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Q: How do you deal with Chinese who like you just because you're foreign?
This girl's been practically stalking me via phone, social networking and even in person and she seems abnormally eager to want to hang out. She barely knows me and hasnt figured out that Im actually boring as hell, so it must be because Im a foreigner. I often hear people referring to "Yellow fever" but what about the "White fever" that's so rampant here?
Just smile and say hello! You won't see them forever so you should leave a lasting impression so they won't think your a little meany weany pinto beany.
just enjoy your time.... give and take what both of you want... hope she doesnt look too ugly.. believe not as the percentage of reasonably good looking women in china is very high... luv chinese girls
I ended up in a terrible relationship after falling prey to a woman like this. Stay away from her!
Tell her that you consider her hanging around to be an "English Lesson," and that you will charge her accordingly for each hour spent with you.
I get this all the time, unfortunately. There isn't much I can do. Usually that person will want to talk or hang out with me, but then I don't have to see them very much if at all after that. I can understand wanting a foreign friend. Talking to people from other countries is cool, but the way they go about it makes me really uncomfortable. You never know though. Some of them can turn out to be good friends, but a lot of them won't be. If she is bothering you too much, maybe you can tell her that you are busy. Maybe she thinks you are handsome and she likes you. 
As long as they pay me I don't mind, it's OK.,,kidding,,,not often get this,, I don't have many regular spots that I hang out in, I don't QQ or messenger (too annoying/ time consuming) and I don't give out my phone number,,, actually I don't even know it,,,too fricking long... When I meet someone that gets too clingy, I make a decision on if I like them. It doesn't hurt me to make friends, but I don't give out my phone number. Realy , don't call me, I'll call you. I don't really hang out, either I go shopping, looking around, eating or I'm with my GF.
some people just click i dont think its because you are a foreigner their are plenty of chinese people that are just very friendly and are interested in people fro different countries in the us we all look the same brown white black yellow and its common to see but in china its different for them and i believe its great
