of the answers were very good and helpful if you take the time to reflect, and my knowledge of depression suggests that the individual does a lot of reflection.
Everyone has setbacks in their life, everyone has good days and bad days.
From your last few posts is sounds like you were disappointed in love:
"I crossed my all stairs step by step after that someone throw me on the floor...."
welcome to the real world.
Put on your trainers and hit the road.....RUN IT OUT.
Works for me!
