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Q: I plan to marry a woman from harbin how do we start a joint bank account

My future wife's name is  Jun.

 

I want her to have my American address  but I can' find a way to reach her!

I  live In Milwaukee Wisconsin and I trying through  the  Chinese

Consulate  Chicago to reach her.. They have no way to find her!    Do you  know how o reach her?

We love each  other.

         Richard  (Sabe) 

 

 

 

7 years 11 weeks ago in  Relationships - Harbin

 
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Yes, I know how to reach her. My friend in Chicago just started sleeping with a Chinese girl named "Jun". She told him that some creepy stalker keeps sending her money and trying to marry her and that this stalker has now resorted to starting moronic troll threads on random websites. She has a dilemma though: should she ignore the stalker or allow him to open a joint bank account so she can use his money to go to nightclubs with my friend and other foreign men that she's attracted to? Quite the predicament indeed. 

dongbeiren:

I just spent 9 straight minutes on the phone with former ECC moderator Traveler and he confirmed EXACTLY who this "Jun" is. She is in fact a stripper working at a Chicago nightclub called "Bubba's Palace" and is in fact dating my friend. 

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...... Curses! I just spent the last straight 3 hours trying to get on the phone with former ECC Moderator Traveler!  When will it be my turn!? I wanna get the low down on whether Wei Hai Wendy and XXXLarge were discovered by the See Tee Ef You (that's an F and a U in capital letters) when doing that porno shoot? And is that why they were Fired?

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Ha, Jun, I remember that name ! She was signaled on ChinaStripperPatrol.com !

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Yes, I know how to reach her. My friend in Chicago just started sleeping with a Chinese girl named "Jun". She told him that some creepy stalker keeps sending her money and trying to marry her and that this stalker has now resorted to starting moronic troll threads on random websites. She has a dilemma though: should she ignore the stalker or allow him to open a joint bank account so she can use his money to go to nightclubs with my friend and other foreign men that she's attracted to? Quite the predicament indeed. 

dongbeiren:

I just spent 9 straight minutes on the phone with former ECC moderator Traveler and he confirmed EXACTLY who this "Jun" is. She is in fact a stripper working at a Chicago nightclub called "Bubba's Palace" and is in fact dating my friend. 

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...... Curses! I just spent the last straight 3 hours trying to get on the phone with former ECC Moderator Traveler!  When will it be my turn!? I wanna get the low down on whether Wei Hai Wendy and XXXLarge were discovered by the See Tee Ef You (that's an F and a U in capital letters) when doing that porno shoot? And is that why they were Fired?

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Ha, Jun, I remember that name ! She was signaled on ChinaStripperPatrol.com !

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don't do that. keep control over your own money.

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Questions
* Did you meet her in real life ?

* Did you lived with her for substantial amount of time (ie. a year or more) ?

* Did you meet her family ?

 

If the answer to any of those questions is "no", then

* Do not marry her yet
* Do not join your bank account

It's not in the name of some tradition, it's in the name of your own security. It's not specific to China : the story of the young beautiful bride-to-be from who scams a soul looking for love. I've seen that 1st hand a few times, you don't want that.

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...You don't have any contact info for her?

No wechat/qq/skype/phone number/email?  Call me cold and heartless if you want, but not having any contact info makes me think that MAYBE she isn't quite as into you as you think...  if she loved you, she would have given you a way to contact her.

Nessquick:

yes, probably the only contact on her is her bank account

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This hurts...to read.

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You're opening a bank account exclusively for marijuana purchases?

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Normally I object to the idea of engaging in commerce with complete arseholes, but you've probably heard of The O'Reilly Factor.

 

Write to Bill and tell him about these circumstances and he'll send you one of his free t-shirts with "wise up" emblazoned across it.

 

It's the most fitting solution to your dilemma I can think of and it's nice to think that bloated arse is good for something.

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How about a doormat saying "The Spin Stops Here" wink

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Unfortunately the spin isn't stopping with this particular doormat. 

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Believe me, if she thinks she can get access to your bank account she will contact you.

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Your life would be more colorful with more two or more bank accounts from different banks and maybe be more useful at times.

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Thank you Mr Shabi....you have have made my day and restored my faith in humanity.

I am delighted that true morons aren't a myth afterall. Thank you again Sir.

By the way...do you live with your mum? Have you ever been ripped off by a 419 scammer pretending to be Chinesese girl before? Do losers call you a loser?

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Jun is right here! I'll tell her you're looking for her when she wakes up tomorrow morning. 

I am sure she will like the joint account idea, but sadly, she has no money to contribute. 

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Bad idea. The joint account thing is a really bad idea. Even if you can trust her. Why? Because of all the people who will have access to her computer since all she's doing is visiting infected websites like 99% of Chinese people.

 

She's just using you for your money. That's the ONLY reason she's even bothering to talk to you... to make money. Here's what I'd do: Put on a big show of setting everything up for her, so you can give her money... just don't actually do it. The more official you can make it look, the better. Then disappear. Bonus points if you get to plow her first.

 

Stay away from gold diggers.

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And, of course, no further feedback from the OP

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every bank in China I've ever been to hasn't heard of such a thing

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