Move on

Be a man. She doesn't know she loves you? Well make her understand she loves you. There's this famous guy from Texas, 'Merica, called Rodney Alcala. Maybe he was a bit like you. He would date a lot of girl, and even went to a TV show, "The dating game" to find his soul mate. But he could never find it. It was always the same stuff, "love" would be short lived. Yeah it was brutal.

Maybe it's just the standards that are too high, you may wanna try and lower them. Or do like Rodney Alcala. He found true love through Cheesus Christ.

If she is still in love with u, good luck, u will get her back quite easy, she will forgive u. If she doesn't love u anymore, it's just wast of time, then u'd better do what Martin said, Move on.

Act like a man, have courage. It's never a waste of time to go toward your goals, may it be a diploma, money or a woman. Be confident about your skills.

And don't listen to wenna. She gives her own opinion, but she claims she is different from the others. By listening to her, you're just digging toward regrets and misery.

When you hesitate, question yourself : "what would Alcala do?" then go for the gold, tiger!

Thank u Mr ‘Merican. U helped me to proof what I said! Very "mature"!
And of course my answer is my opinion and I also think people who pop questions here want to hear different opinion.

I just wanted to point out to Fresh that, while it's your opinion (and I totally respect it, by the way) that he might be misled in believing it's a good solution to his problem, as your opinion (which is a very valid one, albeit completely bogus) is one coming from someone who claims she is "different" than most, making her opinion different than most, thus having a high probability of being the wrong answer.

It's not because I say you are totally wrong that I do not respect your voice. You have the right to be wrong.

Now what would Alcala say?

Sorry but who is Alcala？
And if u paid attention, Martin said Move on too~
So, please don't be so mean to me, by saying me have the right to be wrong does show u r nice.
Also I never claim I am different, I am just different as what u think about Chinese, I am the majority Chinese what u saw and met r minority.

You answer my answers yet you do not know Rodney Alcala... go a little further down and read, it's directly tied to Fresh's question. I am not trying to be mean to you, just helping you by pointing out your mistakes.

And I do have the feeling I did not meet the "regular Chinese folk", this is why I'm here to try and understand better how i can adapt to those "regular folks". But you're confusing me, to say the least. You claimed you "feel different" than the majority and now you say you are "the majority"?

Fresh, don't be confused about women by reading Wenna's posts. act like a man, do as your heart tells you to do. Take Alcala as an example, and do what you feel you have to do, because you know you can!

Love is a choice.
You can choose to not love her and move on.

Man up bro - girlfriends are like taxis, miss this one and another will be along soon.

Up to you - cry in your beer or move on.

What are you doing,boys and girls?you two just ignore my existence. and you misundertood me,I love the girl after hurting her.I didn't date with a lot of girls. I am the one who treat love seriously!
but you are right,Be a man ,a really true man.just do what I want to do!just like this I will get my demand! so thank you very much!you two get along with each other.maybe something special wil happen! haha,a joke, a joke!

Fresh,

If you really want her back, you have to gaze deeply into her eyes, and whisper "我们有缘分" then kiss her deeply (maybe do a small pelvic thrust, but nothing too alarming). She will be yours for life, like a little llama you can feed with grass whenever she is hungry, and while she is busy fattening up on hay and oats, you can roam the fields looking for other llama to take out for drinks and have 'yuan fen' with.

Be a man! Be a farmer! Tame this llama!

I love to see this cat and mouse game,,very much,,,LOL

Fresh,,,, apologize for your actions and present a nice gftto your GF.,,,, if there is no forgiveness ,, then turn around and offer nice gift to girl behind you,,,,always there is another,,, until there is one who is correct for you ,,, but as Poutine points out she too will be wrong