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Q: is it weird that i dont find chinese guys attractive?
10 years 8 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Not weird because everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Some people don't find Chinese attractive while some find hobbits super attractive. To each his own.
Me neither! I like girls
more! My favourite pick-up line: 'Can I kiss you on the lips?'
After a while, when my request is granted, I comment: 'I didn't mean this lips!'……run for the cover, blue eye and things...
icnif77:
Can you tell sex of the voters at your reply? 5 males + 9&Hulk 
fems
O2
We all got preferences. I don't find Chinese girls attractive, for instance.
royceH:
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expatlife26:
i agree, I don't find anything appealing about Chinese women.
They're aggressive I guess when they think you're a prospect so they could be good for shy western guys.
conworldus:
Well I live in China.
I agree with expatlife. However, besides the fact that many Chinese women are more vile than a viper, I also find their severe lacking of bootie and knockers deeply troubling :P
icnif77:
Beauty today means 'small' around the World. Look at the Fashion shows, where women walk the 'catwalk'. You'll never see 'over meaty' fem.
We're switching to the 'taste', so I'll stop, buTt….China is blast, IMO.
See beauty here:
http://fashion.telegraph.co.uk/galleries/
Sta:
haha Con i get you..back home i used to think i am skinny but ever since i got here,i dont think i am skinny anymore
Need more info. Are you an American female feminist, a gay Chinese man, an African gay guy who prefers to take rather than give, or a first time poster who has picked the wrong question to ask?
If the latter, try again.
If any of the former, pm me your qq 
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Hulk:
I don't get it. Are you looking for a big black dick up your ass?
Sta:
FYI I am an African woman...and i dont see the harm in my question! its just as normal as anything anyone can post..the fact that i am a first time poster doesnt mean shit dear! Get a grip and give a simple yes or no answer like everybody else otherwise dont comment if all you spit is negative.
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As a Chinese, I also dont find them attractive.
Japanese guys look better in Asia.
You are not wierd :)
No. I don't find most White or Native American chicks attractive. I have yellow fever. No, I have my-wife fever.
You don't have yellow fever. You have something-else fever.
People can't help what they're attracted to.
you don't say anything about yourself, so how can we know ?
The opposite question would be more interesting: Is it weird if you DO find Chinese guys attractive? Only if you're not Chinese yourself.
Go to a gym & find out why. Never seen so many she-boys (young & old ) spending sooo much time looking at themselves in the mirror!! Its damn sickening...
Do that sort of crap in an Aust gym ~ out the window mate!!
On a more serious note, knew an American guy who has lived in over 10 countries, by virtue of his job. Said he has always connected with the local guys, BUT not in China, just could not relate to them...?
I know generalisations are a terrible thing, but I have taught (mainly adults) in BJ & QD for some years, and only found a very few guys, what I call interesting & hey I tried...
Personally speaking, think the Chinese guys are very lucky to have the local girls.
Robk:
I agree... I find Chinese guys to be insanely boring... and are either very feminine... or very... arrogant, self-centered and have terrible manners.
Honestly, MOST (maybe just most people are shallow) of the Chinese women are shallow as well. Besides being beautiful, you really don't have much to talk about with them or any common ground...
expatlife26:
I’m with RobK on this one; I think that guys who like the attention from local girls overrate their personalities.
I don’t think the women here really are any more interesting than the guys on average nor are they especially sexy or attractive. If I just wanted to be shallow, I’d date a Russian student over any Chinese girl every time and I think if most guys were being honest with themselves would too. However I aspire to date women I have things in common with other than attraction and a couple TV shows.
what??? the ''''' hhhaaaacccckkkkk''' noise b4 spitting phlegm at random doesn't turn u on ?!?!?
yep, u r weird~
Thumbs up for Hulk's reply to Scot...as I can't give you a thumbs up on the comment....
It's okay. Not everybody thinks rice is delicious. So I guess Chinese guys are not for everybody either.
I don't either but let's face it, they're not trying real hard!
thanks for including more information about yourself - it was unclear from your original post of you were male or female.
either way, it is not weird that you don't find Chinese men attractive.
each person has a individual preference, for some it is race, for others it is personality, or it could be a combination of both.
for me the over-supply of the first (race) is out-weighed by the lack of the second (personality)
I am pretty certain my comment was deleted from this thread. I notice people's comments disappearing here and there if they give an opinion on something that possibly a moderator doesn't like...
Is this a technical issue or is a moderator with some hurt feelings?
sorrel:
check your sent comments - you can see which threads/comments have been deemed invalid
