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Q: If your Chinese coworker is getting married, how much money should you give as a gift?

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nevermind, I asked before I used to search bar.

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I gave like 500 RMB, though all my colleagues gave 200 minimum. 

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Ideally make sure the amount ends in a two 8s,  eg:  588, as 8 is lucky in Chinese.

chenhan:

it's better to avoid odd number,so it's better to give 88,288,688,of course 888...... is the best.

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I'm sure it varies from place to place, company to company, but my company has a soft "rule" for giving at co-workers' weddings.  Generally most people will just give 200 rmb.  Of course it's different for weddings of friends and family.  You'd probably want to give a bit more, and use the lucky numbers as mentioned by xunliang (666, 888, etc...).

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depends on how close friend he/she is to you

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200 kuai all the time.

Scandinavian:

doesn't it have to be an uneven number ? 

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chenhan:

no,apart from numbers with 4 and odd numbers,the others are ok.

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AND avoid 250.  It is offensive for some reason....

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chenhan:

Oh,yes,i forgot that,haha

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Never gave any 1kuai to my coworkers for wedding. I always know about it, when it is finish and they come up with small chocolate pack and send to everyone. thats all . I am feeding family, they do not give me nothing, Why I should support all 300 people in the office for wedding ? :D 

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Unless you're invited to the wedding reception / party nothing.

 

If you are (invited to the party) 100 is normal unless you are in a first tier city where everything is more expensive.

Mr.Q:

100 kuai ? you better dont go 

even for Chinese 200 kuai is minimum, 300 is ok, 400 avoided, then 500 600 , 800 1K…… as said above you can also add 88 to them  

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Hugh.G.Rection:

I've been to 9 weddings (8 family 1 friend) in my 2 1/2 years here in Nanning 100 is normal for friends and 200 for family. btw My wife decided what sum is appropriate and she is Nanning born and bred.

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chenhan:

It differs with places,just as salaries.But 200 is enough for most places in this country if the coworker is not a close friend.

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chenhan:

less than 200 is indeed not decent enough in most east cities.So,most Chinese offer 200,no less,no more.

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chenhan:

As for my friends' weddings,i usually give 600.

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