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Q: Most guys are looking for fun and sex on the dating site?
10 years 16 weeks ago in Relationships - China
Goodness no, Victoria.
When we click on a random girl's picture, we are anticipating life-long responsibility and commitment. We do so with the full intention of raising children together, and buying a house and an Audi so that our future mother-in-law will be impressed with us. That's what we are thinking.
diverdude1:
sure gave me a chuckle....
but since when did Audi dethrone Mercedes ?!?
when I was young we said ... 'slidin' a 'Ced....'
coolest of the cool..... 500 Series if u had the do re mi.
I see that you have not changed your approach at all since telling you were never coming back to this site and then did exactly that. Your last reply to Sorrel, who gave you excellent advice as did Paul, is really funny. You complain that some people still get your meaning wrong, which of course is entirely their fault, but miss the blatantly obvious. With a picture like that you are clearly advertising that you are either very easy or just a tease. Either way no man who is looking for serious relationship is going to bother with girl who blatantly advertises herself in such a way. You are doing what you have done many time before here, ask for advice and then ignore it because you think you are right.
tomcatflyer:
How could she be anything but Chinese with her attitude. Several of us have tried to give her good advice before, but getting her to understand that there might b another way apart from her way is next to impossible.
Yes Victoria, most guys are looking for sex on dating sites.
But that only answers one half of your question, the other half 'fun' isn't going to be found on a dating site, it's going to be found in the Burger King nearest to you 
Victoria1987:
They told me that they are looking for fun already.Some cute guys told me to have fun with them,like sex.
I don't know many people who are looking for sadness and celibacy.
coineineagh:
On a BCD, sadness and celibacy seems more appealing than abject misery and some sex.
Victoria,
as i have said in previous answers to your many questions, i wish you only the best.
my answers have been based on concern for you and the choices you have made.
However, you have chosen to show poor manners to the many genuinely helpful posters by childishly insulting them.
many of the (happily) married foreign men on this forum have tried helping you understand the male point of view when it comes to foreign men, and what they think about Chinese girls.
you are doing yourself no favours insulting people here, just because you disagree with them. You will always find people who don't agree with you. The adult thing to do is accept their point of view and move on, as i do.
As i have said before, YOU make the choices in your life, so you can't blame others if things don't work out, despite their best efforts to help you.
If you have found a foreign guy who accepts you, that is great and i am happy for you.
I hope it works out.
Victoria1987:
As I said you are just a fool.I didn;t even met someone judge me by my butt on the dating site.
In fact,some guys just told me it is because of they are looking for fun,it is the problem they didn't choose me.In fact,a lot of western guy told I am very intelliguent.You funny girl.Why should I listen to a fool liek you who has no brain.Samsara:
Holy god, Victoria.
Sorrel is the most reasonable, dignified, gently-spoken, good-natured and helpful member of this forum. Her advice is always sound, never contemptuous or sarcastic, and not in the least bit foolish. Unfortunately you're not interested in sound advice. You're interested in people validating your belief that you are "cute", "sexy" and "intelligent".
So allow me to translate Sorrel's words into a medium you are more receptive to: Praise.
Oh my god Victoria you are so elegant, sophisticated, sexy, cosmopolitan and intelligent, which is quite amazing for someone who looks not a day over 19. I am simultaneously enamored and jealous of you; in particularly your magnificently round, firm and youthful looking ass. Any man who doesn't immediately commit to a long-term relationship based solely on your 'booty pictures' is obviously gay. In fact, I lament being born a woman because I want to be your lover. The only conceivable way you could be more desirable is if you changed your avatar and started listening to advice. By the way I love you.
-Sorrel
royceH:
What's this?? Vicky loves Sorrel? Holy guacamole.... this seems so obvious now that you mention it!
