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Q: My chinese g/f ex boyfriend is sending threatening text messeges what to do?
He is sending me messeges about to get out of china or he will kill me and her. He even called the police once who called her asking if everything is ok. I really love this girl....what should i do?
11 years 46 weeks ago in Relationships - China
You need to pay "certain" people to pay him a visit.
Everything here can be bought for a price.
Or you could do it yourself....visit his home and send him a message.
Texas, change sim cards and number along with your g/f. Then I would ensure that what you have with her is real, there is a reason behind everything and Chinese girls rarely just cut it off with their ex-boyfriends. Not to offend you, but I've seen too many newbies come to China and fall for the first Chinese girl who will have them, wasn't long ago you posted a topic of how to find a traditional Chinese girl. Play the field and find the right one for you, not find the first one you can talk to.
If I'm wrong, I'm sorry, if I'm correct i'm also sorry for you will be like many others and jump into a quick relationship that has about 20% chance of working out and 80% chance of encountering problems.
dharma86:
I agree.
And you can't be so sure how exactly she's communicating with him behind your back. (especially if it is in Chinese).
Chinese boys can be cunning when it comes to women and the girls can be soft touches for their ex's. Be careful.
xunliang:
good answer. Its sad to say but if the relationship carries on like this, it aint going to last for long. Either you'll get tired/scared/killed, or she'll go back to him. Why hasnt she changed her sim? Ask her
Jillian:
Agree with you , my real advice for Texas is to leave that girl. Pay somebody to give a lesson to that man seems easy and cool in the movie , but in the reality , it can prove very difficult and troublesome .it may bring bigger problems , what's more , you are foreigner and don't have much support if anything really happens.
what about Introducing a hot foreign girl to that man ?
HugAPanda:
yeah because hot foreign girls want little possessive chinese men that cant handle breakups and send people threatening text messages. It's like our dream come true.
HugAPanda:
lol. No thanks. I prefer strong, confident men with a soft heart and without abusive tendencies and abandonment issues.
Sense of humor and the ability to comprehend sarcasm is a must.HugAPanda:
was what sarcasm?? my first comment? damn tootin it was! My second comment, truth. All truth. Pogger's comment... I think it was. Was your comment sarcasm? What are you trying to prove :P
yep, i bet Texascowboy can use money to resolve the issue without bloodshed.
pay some cash and and tomorrow people will find him in some shit hole
Change your number, and move city if you have to. And if you do move city give him a call hire some goonies or you can give him the old thunder and lightning then move on with your life.
go to police and embassy tell them you're being threatened , so next time he comes near u just punch right in his face.
Call the policeman,simple is,you need to use the law and government to protect you and your gf
it is text how can you tell maybe it just seems worst.
