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Q: how to deal with a freak?

Me and my wife sitting in Ajisen restaurant and having food... 

 

Suddenly one 'brother sharp' standing just outside the glass wall.. looking at us.. 

 

Know what... he had his thing out side his trousers.. with a hard on... 

 

We didnt react.. he left ...

 

What would u do in such situation?

 

Take a pic and send to police? Go out and cut off his...?

11 years 20 weeks ago in  Health & Safety - China

 
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Shifu

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point and laugh.... doesnt matter how confident he is in his little brother, i dont think that is the reaction they are hoping for..

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The police...about the last place that I would go...you wouldn't get any help there and they may not even believe you.

 

Ignore it.  Just ignore it.  Another crazy on the loose.

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Throw him a napkin.

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The vast majority of exhibitionists are male. Female exhibitionists may seek employment where the condition can be exploited, such as topless dancing, although most people in such jobs are not exhibitionists.

Behavioral learning models suggest that a child who is the victim or observer of inappropriate sexual behaviors learns to imitate and later receives reinforcement for the behavior. These children are deprived of normal social sexual contacts and search for gratification through less socially acceptable means. Physiological models focus on the relationship between hormones, behavior and the central nervous system, with a particular interest in the role of aggression and male sexual hormones.

Some other theories have been proposed. Biological theories hold that testosterone, the hormone that influences the sexual drive in both men and women, increases the susceptibility of males to develop deviant sexual behaviors. Some medications used to treat exhibitionists are given to lower the patients' testosterone levels. Several studies suggest that emotional abuse in childhood and family dysfunction are both significant risk factors in the development of exhibitionism. Psychoanalytical theories are based on the idea that male gender identity requires the male child's separation from his mother psychologically so that he does not identify with her as a member of the same sex, the way a girl does. This theory suggests that exhibitionists regard their mothers as rejecting them on the basis of their different genitals. Therefore, they grow up with the desire to force women to accept them by making women look at their genitals. There are a small number of documented cases of head trauma amongst men becoming exhibitionists following traumatic brain injury (TBI) without previous histories of alcohol abuse or sexual offenses. A childhood history of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) has been proposed as a possible connection is not yet known, but researchers at Harvard have discovered that patients with multiple paraphilias have a much greater likelihood of having had ADHD as children than men with only one paraphilia.

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In your case, the appropriate response is to ignore.  That means, no response... positive or negative.

 

He is troubled and the chances of him working through this disorder are low. Best to ignore unless you are prepared to offer help (which is best left to trained professionals).

OldMajor:

I think you'd have to be a bit strange to offer counseling to people who get their todger out for you like that!

 

Sounds like something your avatar might have done though (the perp)....ace film btw.

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Alex woulda counseled him with a bit of the ol' ultra-violence...

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Thakkudu:

was thinking of different possibilities.... but never thought of actually helping!! thats a new view point... i wont do that for sure... still

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Applaud and cheer. maybe score the show.

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Point and laugh or simply ignore....

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I would have snapped a quick pic and posted it on chinasmack.

It would also make a great Christmas card picture for the back home relatives....."Greetings from China".

TedDBayer:

Send me that card.

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Thakkudu:

at that time it just didnt click in my mind to take pic... should have done...

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Don't look just ignore

Thakkudu:

after some investigation.. we found thats the best practical way...  if u dont pay attention... he willl feel bad and just go...

 

or if u feel scared / react etc... he feels satisfied... happy!!

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take yours out....  hell be so ashamed it will never happen again

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