Each woman is different. First of all, DON'T chase her, get to know her. Talk to her and find out shared interests. Don't be in a hurry and don't pressure her at all. Don't believe ANYTHING you might have seen on TV or the internet about foreign women: we are NOT prostitutes or easy. Show her you like and respect her.

these are only some suggestions

Be yourself. Avoid pressuring for personal details and commitment too fast. Don't care what others think - after all, we all have our own personal tastes. Respect and try to understand cultural differences which include communication differences (hint: not a single straight guy on earth understands women of any age, race, religion, creed or colour). As Sorrel said (Am I the only one who thought Sorrel was male?) find mutual interests and let a relationship flourish (just don't fall into the "friend zone"). Have fun, you only live 5243 times! (according to the latest Buddhist doctrine).

No spitting.

No picking your nose.

No farting. If you must do it, go to the bathroom or do it some place she will not smell it.

If you sneeze/cough, make sure you sneeze/cough into a tissue or handkerchief. (No wiping snot on hands/clothes).

If you sneeze/cough, make sure you point away from people when you do it.

No pooping/peeing in public areas.

If you spit food out of your mouth. Wrap it in tissue/paper so that it can't be seen.

When coming up to a door, walk in front and open the door for her.

Always say "Please" when asking for something.

Always say "Thank you" when getting something.

No shouting at people that are next to you or sitting near you at the table..

Bonus Points: Whenever she has to do some work and you're not busy, volunteer to do it for her.

I think if all Chinese guys followed the above 100% of the time, they'd have absolutely no problem picking up both foreign girls *AND* Chinese girls. It's really not complicated.

thank you very much for your advise above.
to Sorrel.I dont speak English often in daily life so I forget what word is suitable..I find myself kind of like her.so its just about I like a girl and she happened to be a foreigner.I like her because we both like the same sport events,films,music.food.also we have similar thoughts about society as well as history.and when we are together there is always so much fun.I just worry about maybe some culture differences make damage to that beforeI realise the reason.

to Sidicas.i havent done any kind of those behaviors since 16..maybe some Chinese people dont have good manners but I was told to respect everyone and be polite since i was a kid.so dont worry about that.

Im using a phone to reply..so plz excuse me for the mistakes and errors i may made above

to Sinobear.I agree with you.especially the friend zone part...we Chinese have this kind of theory too..when entering this zone,most of them are going to be sad backups..I wanna be a member of starting eleven!any advice to avoid that?

Why are so many foreigner men with Chinese women, easy , the odds, there must be a million  women to one male foreigners in China. There are less foreign women in China. If half of the women in China were blonde Scandinavian women, half of the foreigners would be going out with blondes.

 I like women and talk to them when ever I can. I'm funny and people tell me that I am very friendly. This is all that is required for Chinese women to like me. Just be a nice person.

 We look different and are taller. Chinese women tell me that they like our eyes and nose bridges. Most women are not after money, they just like that I am nice to them. Chinese women look different to me also, I think even those that look plain to you look cute to me. Women have to like being with you to get to like you. Have fun, be very considerate, go places, do not be boring.

 I always tell women that I think Chinese women are very beautiful and she is very beautiful also.

 I do not know what most foreign women think of how a Chinese man looks. Maybe if you wear a mini-skirt and high heeled shoes they would like you more?

Every person has their own personal charm.  Use your own and don't try to be someone else. I also want to stress to avoid the bad habits most common in China:  loud public spitting, coughing and making sure your hands are clean.  And use your sense of humor.  Women love men who make them laugh.  And the most important thing, in my opinion, is to be confident.  Don't be shy like a girl. When taking her out, don't ask her where to go.  Find out what she likes (it seems you already know) and surprise her.  Of course, every woman is different and some of them actually like to be in control, but most women want a man who knows what to do.  Have fun.  Dating should be fun.

put on your running shoes!.. but seriously I think just being honest and let her know how you feel,..see how she reacts and take it from there.

I agree with sorrel she knows what she's talking about....also why do you have to chase the girl..? I don't think they want to be chased around you got to meet in the middle somewhere..especially if they are older and more mature..you might chase younger girls but not more older and more mature one's..

Don't listen to silva, she's never chased a guy or a girl.

You may want to re-think "catching girls" as some of these girls DO know some kind of combat training. I had a student whose father studied in the Shaolin Temple, only to drop out on his last year because he decided to marry and have a family. Nevertheless, he taught hi daughter what he knew.  She demonstrated the "one inch punch". It IS real, not some Hollywood bs. So, some of these girls, if you catch them, they will rip your arms off and beat you with your own fists.

My student did not look at all like a kung fu master. She was short, chunky and very giggly

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I have given all the guys above a thumbup to fight against Wumao here!!Thank you for your advice.

time to sleep.good night everyone.

I prefer double meat cleavers when chasing individuals of the opposite gender. I'm Chinese and brainwashed by the CCP, so I have no idea how real relationships work.

Hulk, the guy's just asking a question, and he doesn't sound like a dick, or all that brainwashed. 

As for the question, sorrel's given pretty much the perfect answer here.

When I had to start dating again after the best part of my life being Married I felt a little shy about it to .  it is normal ( apparently)   good luck too you    maybe you will find some answers at                                 SEX IN CHINA ON A 30 DAY VISA? 

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Reading comprehension: djangolee: I said you did not seem brainwashed. I also said you did not seem like a dick, and since you've responded with rudeness, and pretending that Chinese have equal access to information, I take both attempts to be nice back.

Sorry, hulk.

any Wumao can help me to deal with this guy!!Wumao works for money while you work for no reason.and you are even more hard working than Wumao!!wake up Wumao or you will be fired!!

I did not mean to be rude..if I did as my English is not very good,here is my apology.
I know your meaning totally.but I m not sure setting a　stereotype impression of a Chinese as a brainwashed man before you know him is a good idea.
on the other hand.we have our own ways to get the same information as you can get even the govn blocks them.this is just an evidence to show we are not some ET from mars or whatever but the same people as you are.
I just dont wanna be treated as a monster or a special kind of human being here.I dont expect when I say something people react like WOW!!A NORMAL CHINESE!!SEE!thats just ridiculous.
anyway I apologise here for the inappropriate things above

What is wrong with young people today? You make the girl believe that she wants to chase you.

put on your best pair of sneakers and run like the wind

Follow Sorrel's advice and don't chase any girl, don't put too much pressure on yourself to adjust your way of life to hers and just be yourself. It's not about winning someone over, or even getting her to like you, just get to know her first and see what happens.

As for the stares.. I'm of Fijian decent and my girlfriend is British, people do stare and say things, in my experience iv tended to get more favourable comments in Shanghai "你看！他有外国女孩! - Subway patron" and less favourable in Beijing “你是汉奸！不是真好的中国人！- Patriotic Taxi Driver”. But overall, just take the looks and comments with a grain of salt.

here is another one for the DNLB register.  I will let somebody else tell you what this register is

ask her out to dinner, just say " can i buy you dinner when you're free?"  

just be yourself and say it , don't overly think about the pursuit,its simple, you'll have to do it eventually.

bring flowers ,flowers have their own languages

a man with no guts to ask girls out is not attractive which is IN MY OPINION.

good luck!

Do like Wonder Woman!

Use a lasso!

Of course, this could get you in trouble with the law......