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Q: How to date with a foreign girl in Jinan, Shandong?

I am 28 years old,and I am owning my company in Jinan which deals with global business (since I handle very good English skills). But my painful point is I am still single now. How could I date with a foreigner girl in Jinan? 

 

By the way, any girl who is interest in me can contact me by email: jason_ouyang@163.com. 

4 years 1 day ago in  Lifestyle - Jinan

 
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"But my painful point is I am still single now."  You need to ask yourself why. Exclusive focus on career? Don't know what exactly you want regarding gf/wife? Don't like local girls because many are ATM-house-materialists? Be honest ---- with yourself at least. 

 

A good question for you to ask is, "generally speaking, what kind of guys (doesn't matter what nationality) do educated, cultured foreign girls like to make friends with?"  Reason --- if you can't get along even as simple friends what makes you think you can get along well when you go deeper into courtship, or marriage (i.e. living together)?  Sex, money, using each other like doing a business? Hey, you are looking for a gf, not a  prostitute, right? This is why I suggest you start with friendship. The rest will come naturally, if it is meant to be. 

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哥哥 , by your question, I have serious doubts if you date even Chinese girls, let alone foreign girls !!

 

What is the fascination with foreign girls?

Chinese girls are not good enough for you or vice versa?

 

Anyway, best of luck !!

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House, car, iPhone 6s, lots of cash, what else would a female from waiguo want?

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There really is no trick or magic medicine to make it happen, you just need to meet a foreign girl and hope she likes you, just like with any other girl.

 

 

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well first  YOU CAN HANDLE VERY GOOD ENGLISH SKILLS ....... seriously !!!!! this phrase is so wrong on many levels ......

 

Dude your chinglish is ok, not very good at all.

 

Second, your chinese !!!! a foreign girl ( not foreigner girl ) will not date a chinese guy unless she is trying to squeeze the money out of him.

 

They wont date chinese because you people have different way of thinking, no ethics whatsoever and filthy as hell. Dont take it personal, its just the way of the chinese.

 

The bottom line is remove these ideas from ur head as u will never find one that will date you for who u are.....well unless you were raised outside china and enjoy a western living style and way of thinking, which i seriously doubt after you posted this question.

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As per your request, I've submitted your profile and email address to a gay dating site.

The fact that you are effete and carry a murse will put you in good standing with potential gay lovers.

 

As for finding a foreign female for your subterfuge, I think Uniqlo would be perfect for you (although Cub comes a close second, but it would be kind of a 'drag').

P.S. If you have a Hallmark calendar, you can easily have 365 dates a year, sometimes even 546 dates a year if you pay extra.

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"But my painful point is I am still single now."  You need to ask yourself why. Exclusive focus on career? Don't know what exactly you want regarding gf/wife? Don't like local girls because many are ATM-house-materialists? Be honest ---- with yourself at least. 

 

A good question for you to ask is, "generally speaking, what kind of guys (doesn't matter what nationality) do educated, cultured foreign girls like to make friends with?"  Reason --- if you can't get along even as simple friends what makes you think you can get along well when you go deeper into courtship, or marriage (i.e. living together)?  Sex, money, using each other like doing a business? Hey, you are looking for a gf, not a  prostitute, right? This is why I suggest you start with friendship. The rest will come naturally, if it is meant to be. 

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Here we go again

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Samsara’s Guide to Picking Up Foreign Women. For Chinese Men.

 

1. Being a Chinese man, you watch a lot of porn. If you’re interested in a foreign girl, tell her you watch porn. A lot. It is OK to talk about this with a foreign girl, because as everyone knows, foreigners are open about sex. She will understand that because of extensive AV viewing you are an experienced and considerate lover.

 

NOTE: Because foreigners are from America (except the black ones, which are from Africa), you should probably tell her you prefer American porn, not Japanese. Tell her you prefer American porn because Western girls have bigger tits. Western girls are proud of their big breasts, and generally like men who pay attention to them. It’s OK to stare, and if a girl smiles at you, you can touch them.

 

2. Change your name. Frank and Jason are good names for picking up men. If you want to pick up women, however, I would recommend changing your English name to Don Juan Cassanova Samsara (the three greatest lovers of all time). Women will respond to your confidence.

 

3. Foreign girls LOVE League of Legends. As Sorrel has often stated, League of Legends makes her think about sex. In the old days, women used to go for men with personality, men with substantial equipment, and men who valued them as unique individuals. I don’t think you fit those criteria, but fortunately League of Legends trumps all of them. It's like the new natural selection. The strongest League of Legends players procreate with the most girls.

 

4. Frequently remind her that "China will be #1." Women want to know they’re with a winner. And nothing says WINNER more than talking about China being #1. Show her some Anti-Japanese war dramas. Western girls really admire Chinese men’s bravery.

 

5. Drink baijiu, smoke, spit on the ground, and talk loudly (about yourself). Western men, or “pussies” as they are known, no longer smoke, don't spit in front of others, and tend not to drink ethanol. Most women long for the real men of yore – men who are not afraid of talking themselves up, getting hammered and vomiting on the sidewalk.

 

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Loool, if you're being serious then I would recommend that you just ABC - always be chilled. Chinese guys are at times a bit too overly enthusiastic and lacking in tact, avoid these traits, and you should eventually latch on to something.

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Unzip your fly, and tell her, "What we have here, little yellow sister, is a magnificent specimen of pure Alabama blacksnake... but ain't too Goddamn beaucoup."

 

Though, it does help if you are, indeed, black. And in Vietnam. But still... if it works, she will love you long time, due to the fact that she so horny.

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be urself man relax dress well and treat girls with respect, so no slaping or hitting them or trying to rape them which i know can be a little hard for chinese men smtimes but i believe in you you can do it man

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