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Sign up with Google Sign up with FacebookQ: if Chinese want to know foreigners in China, what will they?
that's my question
you have a problem sir/ma'am ........... your posts make no sense.... please go back to school
Fengming, you need a verb at the end of your sentence: i.e "what will they say?", "what will they learn?", " what will they need to know?".
At present it's impossible to give an answer.
this applies to any person. if you view a person as a person i mean a real person, then the opportunity for friendship will exist. if the 2 persons click and have shared interests, then they will become friends.
you are incapable of seeing a foreigner as a person , so this will not work for you. people are people, people are not tools. well except women, women are tools to be used for sex. (i'm joking ok, i have a lot of freedom when hugs aint here)
crimochina:
i owe you an apology fengming. i read your question while sober and i did not pick up on "know a foreigner"
here is the answer for that. hang out at starbucks. when you see a foreigner get in line offer to buy them a coffee of their choice and a pastry. do this for every foreigner you see and 9 hours later , you will know many foreigners
Start with this website.. Lots of foreigners in here.
Many foreigners are very open and friendly. I will talk to women more easily, with men I have to wonder what they want. With women, they have to wonder what I want.
You can say hello, but I have a friend that works as a tourist guide and I ee him say hello , where are you from all day and get no reply,,,again they wonder what he wants.
Do what you're doing right now, except the exact opposite.
QQ?!!!!.....Knocking the front door of a foreign person?!!!!.......Chinese never run out of ways..........and am not saying this in the positive way
Your encounter with a foreigner should be (or at least should look) natural. We try to avoid meeting "Hello boys" that were mentioned on this site. Don't say, " I want to practice my English with you". It gives me an impression of being used. View a foreigner as a person, not as an alien animal in the zoo. Don't violate his/her comfort zone, i.e. do not come up to close to him/her, do not ask personal questions. Keep eye contact but don't stare.