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The ones living upstairs are horrible. They love to randomly drop things on the floor either really early in the morning or late at night. Particularly, the one sound that's most prevalent is the sound of marbles being dropped on the floor. It drives me insane. I know the walls and floors are not soundproof, but come on...
On the other hand, I take my revenge by burping quite loud. I think the grandma and grandpa living next to me are terrified of me because every time they see me they rush in to their apartment. The other day we were both coming out at the same time, and as soon as they saw me they went back in and closed their door. hihi
The people next door play mahjong a lot but that doesn't really get to me. What I don't like is they leave their door open and the smoke drifts across and stinks out my flat sometimes. On the other hand I play the tenor saxophone and it can be.........loud. Give and take, innit?
Made the mistake in Beihai of getting showed around our new flat during the lunch break. Don't ever do that. After we moved in we found out that that was the only time of day when the building wasn't full of the noise of construction. Went on solidly, every day, morning till night, for six long months.
Xpat.John:
Oooh, sax! That is just evil. There is a guy in the building across the way learning how to play the trumpet. I was thinking about taking up the tuba or bass (just to get that whole sub-harmonic thing going) just as a way to say thank you to my neighbors. But my 4-year-olds say that I am just being petty.
mArtiAn:
The wisdom of a child, eh? Never fails to cut through the bullshit. It's the same for me and my 9 month old son. Every time i'm about to lose my temper he gives me that "Do not cross a bridge of straw, lest the ferryman crosseth by your side, for nought but trouble waiteth there, twixt sorrows 'pon the other side" look of his and calms me right down. Never fails.
Xpat.John:
When my kids were that age and I was about to lose my temper, they would give me the "vengeance is a dish best served from the bottom of my nappy" look. Quotes like your child gives must be due to his UK heritage, or one too many pints in your past.
My current downstairs neighbor is renovating his entire apartment by himself. While I applaud his DIY spirit and handyman skills, I am getting quite tired of hearing the constant hammering, drilling and sawing. He is very industrious and starts his workday, 7 days a week at 7am and continues until at least 8pm.
If this guy is single, I recommend you ladies jump on him immediately. He is a work horse and frugal. Plus apartments in my area are not cheap so he apparently has money too.
edited because apparently, I can't remember how to spell DIY
Fortunately I have quiet flat in good building.
One thing I had to "fight" with my neighbors living in flat upstairs.
Every flat have several air-conditioners, splitter type. Condensed water is drained outside, and all would be fine if my upstairs neighbors won't put the pipe down - exactly to my balcony. Sure, they might think that my flat is empty, but water dripping constantly can drive mad even so gentle person that I am .
So... I asked twice, using my friend to translate, with no effect, then one night (when their aircon was off) just put some glue in the pipe, sealing it permanently.
Suddenly... next day pipe have gone, and there is no "unwanted rain" any more.
total cost - 5RMB for glue
Hakupatasa:
Quite similar with me. Sometimes I hear the sound of AC for the whole night and I just wish I can slit their throat and stop every sound.
WhiteBear:
hehehe.... don't be so "strict"
sometimes with no AC there is hard to survive hot night
btw. if You live beside me, please accept my apologies, but I will not turn it out in night (if it is to loud - I'll call technicians to fix it - it may be just the bearing)
Hakupatasa:
Hehe..WhiteBear....
i was just joking about strictness...sure i will not do anything like I said....their AC is really noisy and seems they have it in their bedroom just above me. Unlucky me! I have my AC installed at living room...I suppose their AC must be old.
Anyway, I solved the problem. I moved to small bedroom which is closer to living room and more airy at night...So no worries anymore.....
Standard things:
- Leaving their doors wide open (TVs, music, loud conversations, death rattles, etc.) all completely audible from my apartment.
- Renovating. Three months to renovate followed by three months of habitation followed by three months of renovating...
- Elevators. Push both buttons (the UP and DOWN buttons). Hold the doors open while waiting for family member who is still in the shower.
- Going through the garbage. Within seconds of putting a bag into the garbage bin, I hear doors opening and know that the vultures will be descending on the treasure trove that I have thrown out. It's ironic that I'm living in a building that is supposed to be for "rich" people yet they have no qualms about using their bare hands to get that three mao piece of plastic out from amongst my used coffee grinds.
