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I love my girlfriend a lot, and we have a great connection. But I want to have more experience (explore my sexuality and relationships) before settling down with her. What should I do?
9 years 4 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Temptation is everywhere, and when foreign males (who aren't used to this kind of attention) get to China... they start freaking out and their ego soars.
All men have the desire to sleep with attractive women but loving someone means you care enough about them not to hurt them by going around and sleeping with others.
I love how people use this terms:
"I love you but I want to explore my sexuality."
You know what that is code for?
"I am a selfish, horny guy/girl that pretends to be all sincere but I don't really respect you or love you like I say I do."
Sounds like you are not ready to be monogamous. That leaves four options.
1. Discuss with your gf and tell her you want to continue to see her, but see other people and have other experiences also.
2. Discuss with your gf and tell her you want the two of you to explore experiences with others together (Swinging).
3. Beak up with your gf.
4. Do it on the sly without your gf knowledge and deal with the results when it is later discovered.
Hahahahaha...You are not ready to settle down yet. My advice,break up with her and just sleep around or being committed to her and explore more sex with her.
I met a handsome french guy and he asked me to have sex with him,he told me that he loves his wife but sex is sex and love is love. Lol...I do not like man likes this. It is an excuse to be unfaithful
Temptation is everywhere, and when foreign males (who aren't used to this kind of attention) get to China... they start freaking out and their ego soars.
All men have the desire to sleep with attractive women but loving someone means you care enough about them not to hurt them by going around and sleeping with others.
I love how people use this terms:
"I love you but I want to explore my sexuality."
You know what that is code for?
"I am a selfish, horny guy/girl that pretends to be all sincere but I don't really respect you or love you like I say I do."