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Q: Girlfriend want to take care of familial planning alone?

I've been with this wonderful Chinese girlfriend for some months now. I convinced her to take the pill, although I have to remind her everyday. She says that now it's time to take the relationship further, and it's time for me to trust her. And she says that "familial planning is in the Chinese women' genes" so I shouldn't interfere with it.

I don't find it reassuring really since she almost always forget to take the pill, but she says that knowing I trust her, she will not forget.

Should i buy pills, crush'em and put it in a glass of wine everyday?

We've been together for a few months now... halp?

7 years 47 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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i don't understan which item bother you worse, she have a familial planning or she always forget take the pill. if you guys both have a plan to take relationship further.you should chat each other be honestly. if you thought it is not right time you want marry her, you also need be tell her face to face. the couples don't know partner mind is very danger for both side. so my advise is "chat with your girlfriend first, then worry about pill."

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Do not be stupid. Buy condoms and use them.

Why do you put responsibility on her?

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If she wants to take care of it, then let her. What, you think only you can take care of it? And you wanna give her the pill without her knowing? What a chauvinist pig!

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No no no! It's not that she can't take care of it, but she has bad memory and always forgot pill! But I want to avoid confrontation and I really want her to be happy, so I thought I'd say yes, then put crushed pill in her wine everyday, just in case. That way, everybody is happiness!

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Getting halp from moar and moar people is like spin-o-rama high-fiving new friends on answers.echinacities.com with a tip of the hat finishing move.

 
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Most of the people think that its men who dont want to use condoms but that's not entirely true.

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