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Q: is it true that chinese girls dont like chinese guys?
I have been talking to some chinese girls and most of them tell me that they prefer western guys to chinese csuse we are more straight talking, more fun, better in bed, and other reasons. They like complaining about chinese guys in different ways
it is strange they never mention "money" as one of the main reasons...
I can see some absolutely pretty girls with total jackass who is having a car and all that...
financial problems are a lot of hell...
Not true. Talked to girls, and some where very unwilling to deal with foreigners at all (in their mind, way too much troubles, being with the family, administrative headaches and so on). Others didn't care much about the origin of their boyfriend, they just want someone they love and get loved in return. The fetishist one are a minority, I think.
With a population of way over a billion I suspect they do like Chinese men.
They also complain about western men, saying they are unreliable, play games, less attentive etc... women will always complain about men and vice versa, it's just how it is...
Yes, all Chinese women hate all Chinese men, that is why pureblood Chinese are a dying race. All Chinese women secretly yearn to leave China and/or be with an upstanding foreign individual such as yourself.
All Chinese men are clearly bad, evil, and they all have three inches or less between their legs. All Chinese men are nothing but greedy, evil, manipulative, cheating individuals.
On the other hand, all non-Chinese men are upstanding hard-working individuals that never cheat, are perfect in the sack, and none of us have ever heard of anything under 10 or 11 inches between our legs. We are the Master Race.
Assnugget.
Chinese girls who hang around foreign guys generally prefer foreign guys. Chinese girls who avoid foreign guys generally prefer Chinese men. So you're not getting input from the girls who avoid you. Sounds logical right? Why did you even bother to ask this question? For the points?
JacobJohn:
...and you're told what you want to hear, so no surprise he's getting this sort of input. I kinda think he's being played.
It's true that it depends on the woman in question.
I guess there are those who know it can be longer than a finger and half a minute, and those who don't.
I was talking to a young lady, 21 years old, yesterday about this. She said what she and her friends were looking for was more romance from their boyfriends and husbands. Rightly or wrongly Englishmen, I am one, were seen as romantic. She said boyfriends here do not just cuddle or kiss goodnight or anything like that. They will try when they want sex but that is all. A lot of women here want more and they want to be appreciated. I made her very happy when I kissed her hand in the middle of the supermarket and told I looked forward to meeting her again. It was not my attempt to get her into bed, I am married and do not play around and she knows that; but I made her day and left her with a big grin on her face. If the Chinese guys want to up the ir game they must do it for themselves and not just think of their girlfriends as convenient sex.
raykwan121:
i dont agree , the girl ur talking about sounds abit shallow and she just felt prond of being kiss by a westener in public. if you was chinese, she would not think u was romantic at all . i know some of chinese guys aint comparable with westerners but they aint representative for all chinese guys.
tomcatflyer:
I know this girl and she is not at all shallow. This thing of wanting more from Chinese husbands and boyfriends is pretty widespread. A lot of the girls and women we speak to at our English corner all say very similar things. Although she and her friends are young and therefor you could say a little naive you could never describe her as shallow. They are very aware that there should be more to a serious relationship or marriage. The idea of romance is probably picked up from western movies which we know are not real but when that is some womens main exposure to our culture can they be blamed for basing their assumptions on that. They are definitely looking for more even if some are not fully aware of what it is. I think once the older generation have died we are going to see big changes in relationships here.
I don't think anybody much likes Chinese men.
Most of them have the personality of a fish. And are less trustworthy than a fish. And poorer manners than a fish.
Some are ok.
@frivoque they left out few details like in general you guys have more money and might be able to get them green card.
