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Q: if your boyfriend lie to you about his age. what will you do?
if your boyfriend lie to you about his age. what will you do?
I would sit down and have a very serious talk with him indeed, and tell him that I could not under any circumstances date a man I could not fully trust because 1: I've been hurt before and find it hard to open up to a new partner, the wound is still deep and has not yet healed. 2: I believe that once patterns of behaviour like cheating, etc, are started, they rarely stop and the kindest thing you can do for yourself 'and' your partner, is break that routine by breaking up. And 3: I am a happily married, heterosexual male, and it is a little late in life for me to start experimenting with same sex relationships. But that's just me, I have rules.
its easy to lie about something like this, i guess he must be lying about other things to slip up like this lol
make him wear the funny Pointed Hat like during the CR,,,, then Bind his Feet for good measure...
Is boy friend older and telling you he is younger. Maybe there are a lot of years difference between you and he does not want you to realize this or he feels awkward about the age difference?
If he is younger, he may be worrying that you will dump him because he is young.
I've never had a BF. but GFs lie about their age as most women do, but thats OK. We know the truth.
sorry,I forgot to say i am a girl.he is older than me 34 years.before he lied to me.i do want to marry him.but now everything has changed...
45 years old.but in fact he is 60.he looks young.I am so stupid.I can't make out the age of the westerners.Especially full beard man
GuilinRaf:
I worked with a guy who claimed to be 35, though he was 58 or so. Looked really fit for a 58 year old, but as a "35 year old", he looked like sh*t....
well that's simple, a Chinese girl wont accept me for a serious relationship if she knows am 5 to 10 years older than her just because her family may not approve that and she must follow her family's rules, but i so much like her and am willing to bee with her and I look younger than my age I may lie to her at first then when she accepts me and we stay together for some time and I find out that she really love me then I can tell her the truth to develop confidence in a serious relationship. though that may hurt her for I have lied to her at first but she will understand my reasons if she truly love me.
another case is that if i like a girl who is 1 to 3 years older than I, then I may increase my age just to let her know am old enough to be with her and tell the truth to her later on if things happen to work smoothly.
GuilinRaf:
What??!! Seems like half the expats that I personally know are between 15 to 25 years older than their wives!
I agree with 'pogger34'. Relationships are based on trust...if you truly love a girl.Please don't ever lied to her.once liar forever liar.
Someone who will lie to you over something as stupid as their age is probably lying to you about other things as well.
