You should stop thinking with your lower head. Once and for all.

You're using 2nd head again by looking for help on anonymous forum-a.

That's why, you are doomed. Twice.

Chinese women would never face the stigma of being an unwed mother unless poverty dictates.

Neither of you seem mature for your ages.

Exclamation marks also tells a lot about your nationality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As well as the stigma of being an unmarried mother she'd have to pay a very big social maintenance fine (same as people who broke the 1-child rules). You seem to have two choices here - marry her or break up. Her ultimatum doesn't bode well for your future together. 

Riiiiiight...

Should have bagged up.

u r doomed. deal with the doom and move on.

Firstly, let me say that you are a dick. Man up, shitbag.

As it is clear that you don't want the responsibility of taking care of your own kid and don't seem concerned for the situation you have put this girl in, let's just hope for your sake her dad isn't connected or related to someone with mad guanxi.

Can someone please remind me why chinese people think we are douchebags?

put the "do not let breed" sign back on your forehead

be more selective in partners, and try to understand the concerns of chinese women. she is older than you, facing social pressure to have a family, and not out for fun&games.

You're not old enough to be a father? You should've thought about that before you put your thing in her thing. Now you've both made a baby, and neither of you are mature.

Man the fuck up and do the right thing. Take care of your baby, and your woman.

Stand up and be a man, I wanted and became a father at 25 years old. This will make a man out of you. Dont be a lazy ass, it's not as hard as you think. Is wonderful, family is wonderful.

I'm reading this book about Jean Seberg. She's this actress who slept with all the wrong people and ended up killing herself. 

If you have any idea how cruel and intolerant this society is towards a single mother, especially if that kid is a mixed child, you'll know, you are killing either or both of your woman and your child.

You really should stop giving her faulse hopes. We all know you will never marry her as now she has your baby and you just want her to get an abortion so that you can get out of this. You think you can wipe this all up and when you had enough fun in life you can get a young girl and marry her. 

If you put yourself into her shoes for a second. NO ONE WILL REALLY BE OK WITH AN ABORTION AND A BREAK UP OR A BREAK UP AND BRINGING UP A CHILD ALONE.

Do whatever you want, you know your relationship better than any of us. No one should tie another person up with a child, people marry, people divorce, if you love her, marry her, if not, and she insist to keep that kid, get ready to send money to her or run away. Like it or not, you are a father now.

Luckily, I only sleep with all the right people.

24 years old, and still in school....says a lot, don't it? Primary or secondary?

First, I suspect a troll..

Secondly - even if not a troll... WTF? It was barely 100 years ago in most cultures that by 24 years old, you'd already have been married with a couple of kids! 200 years ago, and you were doing that at 15! It's only society that has changed - not biology! (although, yes, I have read that there does seem to have been some change!)

If this be a true story (which, even if this one is not, then there will certainly be others that are...)

"I keep telling her im not ready to be a father. after my studies we can get married and have children" - Tough! You're in China sunshine - time to get with it! You seem to think that it's only about you! It's not! You're either getting married NOW! and having that kid... or you're leaving the country REAL fast... (option 3 is you spend a while in hospital, and won't be walking for quite some time!)

FTR - I think you've just been honey-trapped! (or is it 'honey-potted'?)

You made your bed, now lay in it! What if she wont be able to have another baby after she aborts? Why not marry, you get a free apartment, don't you? Why did you pick her to start with? What if you start shooting blanks because of some unforeseen problem and this was your last chance? Think hard young man. Life happens!! Your choices can haunt you or empower you!!

dick brain for sure grow up bw a man i had 4 children before i was 24 same girl and roik care of all of them thats part of being a man next time stick your thing in a fence knob

Really sorry, i don't even know what happened

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i guess its too late to sf you a pack of rubberz.....haha