It was actually very romantic to be honest. We were both with a large gathering of people in a local park looking at the moon on the evening of the Mid Autumn festival. I had a bottle of water on a wall next to me and I reached out for it without looking just as she did exactly the same thing for a bottle of her own and we both ended up holding hands. I looked at her, she giggled, and just like that I knew. Then just as I was about to speak my wife walked up and started nagging me to get some popcorn and I had to leave, Never saw her again. F**king sucked, but hey, love ain't all wine and roses.

my soulmate it my old drinking buddy from university times, and I didn't meet my wife in China despite her chineseness. 

On a dating site . The add the media company placed said she was in NZ .
cost her 65000 Yuan cost me $25 AUD haha she got ripped of twice
Once my the dating agent and then she married me . That reminds me , better go feed her guide dog

I have a built in  penile plethysmograph. This is the most accurate and scientific way to find a soulmate. Since I'm not convinced that  I have a soul, mine works even better.

met her on the internet which is actually a quite funny story.

i was studying japanese (hobby) back home in germany and wanted to pratice my written and oral japanese so i listened to japanese radio (foreign owned) and they had a website for finding friends across the world, mostly to find some language exchange with japanese.

now the funny part is the exact same "japanese radio site" is in china a dating site so frequently philipinos and chinese were contacting me and i was wtf i want to learn japanese :/

ended up chatting with her for a long time, after some month i decided to visit her in china for vacation. after that felt in love and yeah now i end up in china.

ergo: study japanese to end up in china and speaking chinese, ridicoulus if you consider that chinese hate japanese