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Q: My bf dont want to buy me iPad "not yet"? what it means?

I asked to buy me iPad cause he say it really good product. My bf buy one for he and i try and it very good. I ask him to buy for me too because he is rich enough to buy 2. He said "not yet" but I know he have enough money to buy.

Y is he wait and what do "not yet" mean in Westerner mind?

7 years 48 weeks ago in  Shopping - China

 
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you should let your bf look at your posts here on echinacities... he'll dump your ass...

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not yet means not now,,,, beside you can use his,,,, see you are already asking for gifts,,,you should not ask,,,gifts are given,,,,i don't have one either,,, i don't want one,,, but can any one buy me one too?

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wow. its only been a couple of weeks and already asking for expensive gifts. who says chinese girls aren't materialistic!!

just because your boyfriend has money doesn't mean he should just give it to you.

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I might buy u one if I am richer than u.

But agreed, gifts r not asked but given.

And even he is rich, that doesn't mean he has the obligation to pay for u, only if he wants. To date a rich man doesn't mean u can get rich, he can be really cheap to u. If it's about money, better try to make the money by urself.

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thk wenna!

and if he do not want, he said he want me happy? He no like you, he real man, not just u Westerner think u know all CHINA!

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The really rich people I know are really cheap,, I think they fear spending all their money and being poor. But i doubt your BF is that rich. Why do you want ipad?

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vehruoglan you need to grow up a little. you come off as an immature little girl. first all foreigners are perverts. then you meet one you like and fall n love and want to marry him in the space of 2 weeks. and now you demand an ipad.

a little advise, western perverts see a relationship as a partnership. 2 equal parts. most dont want a little child to take care of and shower with expensive gifts for no other reason than to feel like a big man taking care of the poor defensive girl. if this is your idea of a relationship you will be sorely disappointed, i suggest you find yourself a chinese guy who can give you want you want.

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Wetsrener ar selfish dont never trust all of them. China have all need be, if u want change try other region! Wink

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What he means is that asking for an ipad from a guy you've only been with for 3 weeks is not a good idea.

All you've said so far is that you know him for 3 weeks, you want him to meet your parents (even though he doesn't), you refuse to have sex with him (which is fine) and now you want him to start buying you ipads?

Maybe you need to reassess exactly what YOU'RE giving to him...I mean, at the moment you seem to be asking for a lot and not giving much in return. You're worse than a golddigger, because you don't even put out.

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Not yet means not right now. 3 weeks and expensive gifts? He probably wants to know you better before he starts giving you expensive things

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"Wetsrener ar selfish dont never trust all of them."

Oddly, it's not my country or any other non-China country that is famous around the world for lying, cheating, copying and outright stealing...

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Wow you want shit? Why not charge him by the hour?

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I agree with godedenfaisse! Find a Chinese guy to buy you shit and you don't need to put out because they don't like sex and their not perverts!! Please, listen to godedenfaisse!!

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This chick is a troll you guys, there is no way she's this vapid.

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I believe wenna7 is about 4 of these "posters"

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vehruoglan, here's the question... If you get the Ipad, will you put out? But I'm pretty sure you'll need to put out before you get it as I don't think you're trust worthy...

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y would have I sex for ipad? u think Chinese are prostitution? He no ready to meet parents, I no ready for he go in my pants. Clear no?

Why u all no understand what traditional China culture?

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I don't think "Chinese" are prostitutes but you sound like you could be a prostitute... We don't understand because from what I can see there is little left of traditional China culture in Chinese cities on the mainland... I do understand it, I go to HK or Taiwan I can see it, even in some of the rural parts of the Chinese mainland (that were unscathed by the cultural revolution for example) but you do not in any way represent that. You should not be with a foreigner.

Anyway... Have you had sex with him yet? Will you have sex if someone buys you an Ipad?

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I is no prostitute, njord. if i have sex with my bf, its because he my bf and love is mutual, not for ipad. Why u always talk sex, njord?

and have u travel all China to say u know real traditional China? please teach me all!

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Don't ask for such expensive gifts so early in the relationship. Maybe having sex very early in the relationship is strange for you (and I think that's fine), but giving expensive gifts very early in the relationship is strange for a laowai.

So, if you want to date someone of a different cultural group than you, you have to be willing to make compromises.

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I know you're not a prostitute, you just sound like one. I like sex so why not talk about it, besides, isn't that what you think all the foreigners here want anyway, so I'm living up to your stereo type.

I couldn't or wouldn't teach you anything as it would be wasted on you. You've learned all you need to learn from school and CCTV. The sad thing is... I likely do know more about traditional CHINA than you... I don't even know you but I'm still confident saying that.
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u learn China from West countrys, of course u think u know all, but its false madeup to make China be bad. Watch CCTV to understand, talk to real traditional Chinese to understand. U dont have good attitude to be real knowledge China whole.

U should be like my bf, hes more smart than u and is respect for REAL traditional China

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vehruoglan, if he's so smart please have him proof read your posts... You're butchering the language!! Also I think once your BF realizes what an idiot you are he'll be long gone (unless he's related to Fritze then he may marry you and join your crusade to denounce the foreigners and praise China blindly)

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"u learn China from West countrys, of course u think u know all, but its false madeup to make China be bad. Watch CCTV to understand, talk to real traditional Chinese to understand. U dont have good attitude to be real knowledge China whole.

U should be like my bf, hes more smart than u and is respect for REAL traditional China"

You've been tricked into thinking China is complication and hard to understand. It's not. This country hasn't evolved in 3000 years.

Our countries have HUNDREDS of cultures mashed into one area. Much more complciated, understanding another culture is natural to us. Chinese can't understand other cultures, so they think other cultures can't understand them. Typical China stupidty.

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Wow, well said toad! Thumbs up for you! Wink

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Btw we all PERFECTLY UNDERSTAND Chinese culture. We just think it's stupid.

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