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Q: How to deal with psycho ex-girlfriend?

I'm dating a Chinese guy who has a psycho ex-girlfriend who constantly calls him crying and begging him back. She also calls his mother on a regular basis feeding her rubbish lies about me so that she'll hate me and try to get my boyfriend to dump me and get back with her. I really she's a horrible, bitch but what can I do to get her to stop tormenting both my boyfriend and me?

10 years 11 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Change phone numbers and do NOT give her the new numbers.

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10 years 11 weeks ago
 
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interesting

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move far far FAAAAR away. lol

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10 years 11 weeks ago
 
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change phone number, email and if it'll not help - sue her.

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runaway to another country,we should have exchanged appartments!

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10 years 8 weeks ago
 
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how to deal with psycho present girlfren ? Tongue

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10 years 8 weeks ago
 
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She knows ur bf's mother? That's hard.
Well, go to visit his mother, make her like u more, then trust me, mum will take care of it.

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10 years 8 weeks ago
 
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Offer ti sell her the boyfriend for a nice pile of money. If she accepts, then sell him, be rid of her and buy yourself a new car. Laughing out loud Laughing out loud
you both win

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10 years 6 weeks ago
 
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If she's met his mother does that not mean they were in line for marriage??

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To be honest with you anonymous, what is it that the guy has to offer you in all manners of speaking???

And Njord is right...You never know, the guy might be 2 sided face....It's very common among Chinese guys...I HAD a Chinese friend who was married to a beautiful Sichuan girl and yet had 3 gfs in the same time. The guy worked at China Mobile office as a customer service provider and didn't earn much...However, money isn't the case here anonymous, the point is that try not to throw arrows in the dark... Wink

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change your name and move Shock

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Chinese girls seem to often feel like they ahve made a big life investment in a boyfriend and if he leaves her she is hard to convince to give him up. My boyfriend's best friend dumped the girlfriend whom he cheated on regularly, hit, disrespected and made a fool of and the girl would not leave him alone. She showed up at his mother's house and refused to leave her living room adn waited one day for him to return home. (The mother hates the ex-girlfriend and told her son he could not marry her, the girlfriend was aware of this) The ex continuously called my boyfriend trying to find out information about what his friend was doing and where he was.

There is no prospect of marriage for her with this guy but she doesn't want to be alone or lose what she had. the boyfriend had money which i am sure was a factor.

Diagnosis: She's nuts with symptoms of having no self respect.

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10 years 5 weeks ago
 
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A psycho ex-girlfriend can be VERY scary!
Doubt it? Watch the Hong Kong movie "Diary". It is an eye opener!!!! Shock

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9 years 48 weeks ago
 
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psycho chinese gf never heard of that....my god they can go crazy, avoid all contact with them and get them out of your life. Change numbers,address what ever that help not knowing where you are. Not so easy when you living with one from past experience.

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If you managed to find a Chinese boyfriend who is actually acceptable to a western woman, you are indeed very lucky. For a Chinese girl, that would be almost impossible to replace. Maybe you could find her a Western boyfriend (if she speaks English). Choose someone you hate, if she's psycho.

Of course, you should also remember that Chinese men want western girls as much as western men want Chinese girls. It's just that most have habits that are off-putting to western women. It is possible he is stringing both of you along, as getting a foreign woman is hitting the jackpot.

Many Chinese also seem to think having more than one partner at a time is a good game, as they are very insecure in personal relationships. They try to make sure they will be married by the all important 30. I have been in similar situations several times, and seen it more times than I can remember.

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This would be an issue that he brought to the relationship, so he should take care of. If he can't, but you feel he is still worth it to you, then there is only one thing left to do... kick her little yellow ass.

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simple , in this situation you are screwed. find another bf. his family are going to be the main problem, because they will always answer the ex gfs calls. psycho ex gfs need to be completely cut off from the guy in order for them to eventually move on. but the fact that his dumb parents keep taking the girls calls means she will forever believe she has a chance and will continue to be a nuisance.

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Lure her into a back alley and beat the hell out of her. Tell her if she interferes one more time you'll kill her. I personally guarantee 100% success with this plan.

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