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Q: Is it easy for you to find girlfriend in China?
As I kown,Chinese girls like foreign men a lot(I am one of them^^),especially for the white men.So is it easy for you to find a girlfriend in China?
10 years 20 weeks ago in Relationships - China
It is pretty easy. The trick is for my other girlfriends not to find out.
<p>Easy to find yes, but maintaining is the problem. Once they go crazy, which is often. Even though my GF is chinese, she studied in Spain and England. I personally did not want to date a chinese girl who has never been out of china. Because her knowledge of the outside world and culture is warped and based on fiction movies with foreigners on horses. And Victoria black guys get action too lol. There's not only white guys in china</p>
xinyuren:
ya, when she says "especially the white guys" or makes an invitation for the white guys only, it makes me cringe. Girls like this who have no idea about social etiquette (or anything socially) I try to avoid, even as just friends.
Victoria1987:
White guys look much more handsome which you have to admit,Chinese men are shit in my eyes,they all ugly.
royceH:
But Vic, don't all white people look the same?
On another note, my friend, a very lovely girl who wears an unpadded bra, has just started dating a Ghanan man.
Victoria1987:
I am talkiing about generally,white men are much better looking than other race,I am okay to be with a white mixed man as well.White race is the best.Look at the face,look at the body,woo,they are awesome,Chinese men are ugly in front of them.Everyday in the subway,the white men always look like aprince among those Chinese men.So why not I go for much better one?lol.It is nothing wrong to choose the better race.
Yup, it's like they rain from the sky or something. But very very few of them seemed really ready for a committed relationship with someone not fitting perfectly their own vision of what life & future should be, too much ignorance about my own vision of things, not much conversation possible beyond banalities, drama-queen behavior, etc.
Finding one yes, but one with whom you can go beyond a fling, as difficult as anywhere else.
As has been mentioned, finding a gf is easy. Finding a girl who isn't a selfish, immature, naive princess was a chore.
tomcatflyer:
I would have answered this myself but I can't beat your succinct and very good answer, thumbs up.
Paulberger:
spot on! no need for further explanations. there are too many willing girls that want a try with a foreigner, that's easy. finding one worth devoting your time, energy, and love to, that's difficult.
Paulberger:
glad to hear it Hulk. take good care of that one, don't get angry and smash and bash her.
Victoria1987:
How abiut I say find a nice man is hard?When you camplain girls are selfish princess,why not think about yourself?I hate guys always complain that and never change and listen to our girls.
Hulk:
Victoria1987, how many daughters do you have? What orders do they give?
Regardless, I don't think anyone in their right mind would listen to you. You, as a woman unable to control her lusts, who has become inflamed at the thought of foreigners, would do better to listen to us.
You should listen to me. Bear my child, okay? I'll DHL/FedEx/UPS you some sperm. Let me know when you're ready. It comes with a complementary, life-size Hulk-dildo -- modeled after my foreign hulkhood -- that you can use to pretend we're together.
It's a free, guaranteed ticket to foreign-land with all the welfare benefits. I'm trying to help you here. Our illegitimate bastard child will save you from China.
elchinocabron:
At xinjuren,
I totally agree. I couldn't have said it better.
Btw, you guys should see her ridiculous profile on smartshanghai. ROFL!!!
victoria, can i ask you a question? why are you so infatuated with foreign men? i feel like you have made it your life's mission to marry a foreigner!
Victoria1987:
I like white men's looking and fun personality.Well,at the moment my life mission is to marry a foreign man,but I have other stuffs to do for sure.
Paulberger:
you do realize though that not all foreigners are "white." look at Hulk, he's green. i'm mixed and have no idea what color to classify myself as.
Victoria1987:
White is my No 1 choice,man mixed with the white is my second choice,they got white features.woo.Maybe white man's face with brown skin,lol.I met Huke before,he is white.
Yeh, pretty easy, I usually hide her under the bed or in the closet, but most times I can find her.
dunno, never tried.
only have 1 gf and that already before i came to china, now its still the same one.
as always and everywhere you can pick up a girl but finding the right one is the hard part
Same as anywhere else in the world, though much easier in China, actually... now, finding a quality woman is the hard part. It's the same for women trying to find a quality man.
Oh wow, I missed the part where you said "white men." Guess that excludes me then, huh? So you don't want to bear my illegitmate children after all? Ah well. There was a green card in it for you. . .
Hulk:
LOL. But you two forgot greenbacks. Remember the child support?
Victoria1987:
But sorry,you are not qualified to my future bastard baby's father,not all white can fit my bill,my standard is high.Not as low as your wife is.lol
Paulberger:
ahhh victoria! have you ever heard of the expression "don't poke the bear?" especially if the bear is a huge green monster that was bombarded with gamma radiation and is constantly angry! never bring the man's wife into it! it went from a fun rant to real personal!
