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Q: Is it possible to fall in love with a girl from a massage place?

I had been going to this massage place and the girl was just amazing and cute and fun.  Would it be wrong to like someone in that profession?

12 years 16 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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Awww take a camera crew with you and you'll have your own version of Pretty Woman.

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I know a lot of guys who have married bar/ktv/massage girls.  They seem to have the same odds as a normal marriage of being successful.

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I don't think they are any more likely to fool around more than any other kind of girl.

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Sure...she is probably looking for a way out of it, and you would get free massages everyday!
But if you are serious, be prepared to subsidize her lost income if you ask her to quit.

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to each his own but i wouldnt do it. working in that profession turns women into monsters. everything is manipulation becoz it gets you to keep coming back and paying. there is no emotional attachment. you will just be a means to an end for her. 

you cant turn a "massage girl" into a house wife.

but good luck with whatever you do and be ready to pay at least 20k rmb to whoever she works for. that "secures her release" 

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I think yes. They are women. I met a woman from a massage parlour and I can't stop thinking of her. She just appealed to me so strongly, she was pretty and oh so good. Would I date her tho,, NO.

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Damn.... I would date her. That's freaking printing money machine.

And don't we all want a ho in bed?

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Its easy to fall in love in a massage place..but you need to discern the following..From experience there are 2 kind of ladies in massage places.

1.) Bad girls..Ho's..don't even think about it. It will end in ruin.

2.) Good girls. They work there because they have to. You could develop a relationship with those ladies based on trust and mutual respect.

The question is...how discerning are YOU?

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