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Q: I don't like most people here,goodbye forever.I will not come to this forum again.

5 years 46 weeks ago in  General  - China

 
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Stop being so dramatic.

 

If you ask people's opinion on something --- "Am I sexy?" "Am I cute?" "Am I desirable?" "Do you like my backside?" "Why are Western men attracted to other women when clearly I am the most beautiful?" --- you must be prepared to accept their answers.

 

If you frequently express opinions about your own beauty, don't expect everyone else to pat your back. It's irritating listening to people praise themselves, especially on something so superficial and boring as beauty.

 

The clothes you are wearing in that picture are ugly. Usually you look better than that.

 

When you come back, please, for the love of god, try to talk about something other than yourself. ANYTHING.

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Victoria, seriously

over the last 2 years many people gave you a lot of VERY good advice to help you with your problems.

you chose to ignore most of it, and ridiculed and abused a lot of people for no reason. 

 

Good luck in your future life - you will need it  

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what have you done, people?! happy now?

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Stop being so dramatic.

 

If you ask people's opinion on something --- "Am I sexy?" "Am I cute?" "Am I desirable?" "Do you like my backside?" "Why are Western men attracted to other women when clearly I am the most beautiful?" --- you must be prepared to accept their answers.

 

If you frequently express opinions about your own beauty, don't expect everyone else to pat your back. It's irritating listening to people praise themselves, especially on something so superficial and boring as beauty.

 

The clothes you are wearing in that picture are ugly. Usually you look better than that.

 

When you come back, please, for the love of god, try to talk about something other than yourself. ANYTHING.

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well, I don't really know you, but I wish you would stay.  however, follow your path as you see fit.

 

Merry Christmas 

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Don't worry about what some of the people on this forum say. Who are they to judge? Just keep being true to yourself and those closest to you. Wish you much happiness and success in the future. Merry Christmas.

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Vickie, You have to learn to be less self centered,,oops forgot you are Chinese. Ok you are narcissistic and we accept that. You ask questions and when you don't like the answers, you ridicule or contradict. Some of the answers are sarcastic or poking fun, some are serious, but you have to learn to accept them. 

 If I seriously asked do you think I am handsome, I'd be either vain or insecure. I can't change how I look, I'd say I look fine, but people generally like me because I'm pleasant, kind and funny, not on how I look. Some people don't like me and I accept that. I don't like everyone. You need lessons on what maturity is.

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Interesting, isn't it? The top three most recent popular posts on this board (as at today) were penned by Vickie herself, with each post approaching 1,000 views. Hmmm...

If she's such a nutter, why so many clicks? Morbid curiosity? Or genuine interest?

Ahhh, fuck it. Doesn't matter at the end of the day.

@Samsara: Your comment about the rather short-lived victory? Paradoxical yet apropos. Victory in Spanish is "victoria"...

 

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Thank you Vicki, your questions were bad enough prior to being banned but since you have been back all you want is for people to tell you how wonderful you are. You have got to be the most boring, immature and stupid girl I have ever met or talked to in  China.

 

Boring because all you do is ask the same question every time; immature because any adult woman of 26 who has any degree of self-worth does not need to be constantly told by strangers how wonderful she is; and stupid because you have told us many times you do not like us and the answers we give. someone once defined stupidity as doing the same thing repeatedly but expecting a different outcome each time, just like you. If you change your mind and come back please change your picture, the clothes are awful and the huge ass is even worse.

Just so you know (not kown) this is not sarcasm.

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Hahaha...tantrums this time?

Whatever it takes right?

Don't worry, it should work...hahaha

 

However, tell your "writer/editor/advisor" not to make many of your posts (questions/answers/comments) too obvious that they had been written/edited by him/her...even the Chinglish being used is too obvious...

 

It would be nice if you and your "friend" could repackage "you" into a more likable persona...feisty, yet charming and sweet.

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There are some people who, when disliked by others, take quite some time to take a hint.

And then there's Vic.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

 

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder in which a person is excessively preoccupied with personal adequacy, power, prestige and vanity.

 

Some people diagnosed with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder are characterized by unwarranted feelings of self-importance. They have a sense of entitlement and demonstrate grandiosity in their beliefs and behavior. They have a strong need for admiration, but lack feelings of empathy.

 

Symptoms of this disorder, as defined by the DSM-IV-TR include:

 

- Expects to be recognized as superior and special, without superior accomplishments
- Expects constant attention, admiration and positive reinforcement from others

- Envies others and believes others envy him or her

- Is preoccupied with thoughts and fantasies of great success, enormous attractiveness, power, intelligence

- Lacks the ability to empathize with the feelings or desires of others
- Is arrogant in attitudes and behavior
- Has expectations of special treatment that are unrealistic

 

Other symptoms in addition to the ones defined by DSM-IV-TR include: Is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends, has trouble keeping healthy relationships with others, easily hurt or rejected, appears unemotional, and exaggerating special achievements and talents, setting unrealistic goals for himself/herself.

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by dramatic, emotional behavior, and an over-inflated sense of self-importance that is in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders

In addition to these symptoms, the person may display arrogance, show superiority, and seek power.

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Yeah, sure, see you tomorrow.

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A nice quote to sum up Victoria:

 

Paulie:  I don't like these people.

Rocky Balboa: You don't like em'? Well maybe they don't like you either Paulie.

Paulie: [in awe] What'd I ever do to them?

Rocky Balboa: [looks at Adrian] And they call ME "Punchy".

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Thank you.

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Good riddance.

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I don't know you , so i can't judge you. in fact i don't judge at all, everyone has their own opinion.

everyone has their own tail and sits on it like everyone else does.

when you ask questions be prepared for what people may say. We all live in glass houses. all i got to say.

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RUN FOREST RUUUN!!!!!

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It's a new year, you can come back and play now.

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