Hulk:
So you admit that your future baby will be a bastard, then? To which standards do you refer to? Well, why not start with my hulkspawn? I wouldn't mind growing a baby in your womanly garden. Contact me if you need me to send sperm by FedEx.
Paulberger:
@MissA and RoyceH don't get discouraged, i'm on winter holiday now from the university and have way too much free time...
MissA:
Oh dear, paul, victoria appears to have been banned... thus negating the need for any competition at all
I've had three today. Having a few beverages now....you know, celebrate the cricket and stuff (Heheheheh.....pommies ducking for cover!). Might go out later and find a few more. Bugger it...why not!
andyinshenyang:
Wish they would just bloody duck instead of trying to bloody hook - the useless bastards!
royceH:
Fair point Andy. Mitch Johnson is quite the enigma. He broke every bone in his body when he was about 23 or 24 and Dennis Lillee rebuilt him. Bloody marvellous it is.
And now to Perth, where it's going to be even more ducking marvelllous.who are these white men and why do Chinese girls like foreign men for them?
Victoria1987:
You stupid man,I am talking about generally,you have to admit,white are good.
Samm11:
All of them? Even if a white man has one eye and a huge scar across his face, he still looks better than wang leehom, is that what you are saying?
besides, thats not what I was asking. ;-)
Finding Chinese women that like foreign men is easy. Finding Chinese women that don't like foreign men is harder because they run and hide. Some women don't like, many are afraid of little brother. Vickie only likes guys that are young. In a few years she won't find any that will look at her.
Same as everyone else I think. I find it is easier to find women who are interested in meeting me here. Obviously because you have a different appearance so your seen as somewhat exotic. However, I experience the same difficulty here as in America trying to find a woman who I am interested in being with.
usually chinese men are very ugly and foreigners look so handsome.That is why it is easy to find a gf.
Victoria1987:
It is true,we like white men.lolOr men mixed with white race.
Most chinese guys are ugly. Old chinese are even more ugly especially teeths and face.
It is easy for both sexes of foreign people, especially European descended ones, to get a girlfriend or boyfriend. We have a new teacher, young and new graduate, at my school. I told him how simple it is to get a gf here and to say "no" more than the he said "yes." He also had to not get enamored with the first girl he found or with the first girl that helped him.
One month into his stay here he met a Shanghai girl at a bar and now they are going out. I wish him luck; he will need it.
I went 2 years, almost 3, between gfs in China. Tha is how pissed off the last one made me. Now I found a nice woman I will marry. But I followed my own advice in saying "no" more than "yes." I would also thank every Chinese women who also said no to me, because now I am happy for the one that did say yes.
Vicky! Because I think you are lacking in the cognitive department, I am not going to tell you 'shame on you for bringing your own countrymen down.' Being a Nubian woman, I am going to tell you this. Some of the most beautiful people in this world are Black. And I am not talking about the ones you have seen on the screens. But I guess you don't know this because of your ignorance. Maybe it is time you start putting your hard earn money to good use instead of buying foreign friendship. Go do some traveling. Start with Africa and then work your way to the Caribbean. Make sure to stop in India as well. Maybe your brainwashed concept of what beauty is suppose to be will change.
And make no mistake: China has some very beautiful people. But of course, we measure beauty differently. This is why I think you see yourself as an ugly duckling.
Victoria1987:
wooo,this forum is great,a good place to kill my boring office time.hmmmmmmmmmmm,good.
Easy to find hard to live with
rasklnik:
-language barriers
-lack of intellectual activities (doesn't read for pleaure, follows pop stars, not interested in geopolitics)
-lack of hobbies (sleeping and angry birds)
-family stress (family hates foreigners)
-lack of skills (she burns food, microwaves books, and doesn't know how to use a screwdriver)
-always lost
-poor problem solving skills
-lack of creative thinking
hey vic, i have to admit it though. You are smarter than prettier.hahahaha
Victoria1987:
Are you making fun of me?I dont really trust people on this site honestly.
stan118:
yeah and after some of the comments you made people can see how narrow minded you are and will just make jokes, somethings are better kept in your head, now i understand why you cant find a guy, not cos your desperate, but because your an idiot, liking people is a matter of taste not what you described and looking down on your own race is just appalling, you just brought down your whole race like its impossible to find a good looking chinese man,
"White race is the best.........So why not I go for much better one?lol.It is nothing wrong to choose the better race." ,,,,hhmmm sounds like Hitler, no?
did she get banned for being a chinese white sepremist?
