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Q: Infidelity among expats?

Went to a lot of expats get-together lately, as I am quite bored during the day. Heard a lot of wives saying their husbands are always flirting with young Chinese girls. Single men said they loved it here because it's easy to pickup Chinese girls.

Can anybody explain to me the general mechanics between expats and Chinese women here?

12 years 34 weeks ago in  Culture - China

 
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Chinese girls are always desprate after White guys.

you better give your guy what he want Wink

good luck

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Njord, what you say is very scary... I thing i'll check on him, but he wouldn't ruin our marriage for that. We stayed in Sweden for to years prior to coming in China and he was able to resist the local temptation! Wink

But i'll check on him just in case!

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It's not only one's fault. Guys r guys.
We have a lot saying, like if u can trust a guy, pig can climb up to the tree.

If u don't trust him, or if he is that type, even u live in North Pole, guess he will chat with the Polar bear.

And it's not all about Chinese girls who don't care if a man married, why on earth a married man flirts with some young girls?

FYI, no one likes fat, bold white guys.

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I'm lucky my husband is an aging white guy, but who still isn't completely bold! Been with him for 20 years. He's sure going to be surprised when I'll make him a scene for no reason! Tongue

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If he's an aging guy, it means he has more money to spend! Careful fistule, those golddiggers will be crawling to get a hold of your hubby!

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Ha ha, I love reading these petty posts. I just got out my rule book,,,,page 125 ,,general mechanics between men and women anywhere,,,book says they are equal everwhere, men like women, women like men. There is one exception to this rule however since it was not part of the question....

Gee Wenna, at first I thought you were smart, now I see every post about,,no one likes fat, ugly white guys. Why are you so hung up on this? You might be cute, but o so shallow.
And to your Confucius type wisdom regarding the North Pole and polar bears, I would be the expert here.Pigs don't climb trees and no one talks to polar bears, ever !!.

Confucius: When we see persons of worth, we should think of equaling them; when we see persons of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves.
Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.

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I'm married and I've never cheated, and I would think little of a man who did.

Sometimes obvious gold-diggers approach me but a few words to show I've been in China a while is enough to get them looking for their next mark: they're looking for fresh-off-the-boat gullible types. They're no different than any other scam artist, except instead of expensive tea or whatever, they sell their 6000 years of virtue for some money and maybe a visa.

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Can anyone give me some pointers on how to look fresh-off-the-boat gullible types. I don't want to mess it up.,,,, 6000 years of virtue ,,that might just blow up if I touch it. Laughing out loud Laughing out loud

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