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Q: How long before he accept to meet parents?

BF wants my inside pants, so i said ok after he meets my parents. But he say he not ready. I'm not ready for sex with him, he's not ready for meet parents, but i have to give up? How long it take for Westerner to accept meet family?

12 years 33 weeks ago in  Culture - China

 
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vehruoglan I don't speak stupid, hence I can't understand....

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12 years 31 weeks ago
 
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It all good now. He accept meet parent in one month, he buy tickets already. He really nice with me and i agree sleep with he, but only in hotel rented home!

He say he not leave China with no me, and he love me. I love he! Smile

u people r jealous i found perfect man? Wink

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12 years 31 weeks ago
 
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AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! I can't wait to hear about how this ends.

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"It all good now. He accept meet parent in one month, he buy tickets already. He really nice with me and i agree sleep with he, but only in hotel rented home!"

You "agreed" to sex? How romantic. And you ain't letting him diddle you in anything less than the Beijing Marriott, eh?

Will you tell your parents he took you to a nice hotel and nailed you?

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I hope he uses you up and gone... I really do... Cool

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Well, to be honest, i think you are all being a little naive, or like me, having some fun with this...

if you check her profile, and relate it to her questions, this is probably just a flamer...
she is here for two or three weeks, asks if we´re all perverts (i try, but have no luck), gets a bf, says wants to wait till after he meets her parents to do him, asks us why he doesn´t want to buy her an ipad, and is totally and passionately inlove. This is definitely true love, i am sure!
It´s fun, but most probably a flamer.
Amongst all that sms text like english, with poor grammar, sometimes her english seems to get pretty fluent.
Also, this usually are topics that ashame most chinese girls, and they wouldn´t come ask foreigners about it (unless they wanna show they are available).
My piece of advice:

" Dear Vehruoglan, nice to meet you. all your post have been making us think too much, and imagine how disappointing love andsex life will your bf have if he keeps you. Your confused mind and standards will probably leave you in a permanent "roast chicken" position after the first "time".
Don´t wait for your parent to meet him, cause you´ll lose face for taking a foreigner home, cause we´re all huai dan, smell bad, and have no car or apartment bought in China (most of us, at least). Your family will not approve.
Do him, and hope for the best... he will, i am sure. I would... NOT!"
Of course i am kidding, but some of these comments apply to real life here...
Let´s see what the next episode of this "soap" will bring us...
P.S.1 - was a game console
P.S.2 - also
P.S.3 - still is
P.S.4 - Foreigners, don´t forget, many chinese will read what we write here, and will not understand when we´re joking or talking seriously (some other foreigners also will ... hehe). keep tight and hang on, with some good humour
P.S.5- Chinese, don´t generalize, as we will also avoid it (but we know you do)... not all foreigners are bad, but we are trying to keep up. heheh

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I feel like I'm watching one of those small, colored fish on the discovery channel - the ones that can kill you just if you touch them. This girl's a predator.

This is the kind of girl who's capable of ripping this guy's passport to shreds before accusing him of rape if he suddenly dumps her.

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to tell the truth, i will meet a girls parents if I'm serious about her. If I just want sex I might buy her a toy (ipad), agree to meet her parents if it will clinch the deal. then cash the tickets in and tell her byebye

but to tell the truth her bf should have left her the second she asked for an ipad, especially if you werent sleeping with her yet.
If you can afford an ipad you should get 2 or 3 massage girls and call it a weekend

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actually Cumulonimbos, I think she's 50cent to be honest hence the admins reluctance to do anything about her obviously derogatory and racist posts... I wonder what happened to Toad, the guy was honest and stand up... I guess either the sites admins appreciate anti western propaganda and racism to the truth or it's a case of reverse discrimination... Whatever... I'm sure this very post will be "harmonized as well... (remember kids to copy and past posts when replying! keeps them alive!) Wink I wonder what they would do if I said "White Pride!" or if a Chinese said "Chinese Pride!" would they delete both posts or just mine... Think about it. Wink

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To Everyone,

A few days ago, I actually asked"Shall vehruoglan be banned from ever posting questions on this site?". A few hours later it was deleted so I tried to contact the moderator or whoever is in charge of this forum. There was no apologies, no explanation ???? Just a lot of B####KS!

BTW, I'm suspecting that she is a foreigner posing as a chinese village girl who has just just moved to the big city or She is for real posting all those idiotic nonsense about dating foreigners.

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I think she's a local (Chinese) who is mentally challenged and comes here (much like other locals) simply to piss off expats... 50cent...

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Well, forums usually welcome some kinds of flamers at start... keeps things going, and will make people come more often to check what´s happening, generating more traffic... until things get out of hand. Then, they block everyone!

vehruoglan, don´t worry, we´ll buy you your Ipad (i know where to buy the fake ones, no worries), and go meet your family,(together with the rest of the guys here), if you pay the trips. As you´ll not provide the "entertainment", at least we can grab a beer in a different city, free of charge.
i am really curious on how you have lived before google translate...

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well, after the "u people r jealous i found perfect man?", i hope he really his. but no problem. send him here, and we'll cure him of such disease. just for the sake of you both. hehe Tongue

it's too boring being perfect... if that exists.

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vehruoglan, please fix an appointment with a good psychiatrists

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To ask questions like that, she is definitely a Chinese girl.

So no need for a good psychiatrist, nothing can be done about natural evolution. Wink

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