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Q: I don't know what to do.

I am pretty sure that one of my female former students is having an affair with one of the male faculty (but not in my department) at my school.  I am basing this off of observations that I have made of them interacting, and some things that her roommate told me.   

I don't know what I should do, she is only 16.   

 

Edit* He is not a foreign teacher, I am.  He is the Phys. Ed. teacher, and doesn't speak a word of English.  My Chinese is terrible, so confronting him could be a bit problematic.

9 years 20 weeks ago in  Teaching & Learning - China

 
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haha you just had to get one last post in didn't you

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i suggest you come back here tomorrow and ask the same question...

I have no idea how much time  its gonna take to update the  changes being made to the website

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Start by having solid evidence ? Because you can wrongly hurt someone's reputation like that, beware of rumors and gut feelings. I'm not saying that you are wrong, but just be careful and gather evidence (ie. you see the guy kissing her with the hands under her skirt)

ScotsAlan:

You give good advice Dr M.

 

This is a serious issue, and unfortunately it is one that China does not seem to be well equipped to handle.

 

The OP does not give a lot of detail, so need need to assume the possibly alleged abuser is a foreign national.

 

So I done a search to find what advice the UK Government give if someone suspects a British national in a foreign country.

 

Absolutely nothing !!! No advice at all.  Or at least nothing that was easy to find.

 

I would have thought something would be in place so a report could be made to a local consulate, the consulate could check criminal records, and if deemed necessary ,get in touch with the local authorities.

 

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DrMonkey:

I don't *want* to assume anything about who is from where, who did what. Maybe the original question is genuine, maybe it's trolling with a bait. I have no objective way to know, and such is the state of information, trust and phantasm here that I weight every damn word I write.

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Allegory of myself in this forum & trolls

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ScotsAlan:

Yeah. your right. This question is actually worded exactly the same as a post I saw a few years ago on another forum.

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I say you need to ask him upfront.

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You could have your Q written by somebody in Chinese, and leave it on his desk... You should be present, when he'll get your note for 'facial expression studies'!

 

2 points!angel

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Do you want to ask him if she has a friend ?

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The same exact question was asked a long time ago possibly even a year ago. And it was asked Anon as well. 

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ask for a threesome you dirty swine

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No one believes your stupid anon story.

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