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Q: Is it common for Chinese wives to have a lover on the side?

You hear a lot about Chinese men and their mistresses, but does the same go for Chinese wives? They surely know about their husbands' cheating ways and put up with it, so could it be that they have their own secret fun too? Wink

8 years 26 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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And where can we meet such women?

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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sure they do,, give her my number.

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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nobody can blame all in behalf of some in thousands do that unfaithfull action i beleive that chinese ladies are much better than westerners . dont take it personelly i,m no chinese but chinese ladiese are as respectfull as any other countries,s lady

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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Angry we westerners are more respectful look at the chinese man before laying into us westerners and learn how to spell

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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It's personal choice.

Cannot say it's common.

Still, we simply have a huge population~

Unfaithful has nothing to do with nationality~

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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I think most of you misunderstood my question. I really wasn't asking if Chinese women are better than western ones or vice versa. I just wanted to know if there's a sense of equality in China's cheating culture, one that also allows women to have a lover on the side too. If men can do it, why not women?

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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It never allowed no matter it's a man or a woman.

Moral says no to all, just not so many listen……

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8 years 26 weeks ago
 
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common? I don't know... Does it happen, fore sure.

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i know of my situation and another guy who had an affair with a married woman. i think it happens more than people think

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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many married people live in different cities , so silly

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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When I lived in Guangdong the local said that many rich old women had lovers on the side, but the rest of China it is usually the business men who travel a lot that keep a mistress in each city.

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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I have never met more women who cheat in my life than I have met living here. It's cause so many relationsships aren't built on anything more than getting married for a reason OTHER than actually loving each other.

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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I is true I have at least 4 married Chinese woman friends who are cheating right now.

And you guessed it there husbands work in other city's.

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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Why just China? It happens everywhere. Just read the classifieds in any paper in any city on any day and the evidence of infidelity will jump off the pages at you!! Adult dating sites online? Same thing.

Divorce rate in China is slightly less than the USA, Great Britain and Australia but these countries all experience almost 1 in every 2 marriages ending in divorce and separation.
Humans really aren't cut out for monogamous relationships. It's all to do with religion and the rules they apply to their congregations.
Worst commandment of them all - Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife.
Moses was looking for trouble when he accepted that one.

While we all have genitals it ain't gonna stop! The devil made me do it!!!

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daqing the difference is chinese try to act like they are morally superior to everyone else, ask any chinese they wil tell you "chinese women dont do that" even the the married woman i was banging kept telling me that how f--king ridiculous

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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I agree with crimochina,

I remember sleeping with a young sizzling hot chick back at Beijing and right after a good ride, she layed down and heavily released a satisfactory sigh and said, " You're better than mister who comes to bang me once or twice a week from Hunan.!!!" Cool

I was like, " WTF?" , I just banged a mistress of another man!!!! Wink Shy
later she told me that the guy owned some textile factory back in Hunan and his wife is some local woman that packs a load of dried food everytime he flies off to Bejing...The guy dumps them once he gets off the plane, freshens up and bangs the hot chick in a nice hotel....MAMAMIA!!!
Well, I did her 5 times..enjoyed it but she ended up not enjoying her mister anymore...he wasn't man enough for her after she got a little taste from me Cool Cool Cool Cool

PEACE

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8 years 25 weeks ago
 
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Seems to be somehow common. More common than other countries - difficult to say.

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8 years 24 weeks ago
 
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I agree with Crimochina as well, the same thing happened to me, she kept on telling me how Chinese women were pure and would never do such things, then we would have sex in her husband's back. (I didn't know she was married at first, then when she told me I thought "ah what the heck, evil's already done)
It also happened backwards, a girlfriend who would also praise Chinese women and their greatness, their purity, and criticizing westerners, calling them asshole pigs who sleep around. Then she cheated on me with a westerner. It wasn't fun at all :(

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