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Q: Marriage/relationships were screwed up after coming to China?

I have heard the married male expat got divorced/split up after living in China for a while.

Because of the aggressive ladies here?

 

Was it also happened on some of the people you know here or back home?

 

Is it that serious to let your caucasian husbands/boyfriends to live or work in China?c

9 years 11 weeks ago in  Relationships - China

 
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I heard a few stories of married couple moving to China for work, and the husband leaving for a younger & "ambitious" girl. I kinda feel people don't change this fast, people just reveal what they were hiding before. I don't see it happening all the time around me (none of the mix couple I know are in such situation), I've no idea how often it happen.

 

Scolding your boyfriend/husband for his potential infidelity of course won't do anything but trigger bad moods and arguments ^^ Learn to know each other, keep the couple alive, take care of each other...

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i think this is a common problem no matter which country u live and who u married with especially for the transnational marriage. i never heard some caucasian husband or boyfriend was treated worse or others aggress the ladies who marry with a foreigner. i think this depend on yourself , if u respect your wife/ girlfriend and treat them well, understand each other especially the different culture....so i think it's well no matter where u live. china is an inclusive country, so if u are goodness and friendly, and u love her deeply, then why worried so much about that.

even if 2 chinese marry, also have chance to divorce, so relax and come on, best wishes for u

 

 

lilichristian:

China is so different.

 

If you're a caucasian guy with just a normal face taller than 165cm, under age 50 ,you'll know what I'm talking about

 

Same case in Thailand.

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Chinese women are much worse sorry. I have seen terrible behavior even in parks with Chinese women running up to married men with their children. One friend told about the whores trying to get her husband at work. Finally she told him she'd divorce him and shame him in front of their kids. They deserve the bad reputation they have. They're embarrassing. 

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I heard a few stories of married couple moving to China for work, and the husband leaving for a younger & "ambitious" girl. I kinda feel people don't change this fast, people just reveal what they were hiding before. I don't see it happening all the time around me (none of the mix couple I know are in such situation), I've no idea how often it happen.

 

Scolding your boyfriend/husband for his potential infidelity of course won't do anything but trigger bad moods and arguments ^^ Learn to know each other, keep the couple alive, take care of each other...

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That wasn't me it was a friend. It actually worked. It was quite funny to see how quickly he backed off the harlots. She had a privacy phone too and had all her gym buddies call her on that- just friends mind you- and told her husband it was private. Hilarious. Oh and they did talk but all his goofball friends were running around so he thought he'd give it a try. She wouldn't stand for it. 

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