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Viki87

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Q: I wonder if I should delete him?

I met him on internet, he sent me message almost every day. On Friday night he said he would take me on date on Saturday. But on Saturday he did not even mention the date.

I wonder if I should delete him?

5 years 52 weeks ago in General - China

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tomcatflyer

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I wonder if we should delete you.

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iWolf

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Poor Vicky getting no attention. One could almost say puk guy Vicky.

Anyway, I'll throw you a bone to bump you to the front page.

Was this the marriage you unceremoniously announced the other day?

And in answer to your latest fascinating question to people you don't give a fuck about......you should not delete him. He was probably just a bit overwhelmed by your charm and business acumen. Give him another chance. He'll call when he's too lazy to masturbate.

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tomcatflyer

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I wonder if we should delete you.

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5 years 51 weeks ago

hi2u

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You should delete him, he definitely deserves a chance.

iWolf:

lol....ouch!

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

I do not understand what you say.

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

It made me feel: He's just not that much into me. Oh well, what can I say? Time to move on.

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Hotwater

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“He’s just not that much into me”

You should have that tattooed somewhere to dominant to remind you not to jump so quickly into what you think is a relationship.

Viki87:

I did not jump it quickly, I am not even dating him. come on. He stood me up before we even met. I never tgrought that is even a relationship. Just some random guy I met online and I found him attractive but he did not appreciate me.

But for sure I do have some feelings for him, which made me sad to get stood up.

5 years 51 weeks ago

icnif77:

Why ask a Q, if everything is so 'cool&dandy'?

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

I am just not happyI got stood uo by a guy. On Friday night he asked me to go on a date with him on Saturday, he told me he told his friends that he found a new gf-me. He messaged me replying my old message then I told him he made me mad for standing me up. Then he just no longer replying me, no apologize, nothing.

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

He said to me he cares about me and he's stressful because of work. what's standing me up to do with being stressful from work?If he feels stressful and want ti cancel the meeting with me,,he should tell me earlier? He doesnt like apologize to me in sincerely way. Again he has not messaged me for several days. I do not believe he doesnt get few minutes to message me to say hi in a busy day. He simply just doesnt want to do it. Am I right?

5 years 51 weeks ago

iWolf:

That's one of the worst excuses i have heard. Taking his cat for dancing lessons would have been more plausible. He's just too weak to be honest. He probably found a booty call that was more convenient. Move on Vicky.

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Hotwater

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You’re right Vicky. He’s just playing around. Delete him

Viki87:

I feel sad

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

He said his last gf couldn't cope with his busy work so they broke up. He's either too dumb to know how to deal with relationship or just play around with ne

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nicholasba

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I just deleted a girl from Henan but just look (for those who can speak chinese) her reaction when I said: you look somehow familiare, like a pornostar,..

anyway every once in a while someone add me and just keep silent, no idea if adding laowai is a hobby of some nongs to feel cool, but they got short life...

SpongeBob:

How did you upload screenshots? ECC fixed the problem?

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

Because they may want you to say hi to them first. Chinese girls, most od them, want men to speak to them first.

5 years 51 weeks ago

Viki87:

What does pornostar mean?

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Viki87

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He comes back and ask me to be commit to the relationship with him before even meeting him.

He said his boss transfered him to Malaysia, and he told he works as a freelance Ai programmer in IBM.

I told him that I do not want to commit to him as we never met. He is not happy hearing what I said.

That is what he said: Just becos we never met does that mean we can't have true feelings for each other and build a good relationship.

Relationship start from somewhere it doesn't matter how.

Mind feeling is part of relationship it doesn't matter the distance.He said my throught is my perspective.

iWolf:

Pssst! His story makes no sense. If he's freelance he doesn't have a boss. A programmer can work anywhere because the interwebs. Someone that dumb couldn't program a watch....lol So obviously you didn't delete him and still let the wanker jerk your chain....maybe you deserve a complete twonk like this. He knows he can spin you any bullshit and you'll eat it with a spoon. A perfect match.

5 years 50 weeks ago

Viki87:

He's not bad looking, quite tall, makes good money. A white msn likes him would get girls coming to him in Asia. He doesn't really need to play with me.

I can feel he really likes me as he told. He's just not good at communication. He's working as a freelance programmer, maybe he's working on some short contract in diffrent companies, he calls the IMB head a boss maybe because it is a boss for temporary contract. Iwolf, you are so judgemental.

I can feel he's serious with me but just very diffrent from e on the way of thinking. He thinks me and him are having a relstionship even we never met. But I think how can we call it a relationship without even met each other? I do not like to be stand up by him and he just got transferred to work in Maylasia without telling me earlier. He said work stress and distance made him just think of himself sometimes.

oh well, I already talked to him that I gave him up and wished him find a woman fits him.

@other members I wonder if I made the right decision? I'm very sad to give him up:(

5 years 50 weeks ago

He\'s not bad looking, quite tall, makes good money. A white msn likes him would get girls coming to him in Asia. He doesn\'t really need to play with me. I can feel he really likes me as he told. He\'s just not good at communication. He\'s working as a freelance programmer, maybe he\'s working on some short contract in diffrent companies, he calls the IMB head a boss maybe because it is a boss for temporary contract. Iwolf, you are so judgemental. I can feel he\'s serious with me but just very diffrent from e on the way of thinking. He thinks me and him are having a relstionship even we never met. But I think how can we call it a relationship without even met each other? I do not like to be stand up by him and he just got transferred to work in Maylasia without telling me earlier. He said work stress and distance made him just think of himself sometimes. oh well, I already talked to him that I gave him up and wished him find a woman fits him. @other members I wonder if I made the right decision? I\'m very sad to give him up:(

iWolf:

At least he's not a Nigerian prince offering you 20 million dollars. But he is trying to sell you the Sydney opera house. Seriously, how can you believe such obvious bullshit? Never met him, he can't be bothered to get on the subway to see you, and he wants a long distance relationship....bahahaha. You did the right thing, maybe not for the right reasons but a twonk like that is the last thing you need in your life.

5 years 50 weeks ago

Viki87:

By asking me to take the thing between me and him as a relationship is childish.

But I do have feeling for him, that handsome man is still talking with me on wechat. I feel he just wants to find a woman and jump in a relationship fast and marry. That kind of giving me pressure.

I feel he wants me to commit to be his serious gf and not go see other guy even before meeting him.

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ârelationship memeâçå¾çæç´¢ç»æ

iWolf:

lol

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