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anonymous
Q: Getting back together with your ex chinese girlfriend?
hi there team you see i was in an relationship with an chinese girl but suddenly she breaks up with me.Because we had lot of differences and arguements and i was abroad for a period of time.Now i still like her very much even after the break up but she only wants to be and meet as friends any chance of being her boyfriend again.Anyone have any advice for me.
11 years 19 weeks ago in Relationships - China
It sounds mostly like a trust issue. But since she is still willing to meet with you there is still a bit of hope.
The main thing you will need is patience. Take you time, show her you have changed everything she didn't like about you. Don't push it. Let her make the moves and be prepared to fail.
Don't play games with her. And try to be what she wants you to be. And if being someone else is worth having her in your life, then you will have a shot.
let's get at your real question, can you sleep with her again? there is a way but i'm not going to tell you. clearly there was no relationship to begin with. too many differences, too many arguments. you clearly do not have any long term goals with her, and she is clearly looking for something long term. do her a favor and stay out of her life. i hope she is smart enough to never meet you again. many women are kind and will try to leave it friendly, but what they should do is erase the guy out of their lives. what you should do is find a girl who just wants "fun", there are plenty out there.
