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Q: How to train....
How are some tips to train your Chinese girlfriend right? Like how do you curb her shopping tendencies? How do you keep her showering and shaving weekly? How do you get her off the couch and off of her touch phone? Share some tips and anything I didnt cover please.
11 years 28 weeks ago in Relationships - China
well for starters shes not a dog so you cant force her to do anything , you can ask her to do these things and im sure if they sound reasonable to her she will consider it
Dude if you found that type of girl then it serves you right. If you found one with extreme shopping tendencies then she's obviously just with you for your money. Showering and shaving weekly? If you found your girlfriend on a farm then there's not much can be done I'm afraid.
well the first thing you have to do is train your girlfriend how to pick a real man and not some loser for her boyfriend, that will probably the last lesson.
badtroll:
Im talking about tips for me, if I chose to start looking that is, and not you crimo. If you want to talk about yourself, make another post. You make like 10 per day.
Seriously, BT, the best way that I've found is to try and teach by example. At some point, there has to be some compatibility in habits in order for a relationship to work. Some shopping isn't bad. I've found that most of the girls here like to do more window shopping than anything, so, yeah, go along with her and see what she likes. If you surprise her now and then with something she was looking at previously, then she might curb some of the activity on her own.
As far as the showering, well, an easy solution is to invite her in, don't ya think? Same with getting her off the couch. Do some things together, and that way, you can have her along for some exercise, like walking, biking, hiking, etc.
The cell-phone? That's gonna be a tough one. Girls love their phones, so you might want to learn to tolerate that one. All in all, it's a give and take situation, but the best way I know is to leave a few things behind, yourself, and she may take the hint. Ganbei! 
Haha you can't try mold your perfect girl. She is Chinese, you have to TRAIN yourself to accept that.
Let her try things, and you have a right to suggest. But it's up to her if she likes it or feels comfortable with it.
Relationships are about compromise.
You can't just transform her into a Chinese version of your women back home.
maggiegirly:
I do agree with you.
Let your gf to decide whether she wants to try or not.
if she can not,you have to respect her decisions .just remember,you are dating a Chinese girl now,and We are DIFFERENT.
I thought of a new one....electric shock dog leash. But everytime i hit the button she might spit.
I don't see a problem as long as you don't get the shopping bills. Women shop in every country. I think Chinese women dress better than Canadian women. Chinese don't sweat like we do, I never noticed any body odour on Chinese women and I know they shower more than once a week. Some Chinese women do not have any body hair any where, trust me I checked.The ones that do don't have much. Chinese women aren't the only women in the world that don't shave, many Europeans don't and shaving for western women has only been in the last century. Now you want to talk about which women are the hairiest?Western women spend their time texting. I find it annoying to have to text, my guess is women talk more than men.
I shower sometimes 5 times a day in a hot China summer, use pit deod and I smell ( a little) I don't shave every day and I get 5 oclock shadow. My GF complained about why do foreigner have hairy arms, so maybe its not just a one way compaint. Many Chinese like hairy chests, just like at home some do, some don't, but I'm not shaving it.
Why train a Chinese woman, find one that is nice to you. Get a dog if you want to train something, aww never mind I got a Collie, smart as hell, she don't listen either, but she loves me.
