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Q: How bad is it if a married Chinese woman is caught having an affair?

9 years 4 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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She would be teared apart.

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Same as anywhere else I suppose, though I would think there's a lot more collateral damage here. Issues of 'face' being lost between the families, then there's the stigma of divorce, especially for women.

Mostly all you hear about is husbands having loads of mistresses, it's quite rare to see the opposite in the news. Whether or not it's because women are more faithful in China is up to debate. Personally, I think that while that may have been true before, the trends have changed.

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If she is married to a normal Chinese guy, maybe a divorce and surely lost of "face". If she married with a soldier, both the woman and her lover will go to jail if this soldier husband wants to sue them. There is a crime called destroy of military marriage.

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Shanghai and Beijing - nothing, probably not even divorce.

Hunan, Henan and Hubei - probably jail time and divorce

Military wife - they disappear, no questions dared to be asked.

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i never heard of military people who wil sue there wife and her lover if he will come to now about them thts shocking and good information thanks for that i will never try to date a military man wife or daughter thanks

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with questions like this , would not think you ready for marriage if you were considering it.  

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It would be about as bad as the way your question sounded! 

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