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Q: How foreigners deal with their sexual needs?

A lot of women complains they were flirted by foreigners. Some foreigners looks lonely and unsatisfied. Some foreigners have family in their countries and have loyalty problems. As western countries are relatively more open to sex, talk about yours?

 

Why they like Chinese women? or married a divorced spouse/widow. Some women even look too ugly ... but they live together happily ...

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Oh wow.

 

"A lot of women complains they were flirted by foreigners."

Most Chinese girls I know who have had part time jobs selling things in the street say that middle-aged Chinese men approach them and say outright filthy things to them. Foreigners like flirting because flirting is fun. Being told by a Chinese man that you should be a prostitute isn't.

 

"Some foreigners looks lonely and unsatisfied."

Many people in the world are lonely and unsatisfied. But foreigners in China generally don't molest girls on buses, or become taxi drivers in order to rape them, or get their dicks stuck between magnets. Due largely to League of Legends, Chinese males are the most lonely and unsatisfied creatures on the planet.

 

"Some foreigners have family in their countries and have loyalty problems."

Loyalty problems, that was a good one. When a Chinese man tells his wife he has to go out overnight for a "business trip" what does that mean? And what is the purpose of all these buildings that say SPA, MAN SPA, SAUNA, and MASSAGE? Who frequents these places, and what happens inside? I am young and naive, so I really have no idea what is going on. I live across the road from one, and there is a constant stream of well-dressed, middle aged Chinese men going in and out the front door, and a constant stream of sexy 20-year-old girls going in and out a little side door. Being a foreigner, I don't understand Chinese culture, but I guess it must be tea ceremonies or calligraphy or something.

 

"As western countries are relatively more open to sex, talk about yours?"

More open to sex? I'm fairly sure Chinese people have been up for it since day one. Where do you suppose all these Chinese people came from?

 

Foreigners are relatively honest about sex, as with all topics. Because we talk honestly about sex, we understand human nature and the other sex better, and young people are more likely to make sensible decisions in relationships. For Chinese girls, sex is shrouded in shame, secrecy and superstition. They don't know about protection, unsurprisingly get pregnant in high school or university, then have to have abortions, which they then have to lie about. And so the cycle of deception and stupidity continues.

 

As for my country - Australians like sex. That's why we have sex. Seems no reason to lie about it.

 

"Why they like Chinese women?"

Because they are in China and there are lots of attractive Chinese women in China.

 

"Or married a divorced spouse/widow."

Divorced Chinese women know what Chinese men are (generally they range between lazy, arrogant, aggressive, selfish, unreliable and incompetent). Chinese men don't do housework, don't engage their partner on an intellectual or emotional level, and lack the inclination and physical endowment to please women in bed. Divorced Chinese women have no illusions that marrying a Chinese man (who their parents chose, for his house) will result in satisfaction. All they want is someone who cares about them as a human and can make them climax.

 

"Some women even look too ugly ... but they live together happily ..."

Jesus Christ. Like every Chinese male, you think the only reason to be interested in women is because they are "cute". You will never have a fulfilling relationship, EVER.

 

 

ambivalentmace:

http://qz.com/808617/chinas-marriage-rate-is-plummeting-because-women-are-choosing-autonomy-over-partnership/

this is good news for men who don't want a life time commitment, but you have to push your ass away from the computer and lay down the smart phone to actually enjoy the results.

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Nice to see Samsara still going strong...

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17 'ups'? I can't believe it!

 

I can never write, I mean 'I can never have the same 6-pack ....at mine '

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We do the same as Chinese guys. We have er nai and Xiao san!

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To have sex is human.

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Oh wow.

 

"A lot of women complains they were flirted by foreigners."

Most Chinese girls I know who have had part time jobs selling things in the street say that middle-aged Chinese men approach them and say outright filthy things to them. Foreigners like flirting because flirting is fun. Being told by a Chinese man that you should be a prostitute isn't.

 

"Some foreigners looks lonely and unsatisfied."

Many people in the world are lonely and unsatisfied. But foreigners in China generally don't molest girls on buses, or become taxi drivers in order to rape them, or get their dicks stuck between magnets. Due largely to League of Legends, Chinese males are the most lonely and unsatisfied creatures on the planet.

 

"Some foreigners have family in their countries and have loyalty problems."