Xpat.John:
How odd! You and I must live in the exact same building. But, I do apologize for the death rattles, I think they are coming from my apartment when I have had too many dairy products.
I heard construction noise for months, going on all day, mostly sounded like mini jack-hammer. Some times yelling and wife beating. Someone was always making a weird wailing noise, I never knew if it was crying, but it was sporadic and constant.
I lived in a building with underground parking and security guards, but people used to bring their scooters up in the elevator and park them in the hall. I thought about throwing one out the window one night. I was tired of walking around the scooter. 8 floors, think they'd figure out who did it? I parked my scooter in the underground, 5rmb a month. The scooters down there were never locked.
Everyone is the building seemed to know my business. I got in arguments with women a few times and the neighbors complained. So the complaint goes to my girl friend cause her name is on my lease and I have to tell her it wasn't me. That really pissed me off. I thought Chinese minded their own business.
LAR:
Hi Ted,
I'm sorry to hear about the troubles. "I....................business." Ha Ha..hell no! They are nosey as hell! :( I don't like it either.
doing fixing work early in the morning on a sunday...they use heavy machinery in their house that even if i was in the next building i would still listen to that shit and wake up
I live next do to a music teacher...who teaches at home! Which in and of itself is not bad, but he teaches piano, and violin! I really do enjoy it sometimes when he plays in the early evening, because he really is a master on the violin (which I love, btw), but when his students come over for lessons, nothing sounds worse than a violin played badly! And they do play badly. I understand why, but it is just the whole hearing the sound of "cats being castrated" on a regular basis thing that gets on my nerves. Piano lessons are the same mixed bag, depending on skill level. Other than that, he is a very nice fellow.
And yep, the people downstairs to one side just got done renovating their apartment, although I don't think they are completely done, yet. For two months, everyday, jackhammers, pounding, sawing, etc. Since it's the summer, I've been here just about everyday, although sometimes I go over to the park for some peace and quiet.
Every Sunday morning, someone at the other end of the building blasts out opera; sometimes Chinese, sometimes western. That's how I know it is Sunday, when I hear the music. Then, there are the fire-crackers and scooter alarms at strange hours, weird "thumps" from upstairs, and people with lead, high-heeled shoes on walking down the stairs (no elevators). You can hear them from the fifth floor up, coming down.
All in all, not too bad, though. Apartment living has never been to my liking. Give me a house with some space around it and I'm "good to go."
i have not meet so many amazing occasions.but i meet i put some vegetables in refrigerator.But i can not find it in the refrigerator.:( it happened many times.but they can not understand me.
Hi Mia,
Oh yes, I've got inconsiderate nobs living right above me too! I can relate!! Regarding the grandpa and grandma..that's too funny!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^ lol. Typical cowardly Orientals!!!! It's the same for the South Koreans..all age groups. For some of them, their shadow would scare them!!
mArtiAn:
God, you're tedious. I actually have to bang my head against the wall when I read your posts, just to make sure i'm still awake. Wish I could bang it against yours and wake 'you' up.
LAR:
mAr......you're really getting BORING. If you don't like my comments,then DON'T read them. Otherwise,STFU!! I'd like to smack you in the face to shut you up!!! Punk-A** B****.
Ciao!
mArtiAn:
What can I say Lar? I don't come onto this site looking for a verbal mix-up, I can think of nothing less interesting, but when people make statements, as you did about orientals being typically cowardly, I find it hard to ignore. Don't you know that such bigoted thinking belittles an intelligent mind? Do you really wish to waste the potential of your own mind with such bigotry? It just doesn't make sense to me that any sane person would.
lokethebloke:
Perhaps LAR has the odd bout of insanity interspersed with just plain racist bigotry. Whatever, I feel sorry for the poor bloke, he can't help it, it's the way he's been brought up.
Water hammer occurs when water flow is shut off suddenly like when the toilet is flushed. This change in pressure rattles the piping and create 'clanging'sounds, which may sound like marbles dropping after distortion through concrete walls.
Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_is_the_marble_dropping_sound_you_hear_in_...
Some pre-fabricated floors used in HDB flats have an embedded high-strength steel cable which can give off creaking sounds when they contract.
They sleep at 8 Pm and they also expect me to sleep at the same..if i listen music after 8..they always complain to the security guard..dont know why..
I never had anything but quiet and polite Chinese neighbours. I would loved to have met them, actually. But they have always been so shy.