My girlfriend is Chinese. I'm American.I have been in China for one year in total one/off,our relationship first started in Oct 2011 till  we broke up in Jan 2012 over some minor issues/misunderstandings.

Then we had a break from each other for 3 months got back together in Apr 2012 till i left China in July 2012.

Everything was good till i went back to the states we still had contact but a few minor arguments in an long distance relationship.

Then later on a few months later i return back to China and 3 days after my return she calls it quits again over a small minor argument again.

Afterwards she said we can be friends and wanted meet for an chat and coffee everything seems good but how can i get  

her to be my girlfriend again like me and be in love again and not just be a friend.

What To Do 

Any Suggestions Please