Loyalty problems, that was a good one. When a Chinese man tells his wife he has to go out overnight for a "business trip" what does that mean? And what is the purpose of all these buildings that say SPA, MAN SPA, SAUNA, and MASSAGE? Who frequents these places, and what happens inside? I am young and naive, so I really have no idea what is going on. I live across the road from one, and there is a constant stream of well-dressed, middle aged Chinese men going in and out the front door, and a constant stream of sexy 20-year-old girls going in and out a little side door. Being a foreigner, I don't understand Chinese culture, but I guess it must be tea ceremonies or calligraphy or something.

 

"As western countries are relatively more open to sex, talk about yours?"

More open to sex? I'm fairly sure Chinese people have been up for it since day one. Where do you suppose all these Chinese people came from?

 

Foreigners are relatively honest about sex, as with all topics. Because we talk honestly about sex, we understand human nature and the other sex better, and young people are more likely to make sensible decisions in relationships. For Chinese girls, sex is shrouded in shame, secrecy and superstition. They don't know about protection, unsurprisingly get pregnant in high school or university, then have to have abortions, which they then have to lie about. And so the cycle of deception and stupidity continues.

 

As for my country - Australians like sex. That's why we have sex. Seems no reason to lie about it.

 

"Why they like Chinese women?"

Because they are in China and there are lots of attractive Chinese women in China.

 

"Or married a divorced spouse/widow."

Divorced Chinese women know what Chinese men are (generally they range between lazy, arrogant, aggressive, selfish, unreliable and incompetent). Chinese men don't do housework, don't engage their partner on an intellectual or emotional level, and lack the inclination and physical endowment to please women in bed. Divorced Chinese women have no illusions that marrying a Chinese man (who their parents chose, for his house) will result in satisfaction. All they want is someone who cares about them as a human and can make them climax.

 

"Some women even look too ugly ... but they live together happily ..."

Jesus Christ. Like every Chinese male, you think the only reason to be interested in women is because they are "cute". You will never have a fulfilling relationship, EVER.

 

 

ambivalentmace:

http://qz.com/808617/chinas-marriage-rate-is-plummeting-because-women-are-choosing-autonomy-over-partnership/

this is good news for men who don't want a life time commitment, but you have to push your ass away from the computer and lay down the smart phone to actually enjoy the results.

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Nice to see Samsara still going strong...

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17 'ups'? I can't believe it!

 

I can never write, I mean 'I can never have the same 6-pack ....at mine '

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You sound like a blathering idiot with deep seeded issues. 

 

What a stupid post...

 

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Stupid post is for stupid person to comment?

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That's Chinese logic my friend. 

 

You - "I make racist and stereotypical post without any fact or explanation."

Me - "This post is stupid."

You - "If this post is stupid, and you comment on it..."

Me - "Then I am sharing my opinion of this being a stupid post."

You - "No, it means you must be stupid too! He ha he ha"

 

Most Westerners stop using this pathetic logic pretty much around the time we exit pre-school. 

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Mother Thumb and her Four Daughters.

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Taotao,

Are you looking for any tips on how to hook up ? angel

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A book called "30 days to hook up a Chinese girl" was published in 2013, and it was a hit!

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Yeah because a lot of losers like you will spend 30 days reading the damn book as opposed to just going out and talking to women.

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Yo Momma laugh

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Why, son?indecision

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If they deal with it with 3 other people, we call it foursome.

 

If they deal with it with 2 other people, we call it threesome.

 

And you...

 

People call you handsome.

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Bob is a talented boy.

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Admin is desperate.

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I laugh at the absolute lack of reality by Chinese men. I ran into an old student in Beijing, beautiful lady in her late 20's, she gave up on men and belongs to a group of bi and lesbian women chat group on we chat with 18,000 members who have some crazy name that does not draw suspicion to there cause. She always finds some one to keep her company and have fun with every weekend. If you treat women like property, they change addresses so to speak. I think I will buy some stock in some Japanese female robot manufacturers, this is not going to get better any time soon.

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When A Chinese guy poses as a foreigner and makes foreigners look bad I don't like it. So I'm gonna speak out on this poser. Admin might be Chinese but who knows. Tao is clearly an Admin account it was first used mainly to dig up old posts, now it is posting a bunch of dumb questions. 

The moderation on this site is despicable and pathetic. Instead of letting the users push the discussion in a natural path or flow he tries to force the issue. 

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We are running with the admin group. Your sense is smart like a dulldog.

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One word.....Baozi!

 

Warm, soft and squidgy in the middle!.....who could ask for more?

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Oh good. Random spambot surfaces this brilliant post. 

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I was always molested by Chinese women, they often came to my apartment and took advantage of me. I'm so ashamed. I had a reputation because so many women thought I was easy. Stores called me their famous customer.

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