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Q: I am looking for a professional Chinese Match Maker. is there such a thing in China?
I am an American and lived in China for 6 years. I am very busy and unable to find time to seek a personal relationship. I do not like surfing the dating websites. Does anyone know of a private “match maker” that can help in my search? I am an American and lived in China for 6 years. I am very busy and unable to find time to seek a personal relationship. I do not like surfing the dating websites. Does anyone know of a private “match maker” that can help in my search?
Update:
Most of the answers here are very judgmental. . . The question was not how to find or get a Chinese girl… . . It was to find a lead on a match maker. ….
In fact I have met tons of very nice Chinese girls in various different ways and had very nice relationships. The part about me being to busy is not entirely true. I have more free time then most expats with work schedule being Monday / Friday, 8:00/5:00. And a one month vacation in addition to normal holidays. . .
The real reason for the match maker is that I haven’t been able to find the right “her”. . so I made out a list of what the perfect girl would be for me. . . I intended to pass the list to a match maker and let her do the ground work. . .
So…… I will continue the search. . . . thanks all. . .
13 years 1 day ago in Relationships - China
Wow, I think laziness has reached new levels. Why would you want to put your love life in the hands of others? Seriously, finding someone yourself isn't that hard. All you have to do is be outgoing and confident. If you're too busy to even find a relationship, how on earth will you even have time to make the relationship work?
CARLGODWIN1983:
This is a fantastic answer.
Sadly though, it isn't always as easy as this.
Confidence and language barriers and 'face' are all factors to consider here nevermind picking up someone else's girlfriend or wife un-intentionally.
Moonlake:
That is true. Some people do really struggle to meet people. I just have a natural in-built suspicion towards matchmakers. I think it's the romantic in me who likes to believe that fate will bring two people together. Now that I've written that out it sounds like a load of garbage. Oh well.
Wow, I think laziness has reached new levels. Why would you want to put your love life in the hands of others? Seriously, finding someone yourself isn't that hard. All you have to do is be outgoing and confident. If you're too busy to even find a relationship, how on earth will you even have time to make the relationship work?
CARLGODWIN1983:
This is a fantastic answer.
Sadly though, it isn't always as easy as this.
Confidence and language barriers and 'face' are all factors to consider here nevermind picking up someone else's girlfriend or wife un-intentionally.
Moonlake:
That is true. Some people do really struggle to meet people. I just have a natural in-built suspicion towards matchmakers. I think it's the romantic in me who likes to believe that fate will bring two people together. Now that I've written that out it sounds like a load of garbage. Oh well.
Errrrr, if you're too busy to find a relationship, won't you also be too busy to put in the requisite effort to keep one going?
After six years do not have any idea how to get chinese girl ? keep busy, men, keep busy ...
Personally, I will never understand those kind of people: " I am so busy, that I do not have tome for myself even." Silly life, isn't it ?
Just find a club, meet a girl, let nature do the rest. If you do that once maybe twice a week... It should keep you satisfied 
If you don't have time to find a girl to start a relationship with, then you probably won't have time to maintain that relationship.
You got to be kidding
If my wife ever found out about you she would have you set up with somebody in 15min flat.
You are just looking for trouble .
I'm surprised your work mates haven't got you tied up already
I know about one lady, but it will cost you something 
tiorocky:
I understand it will cost something. . . no problem. . . I do I contact her?
I found Chinese women were easy to meet and impress. Just be very friendly and humourous if you can. Are you naturally grumpy? You must meet women in stores and in your daily life.
I met my girl friend because she had a Collie and I do at home. She asked me out for beer and she doesn't drink. Sadly I don't think things will work out.
Yes on the dating shows they always have some personal match makers sitting on the sidelines giving advice to the contestants. Find out where they got those professional personal match makers and your in business....
how old are you? where do you live?
I can be your matchmaker. What is your email address?
