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Q: Ladies laowai, why not dating Chinese guys?
So long story short. Today I have met a friend who's been here for a few months, a White girl who doesn't get all the attention she's used to back home and can't stand the sight of Foreign guys going with Chinese girls, she finds herself too fat (compared with Chinese girls) even though she is slim and really hot, I suggested she opens her mind and try to find a local guy, she replied with a firm "Not going to happen".
What's up ladies? Why not giving it a try? Plenty of nice guys in China.
You can't blame a girl for not wanting to date Chinese guys*, but what is her problem with men dating Chinese girls? Throw her off a bridge. If you can lift her.
* In answer to your question, a lot of Chinese "men" have no personality (and have even less as they get older), are insecure around other guys and compensate by boasting. They generally aren't competent at things like lovemaking, doing housework, participating in stimulating conversations, planning hiking trips, changing tires or battling spiders. Their lack of competence, self-assurance, initiative and reliability isn't a turn-on for most girls.
If your friend is not used to male attention she might enjoy Chinese boys' pitifully superficial romantic gestures like giving her a rose on Valentine's Day. But she should also like League of Legends, because most Chinese boys like that more than they like girls.
You can't blame a girl for not wanting to date Chinese guys*, but what is her problem with men dating Chinese girls? Throw her off a bridge. If you can lift her.
* In answer to your question, a lot of Chinese "men" have no personality (and have even less as they get older), are insecure around other guys and compensate by boasting. They generally aren't competent at things like lovemaking, doing housework, participating in stimulating conversations, planning hiking trips, changing tires or battling spiders. Their lack of competence, self-assurance, initiative and reliability isn't a turn-on for most girls.
If your friend is not used to male attention she might enjoy Chinese boys' pitifully superficial romantic gestures like giving her a rose on Valentine's Day. But she should also like League of Legends, because most Chinese boys like that more than they like girls.
On that topic, I always drop that and leave
RandomGuy:
Yes, good example and I knew that blog already, they seem very happy, not all local guys are weirdos, I don't get why there are so few AMWF couples, I mean compared to WMAF couples.
For most this has something to do with expectations regarding the role of male and female which is a part of mass consciousness. It takes a truly intelligent, independent mind to see through the smokescreen and be freed of their influence. The position and posture of the actors in these posters from different eras says a lot...... If you manage to find such a guy in PRC, can you deal with the xiao sans, xiao nth? 
The size thing just isn't true. I walked around my Chinese gym completely naked and I did get a few stares. It's true that I was bigger than most. Although I was aroused - Chinese guys are damned hot. I'm a sucker for small genatailia.
yongge:
Just want to check on your grammar - do you mean a sucker of or a sucker for...
small dicks,no personality , short thin and girly, tell me one reason why should i go for them
Lord_hanson:
Since the sex lasts just 1 minute you will have more free time. Does that count as a good reason?
small dicks,no personality , short thin and girly, tell me one reason why should i go for them
As far i see, foreign girls never prefer chinese guys.There are exceptions also but foreign girls prefer manly guys.Usually chinese guys are too small for them.
One chinese dude told me his experience with a polish and he said he didnt feel anything. so maybe size matters
Happily married to a Chinese shuaige. Race doesn't matter when it comes to love. Jia you!
Happily married to a Chinese shuaige. Race doesn't matter when it comes to love. Jia you!
How about general hygiene? The smell of cigarette smoke and dirt in their clothing, fish and garlic on their breath, and a bed-head to top it off wouldn't drop my panties if I were a lady.
No wonder they're so possessive-they're afraid the gal might have buyer's remorse.
iryna_keis:
some of them smell pretty awful. Recently I had a Chinese class with a male Chinese teacher. It was my first and the very last class with him. His teaching wasn't bad, the reason is his breath. I cant even imagine how i would date him or somebody else like him. Actually I know one really nice Chinese guy, but he has been living abroad for the last ten years.
Susya:
I guess you've never been in the Moscow underground. People sweat and drink so much more there.
