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Q: Have you noticed anything about lesbians here?
One thing that I noticed was that one of the females will try to look and act like a man as much as possible. Is this supposed to be some way to try to cover up that they are lesbians? I've seen lesbians in the states and normally two girls look like chicks and neither of them will try to dress up or act manly.
BS, you've seen lesbians in the states. Why, they don't like ya?
mattaya:
? Odd I have no idea what you are saying..the question wasn't about if they liked me or not. Read the following details before coming up with bizzarre answers my ____
TedDBayer:
You post never ending bizzare questions. From what you just wrote I know you've never seen lesbians in the states. You just post mindless crap.
you got to be kidding me rosie odonnel is a perfect example sounds like looks like a dude
mattaya:
Could be....you do know she has a kid right? Ok! Ellen she does not look like a man or act like one and her girlfriend is all girly....I've seen lesbians go all out one really tries to look like a guy while the other keeps her girly looks..
actually i know some of them here in my city,and how do i know them its a long story , but i've seen some and i personally met them too
Obviously you've never met or seen any lesbians, in the states or otherwise. People dress the way they like to dress. It doesn't necessarily have to do with their sexuality, it's a personal preference.
When I drink to much I confess to being a Lesbian
and before you think about thumbs down me
ask yourself which was worse my answer or Matty's post?
I imagine any girl who comes in to contact with you tells you they are lesbian.
I have a friend,but one day she suddenly asked me if I wanted to go to homosexuality bar.I am wondering if she is a lesbain or just curious about this gay bar.Anyway,I am not sure,So last month she asked me to share a room with her for reducing the renting fees,refused.Cause I am not sure if my friend is a esbain,anyway,it is scary to live in the same room with lesbain.
tomcatflyer:
Why don't you just ask her? What is to be scared of. Lesbians are just like everyone else, they are human too.
Jnusb416:
Why is it scary? If she likes you and you don't like her, of course it would be uncomfortable to share an apartment or room. That's true in any situation where someone likes you and you don't like them, guy or girl. There's nothing wrong with going to a gay bar, even if you're straight. Why? Because it can be just as fun, if not more fun, because you won't have any creepy guys hitting on you and you can just relax. And if someone says they like you, and you're not interested, be an adult, and say you're not interested, no reason to be upset. There was a gay bar/dance club near where I went to college, and sometimes some friends and I would go because it had a nice atmosphere and good music, and we liked to go dancing. Some of the other people there were a little strange, but they kept to themselves, no problem.
EYN05:
Hey victoria..
I now know what your problem is.. in your last post you talk about a foreigner boyfriend and blah blah blah.. now you talk about lesbians trying to pick you up.
Your a ugly chick! eithr very ugly or ugly and fat...and you think you can just catch a foreigner to solve your problem.
in the US fat ugly white girls usually pick up a skinny black guy or they become a lesbian...same tactics are done here as i see.
Victoria1987:
I can't ask her,Cause I don't want to make my friend sad if she is not a les .I just don't like les and gay.
danielmarino:
She asks to go to a gay bar...
She asks you to share rooms to save money....
When she asks to shower together to save water please start thinking of the possibility she might be gay.
Victoria1987:
hahahaha,me and my friend are not sharing a room now.That is great.I am safe at least.
Victoria1987:
Oh,yeah,I am very ugly and fat girl,hahahaha...Just think your words are funny,first to hear some one call me that way,really I appreciate that, dear young hangsome man
I assure it fills me with sadness to admit that I cannot, with any degree of certainty, address your vague, off-color query. I do hope you may find it in your heart to forgive me no matter how long it takes.
I must somehow believe there is as well a tendency in china for these. Many Chinese girls in my area will hold hands and even kiss each other on the lips just as a game without being lesbians as a sexuality choice.
Let's please keep this spreading into the world...it will be a much nicer place to live if girls are holding hands and kissing from time to time as they do here. 
Victoria1987:
I don't like hand by hand with girl or even kiss girl on the cheeks or lips,for me ,that is weird even I am a chinese,lots of girls hand by hand (but generally no kiss) to show friendship.I would rather do these with my boyfriend.
