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Q: If you had this choice what would you do?

A Chinese GF that spoke English well but was a dud in the sack even with amazing coaching?  Regardless of conversation and intellectual connection.

Or a girl that spoke about 20 words in English and was a maniac in the bedroom and would do anything for you....because you reciprocate?

 

Regardless of the people who will dismiss this post as BS...I am serious...who would you gravitate towards?

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I think the girl that knows 20 English words because she can always improve on her English skills....... and you can practice your Mandarin. Win winHaha

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Get them both together, and they can teach each other.

giadrosich:

Contrary to popular belief, the Chinese do make good sandwiches!!

 

 

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

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Squeaking springs sound the same in any language.

 

I guess it depends on what your objective is. Long term relationship requires the ability to communicate. For a quick jump, the second option sounds more enticing.

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i would get the one who likes me more ...more love more comfort with each other but if am in your shoes i'd pick the second one cause i already have the ability to speak chinese NS am not sure i have the patience to teach the first one the bed techniques........So my choice is the Second one

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i would get the one who likes me more ...more love more comfort with each other but if am in your shoes i'd pick the second one cause i already have the ability to speak chinese NS am not sure i have the patience to teach the first one the bed techniques........So my choice is the Second one

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i would get the one who likes me more ...more love more comfort with each other but if am in your shoes i'd pick the second one cause i already have the ability to speak chinese NS am not sure i have the patience to teach the first one the bed techniques........So my choice is the Second one

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I choose conversation and intellectual connection any day.  that is a rare find for a Chinese girl.  Making love isn't about technique.  It's about.... well, love.  It's almost impossible to be a dud in the bed if you really dig each other, unless she is just unwilling to have sex.

thedude:

All I am saying is the sex is just ok....with the other girl it is awesome....where do you draw the line?

How much does sexual chemistry mesh with the intellectual or emotional?

There is always a fine line with Chinese girls.

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I'm not into casual relationships, so I would probably pick option #1.  How much time can we spend in the bed vs.  the huge amount of time we spend interacting with each other?  Sex for me is 90% mental anyways.  If i really like the way she thinks, she will turn me on sexually.  That's all I need.

Would really hate to have to choose between the two, though.

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I choose option 1. I have had way too much of option 2 and really REALLY miss chatting and sharing ideas.

Sorry I answered under Xinyuren, but the regular comments part seems to be closed.

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simple choice in my mind......  option 2 far outpoints the other one.

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sorry can only use comment. I'd choose the one that drove me the wildess, that I had the most fun with, that I go along with the best. My GF was too moody. I met a girl that as soon as I saw her walking up the sidewalk I was blown away, more than anything I saw in China, she'd only be with me for alot of money because she knew I liked her, so that never happened. I wish she wasn't a call girl, she was great in bed. Only a very few women in China did I think were a great lay.

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I'm currently involved with option 3: speaks above average english + not too bad in the sack (but not what I would call maniacal ).  Life's full of compromises wink

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