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Q: how do you get along with a chinese woman ?
Yeah i know this looks like I'm joking, but seriously. I can't figure out what goes through their minds some times. Today was pick on Ted and compare him to a China man, I told her she was insulting and rude and I do not look for faults in her (padded bra) and I am in no way inferior to a China man,, maybe this is PMS, I dunno. No I'm not giving her an iPad, she has my old iPhone 3 (wifi gone again) and my iPhone 4 (can't be unlocked). So both are screwed, ha ha.
What makes them tick? i thought they were simple undemanding women, supposed to watch my back. What do you do to get along?
( I'm ordering a new belt. )
12 years 3 hours ago in Relationships - China
Chinese, American, Plutonian, I don't think the nationality matters in the least. I think all women everywhere have to make a regular donation to the bank of batshit crazy every once in a while. The fact that we don't stuff them into a shipping tube and mail them off to la-la land ought to be enough to prove we love them more than logic dictates.
GuilinRaf:
I agree with MOST of what you say. However, regarding Plutonian chicks, I just find them too cold....
Xpat.John:
GR, once you understand the gravity of plutonian girls, then you will understand why their neurons just fire differently. And, for me, the whole gills and tox breathers aren't a big turn on.
GuilinRaf:
Actually, I find those gills to be quite useful! Since they dont have any hair to grab on to, I use the gills! As for the tox breathers, it is actually a good thing, It covers their mouth which is good because the "Predator" like mouth just does not do it for me...
GuilinRaf:
Those are fantastic IF you remember to wear the kevlar vest (them pesky claws). Oh, and watch your neck. Seriously. some of them go for the jugular....
HugAPanda:
o-o
I feel like I should get my psychology license/certification/degree/whatever before I come. I think the stinky tofu is taking over your brains.
Ya'll get to pee standing up. Although multiple orgasms are nice, we pay for it with 5 days of raging hormones AND we have to find a pot to piss in. Stop your whining and deal with the short lived crazies dammit 
Although, if it's of longer duration, put your jock strap on and run like the wind.
GuilinRaf:
When girls "hover", does THAT count as "peeing standing up"?
TedDBayer:
So you think this is PMS and not a Chinese thing, that I can deal with, Just duck and hide. Its too hard to deal with agression without giving it back, 1, 2, 3, hold my breathe, I found a place to hide, my underground garage, no rats, nice and cool, Now where can I buy a lawn chair?
HugAPanda:
No, Ted, I don't think it is PMS. Although I'm sure it doesn't help. But God forbid we show any emotion other than sunshine or we must be PMSing. I get pissy with a guy because he's an idiot/moron/asshole, not because I'm in need of a tampon change. We learn how to deal with our emotions from our environment growing up and all that crap. China is just a different place than you are used to and the people have learned differently than you have. It's not bad or wrong, it's just the way it is. She probably thinks you are psycho crazy too with the way you deal with things. Learning about and tolerance of eacg other are all part of the relationship, no matter the cultural differences. You can't expect her to change any more than she can expect you to change. You either compromise through communication or accept things for what they are or move on.
MissA:
Huge is right on the money with the last comment. I've had this conversation before... "You're unhappy with me." "Yes, I am annoyed at X, Y and Z." "Nah, you must have PMS." ".... or you're just being a pain in the arse."
LAR:
Hug..TOO FUNNY!!!!!!!!!!! Excellent comments!!!!!! Ha ha ha!!!...lol.
I don't think it's because she's Chinese. Women from any country can act this way. I guess you just know how to pick the crazy ones. 
TedDBayer:
or are they all crazy, TBH I won't put up with this for long.
Jnusb416:
You need some kind of repellant, like crazy-be-gone, so you can avoid attracting them in the first place. I assure you, there are plenty of non-crazy Chinese girls.
TedDBayer:
Jnusb,, thats the funniest thing I've seen you come up with
Make love to her every night.
TedDBayer:
what, you can't touch a woman when she is picking on you, just put the tail between legs and go.
If she really thinks a Chinese man is better than you then she will leave you. If she stays then you need to know why? Then the problem is solved unless you want to be with her forever.
It maybe that she misses the characteristics she normally has experienced with Chinese men which she expected you to have as well. She may want to be with you for the characteristics/things that she did not have with a Chinese man.
I had a Chinese girlfriend. I know if she angry then it will pass and she will say sorry later. Also if I try to talk with her when she is angry it doesn't really help unless I am agreeing with her. Wait till she is calm and then talk her and find out what she is thinking.
Arguments are good because that means there is some honesty in the relationship on her part. Everyone argues except does that hide it till it explodes and you would not want to be there when it does. How you deal with your arguments is important. If you cannot resolve them then you cannot stay with the person.
This is what you need to do to find out what makes her tick. The best thing you can do is find out the things that are the most important to her. What I mean by that is the reasoning behind the decisions she makes. Then you are more likely to know what she would do in a particular situation. Also you will learn the things that make her upset and know how to avoid them. if she is really crazy then none of this will help very much.
Good luck TedDBayer
LAR:
Excellent comments. May you gain swift admittance to the bf/husband Hall of Fame.
